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MuseRider

(35,093 posts)
Thu May 15, 2025, 05:58 PM May 2025

This may sound really dumb but

I am feeling like I need to give each of you a big hug. Life is getting harder and more worrisome. I just think a group hug would help me a lot right now. If it would help you then hop on. All this time and I really "know" so few of you but we are often really close anyway. I just felt today a growing dread about what is ahead, a lot more than ever before. I think we will win but it is going to cost us a lot. The costs will come from all sides and will be terribly hard. We can do this but I need a hug, really. I would normally never write anything like this, my independent streak stops me usually but today I feel beat and tired. So, if the sentiment is enough to help any of you please join in. Just a hug unless you need more then go for it, I have lots to share I love hugs. We can toughen up soon but right now I need to feel warm and positive feelings.

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This may sound really dumb but (Original Post) MuseRider May 2025 OP
Done. jls4561 May 2025 #1
Thanks and right back to you. MuseRider May 2025 #3
Definitely! ananda May 2025 #2
:-) Thanks! MuseRider May 2025 #5
I also love DU and appreciate member comments and advice vapor2 May 2025 #4
They have heard from me. MuseRider May 2025 #8
... SheltieLover May 2025 #6
Awwwwww MuseRider May 2025 #10
Thx! SheltieLover May 2025 #25
Thank you. We are on the best side, it is always the best over here. MuseRider May 2025 #11
Absolutely wendyb-NC May 2025 #7
Thank you! MuseRider May 2025 #13
Include me in !!!! I share your feelings...make sure you look at the memes, Karadeniz May 2025 #9
Always, it is such a nice place to go when it gets tough! MuseRider May 2025 #16
No problem. Buns_of_Fire May 2025 #12
My kitty just gave me the biggest head bump MuseRider May 2025 #17
Here my friend malaise May 2025 #14
Thank you, love you lots. MuseRider May 2025 #18
The only way out now is through, and we'll just have to go through together. Scrivener7 May 2025 #15
Ohhhh how true that is. MuseRider May 2025 #19
Well, thank you. And yes, it is so wearing. I am finding myself hibernating from Scrivener7 May 2025 #21
Good evening! MuseRider May 2025 #77
Hugs for you, and all of our DU community. alwaysinasnit May 2025 #20
Right back to you! MuseRider May 2025 #85
Wow! I think you just read my mind. hamsterjill May 2025 #22
Aren't we fortunate KT2000 May 2025 #23
Recommended. H2O Man May 2025 #24
Thank you for those quote! When I feel weak inside Quakerfriend May 2025 #56
Excellent idea! Phoenix61 May 2025 #26
Sure markodochartaigh May 2025 #27
Me too I've been getting anxiety attacks every evening Walleye May 2025 #28
I knew it. ReRe May 2025 #79
Thanks so much, it's really good to know. I'm not completely alone. Walleye May 2025 #88
Count me in. 3catwoman3 May 2025 #29
If you're not feeling these feelings right now, you're not paying attention. yellow dahlia May 2025 #30
Count me in too! Today seems to be overflowing with bad juju Attilatheblond May 2025 #31
Here you go! MLAA May 2025 #32
A big group hug. LoisB May 2025 #33
Thank you so much, back at you! 💙💙💙 LiberalLoner May 2025 #34
Don't forget to get outside some!! CrispyQ May 2025 #35
Thank you Rwheeler32 May 2025 #36
For you, for us... sprinkleeninow May 2025 #37
Nothing dumb about it senseandsensibility May 2025 #38
Hug me canetoad May 2025 #39
Huggggggggggggs niyad May 2025 #40
Scary Times..... spanone May 2025 #41
🤗 claudette May 2025 #42
Me too Figarosmom May 2025 #43
Hugs are NEVER dumb OddMom20 May 2025 #44
move over....let me in stillcool May 2025 #45
I always have extra hugs to give radical noodle May 2025 #46
I agree JMCKUSICK May 2025 #47
Hugs SallyHemmings May 2025 #48
Back atcha. We gotta be here for each other. Stay connected! n/t TygrBright May 2025 #49
Hugs and love to you. Hope22 May 2025 #50
... AKwannabe May 2025 #51
I love that you posted this! Thank you for the hugs and sharing your feelings. Big bear hug KitFox May 2025 #52
((((((((((Here you go)))))))))) dchill May 2025 #53
Here you go wryter2000 May 2025 #54
:) Solly Mack May 2025 #55
Much needed Grim Chieftain May 2025 #57
You got it. Hang tough. Evolve Dammit May 2025 #58
(((((Hugs)))) Srkdqltr May 2025 #59
❤️ littlemissmartypants May 2025 #60
Hugs all around... FemDemERA May 2025 #61
Not dumb at all Cirsium May 2025 #62
Even being tough, we'd better be open to the possibilities: hugs back atcha! marble falls May 2025 #63
*Hugs* - I needed that too. NH Ethylene May 2025 #64
Hugs MuseRider Clouds Passing May 2025 #65
I hear you. Great idea, MuseRider. I need some hugs, too. No place better than from our DU family. wordstroken May 2025 #66
Sending a group hug. ChazII May 2025 #67
Hey, Bro! ChazInAz May 2025 #96
Your timing, MuseRider, is impeccable. CareyOn May 2025 #68
I woke up with dread this morning. barbtries May 2025 #69
Hey you are a great human being. bronxiteforever May 2025 #70
I feel the same. ChazInAz May 2025 #71
A big hug from this soon to be 20-year DUer swimboy May 2025 #72
... live love laugh May 2025 #73
... judesedit May 2025 #74
Done MustLoveBeagles May 2025 #75
Big virtual hugs Alice Kramden May 2025 #76
I hear you and TOTALLY relay Kali May 2025 #78
When I think "hug"... this image always comes to mind... ultralite001 May 2025 #80
Not dumb at all; I feel how you feel. babylonsister May 2025 #81
Hugs! Bayard May 2025 #82
Here's to you, MuseRider! ReRe May 2025 #83
Big Hug, we all needs hugs, more so doing this Stressful period ... cliffside May 2025 #84
I'm not one for touchy-feely stuff Skittles May 2025 #86
I HAVE TO SLEEP you all are the best. THE best. MuseRider May 2025 #87
Here is my hug for you Delmette2.0 May 2025 #89
What a lovely post. MorbidButterflyTat May 2025 #90
These are stressful times and will probably get worse, but people will DO THE RIGHT THING when the time comes. usonian May 2025 #91
((((((Hugs))))) alittlelark May 2025 #92
Hugs back to you GigiLeigh May 2025 #93
A hug for you cate94 May 2025 #94
Consider this a hug back. BadgerMom May 2025 #95
Thanks for the hug! HeartsCanHope May 2025 #97
A hug for you, and everyone else who needs one. highplainsdem May 2025 #98
❤️❤️❤️ ybbor May 2025 #99
Virtual hug to ya. iluvtennis May 2025 #100
(((((HUG))))) UpInArms May 2025 #101
Hugs are good things LetMyPeopleVote May 2025 #102
Feeling the same BigMin28 May 2025 #103
Always get a ((hug))from me deminks May 2025 #104
Yeah it sounds dumb Bluestocking May 2025 #105
Here ya go MuseRider Faux pas May 2025 #106
Pass. I don't do hugs, group or otherwise. And I avoid warm & positive feelings. elocs May 2025 #107

MuseRider

(35,093 posts)
3. Thanks and right back to you.
Thu May 15, 2025, 06:02 PM
May 2025

Hugs are wonderful, they can get you through most any horrible situation. Thank you.

vapor2

(3,637 posts)
4. I also love DU and appreciate member comments and advice
Thu May 15, 2025, 06:03 PM
May 2025

I hope we can survive this shit too but keep fighting and call several republicans to voice your opinions

MuseRider

(35,093 posts)
8. They have heard from me.
Thu May 15, 2025, 06:08 PM
May 2025

Some of them will not forget me and our successful LGBT rights group and our women's rights group. We LOVE here in Kansas, and expect all to be treated with dignity and care, at least the Democrats do. THANK YOU! Keep it going, we cannot afford to wear out .

MuseRider

(35,093 posts)
10. Awwwwww
Thu May 15, 2025, 06:12 PM
May 2025

that is a nice, warm hug and I am sending one back to you. We've got this. Everything good is on our side. We just need to stay up and together. YAY

Karadeniz

(24,719 posts)
9. Include me in !!!! I share your feelings...make sure you look at the memes,
Thu May 15, 2025, 06:11 PM
May 2025

Cartoons and animal posts... A brief respite !!!

Scrivener7

(58,146 posts)
15. The only way out now is through, and we'll just have to go through together.
Thu May 15, 2025, 06:16 PM
May 2025

We will get through.
My warmest alliance is with you. Hang in there.

MuseRider

(35,093 posts)
19. Ohhhh how true that is.
Thu May 15, 2025, 06:27 PM
May 2025

I have little doubt we can do whatever we have to do but is already so wearing on us. You should write that on a thread of your own, it is very powerful, simple and moving.

Scrivener7

(58,146 posts)
21. Well, thank you. And yes, it is so wearing. I am finding myself hibernating from
Thu May 15, 2025, 06:30 PM
May 2025

it, concentrating very hard on my neighborhood garden and fiction books and (Democratic) family and biking and anything not to do with that thing.

MuseRider

(35,093 posts)
77. Good evening!
Thu May 15, 2025, 08:56 PM
May 2025

Just got back on as I was taking care of my horses, cats and dogs. For me that is essential to my emotional health just like all those things you do. Nobody should or could give up their lives. Enjoy, I have seen you here often enough that I KNOW you are in the trenches often enough. Can you even imagine if you had nothing but politics right now? I think I would be spinning out of control somewhere around Mars. Big to your . Nobody around here is doing too little.

hamsterjill

(16,912 posts)
22. Wow! I think you just read my mind.
Thu May 15, 2025, 06:31 PM
May 2025

First of all - hugs to you. Yes, we all need to feel warm and positive feelings, and we don't seem to get to enjoy that as much since January!

I believe there is a collective sadness over all that we see happening, and going unchecked. We know it's not right, feel helpless, and don't see anyone in power doing very much. At least that is the way that I feel quite a bit of late.

Some of us just feel it more deeply. I have a strong sense that Mother Earth, nature, whatever you want to call it - is groaning right now. She's been neglected and beaten, and she's just had enough. We are all a part of that collective whether we want to be or not, whether we address it or not, and whether we accept it or not. I'm not trying to get all "nutty" over this. I simply very definitely believe that our minds and our bodies sense the impending doom, and are reacting to it.

Hugs are the antidote. Taking care of ourselves and those around us will help. Believing we are not helpless will help, and ultimately, in my opinion, the next "leader" will come forth, and we will finally have someone who can battle Trump and we can feel safe again. We just don't know how long that's going to take.

KT2000

(21,907 posts)
23. Aren't we fortunate
Thu May 15, 2025, 06:35 PM
May 2025

to have DU. We understand each other during these trying times. Hugs

H2O Man

(78,507 posts)
24. Recommended.
Thu May 15, 2025, 06:39 PM
May 2025

I am convinced that we will win. But there will be suffering and death.

Yet, as Martin Luther King, Jr., noted, "unearned suffering is redemptive." And as Spinoza wrote, "But all noble things are as difficult as they are rare."

There is a cost, but there will be a reward. We will get there.

Quakerfriend

(5,882 posts)
56. Thank you for those quote! When I feel weak inside
Thu May 15, 2025, 07:35 PM
May 2025

I remind myself of the courage of the Ukrainian people despite all they’ve been through.

And yes, we will get there.

Walleye

(43,710 posts)
28. Me too I've been getting anxiety attacks every evening
Thu May 15, 2025, 06:43 PM
May 2025

I’m 76 years old and I live alone. I’ve always felt it was fine but I’m feeling more anxious lately. A hug would be nice. I wish we could all get together and sing folk songs or something.

ReRe

(12,164 posts)
79. I knew it.
Thu May 15, 2025, 09:00 PM
May 2025

I knew you and I had something in common, Walleye. Same age, and might as well live alone. A song came across my mind yesterday: Mike Cross, "Lord Preserve us and protect us, We've been drinkin whisky for breakfast". We are so lucky, Walleye, to have this place called DU to come to when we feel huggable. All you have to do is ask!

Attilatheblond

(8,145 posts)
31. Count me in too! Today seems to be overflowing with bad juju
Thu May 15, 2025, 06:50 PM
May 2025

Only way to fix that is with group support and love.

Don't know any of you in 'real life' but here, where I pay attention and try to be a good neighbor, I find so many to admire, and maybe even love. It's nice, in old age when one has lost many loved ones, to find a place where weird new friendships manage to develop and grow.



Years ago, when I would lurk around here, there was a thread called (((((Ripples))))). It made an impact & I think of it often when some small act of kindness crosses my view. You people revive, restore, reassure, and it is a saving grace words cannot describe.

CrispyQ

(40,614 posts)
35. Don't forget to get outside some!!
Thu May 15, 2025, 06:59 PM
May 2025

It always helps me. 🌳🐦

It's been 10 years. He's exhausting & he's getting so much worse. Plan to do something on No King's Day, no matter how small.

OddMom20

(57 posts)
44. Hugs are NEVER dumb
Thu May 15, 2025, 07:11 PM
May 2025

We’re all in this together, and that means we bolster each other up when needed. Hugs to you, MuseRider and to all members of the DU community (if you like hugs 😊

KitFox

(502 posts)
52. I love that you posted this! Thank you for the hugs and sharing your feelings. Big bear hug
Thu May 15, 2025, 07:25 PM
May 2025

and lots of gentle hugs coming back to you. I find myself breaking down in tears when seeing the accounts of such extreme cruelty. You know the feeling you get when you go to a rally or protest and you are surrounded by so many people who feel as you do. The DU family gives us that any time of the day or night and how fortunate we are! When I was an elementary school teacher, my days were full of hugs. I appreciate you, MuseRider, for reminding us the importance of virtual hugs too. 😊🩷🩷🩷🩷

NH Ethylene

(31,278 posts)
64. *Hugs* - I needed that too.
Thu May 15, 2025, 07:51 PM
May 2025

We are all lucky to be here with each other during this tough time.

Clouds Passing

(6,842 posts)
65. Hugs MuseRider
Thu May 15, 2025, 07:53 PM
May 2025


On top of all this dumpco garbage, I’m being confronted with major health challenges. More hugs

wordstroken

(1,402 posts)
66. I hear you. Great idea, MuseRider. I need some hugs, too. No place better than from our DU family.
Thu May 15, 2025, 07:56 PM
May 2025

CareyOn

(80 posts)
68. Your timing, MuseRider, is impeccable.
Thu May 15, 2025, 08:09 PM
May 2025

Sending my tightest hug and grateful for those coming back. This is so much more effective than the anxiety pills I just took.

barbtries

(31,096 posts)
69. I woke up with dread this morning.
Thu May 15, 2025, 08:09 PM
May 2025

pure dread. hope felt distant.
life under krasnov is a roller coaster. I honestly believe that nearly half of the country (magats) have #MassSociopathy and the rest of us have PTSD.

Heather Cox Richardson did a live this evening. Her message is honest but never defeatist.
https://www.youtube.com/live/ku8Db6eQnAU?si=kV817gzwNKN481Zr

ChazInAz

(2,991 posts)
71. I feel the same.
Thu May 15, 2025, 08:38 PM
May 2025

Here's a long, lingering one from me.

And more from the rest of the crew!

swimboy

(7,322 posts)
72. A big hug from this soon to be 20-year DUer
Thu May 15, 2025, 08:38 PM
May 2025

Hugs are vital and effective! Thank you for looking out for us. I give good hugs and one is yours!

ultralite001

(2,355 posts)
80. When I think "hug"... this image always comes to mind...
Thu May 15, 2025, 09:01 PM
May 2025

Joe Biden hugging his son, Hunter...



Holding you, + all of DU, in our 🧡💛💙...

cliffside

(1,580 posts)
84. Big Hug, we all needs hugs, more so doing this Stressful period ...
Thu May 15, 2025, 09:05 PM
May 2025


Joined DU in 2004 when times were tough

MuseRider

(35,093 posts)
87. I HAVE TO SLEEP you all are the best. THE best.
Thu May 15, 2025, 09:32 PM
May 2025

I have felt so much better since I started the thread. I was feeling scared and lost. I feel better but still have that scared feeling. I have to stop now but I will be back tomorrow to finish answering. ATM I can barely find my own keyboard but I always believe in answering people.

I feel boosted by all your power, thoughts and effort in SO many ways.

Back at it tomorrow to finish answering everyone. I feel SO much better just talking like this, sharing what life is about and how it should be and how perverted it is with this group in charge. I actually do feel we have a good chance to do this,make it right but is NOT going to be easy.

Back in the AM and thinking for the first time in a long time I will sleep well. Thank all of you for that, We have this,

We should always stop for the occasional HUG. As tired as I am I feel endlessly held up by all of you.

BIG HUGS AND SWEET DREAMS

Delmette2.0

(4,465 posts)
89. Here is my hug for you
Thu May 15, 2025, 11:00 PM
May 2025

This is a wonderful idea. I am happy to know you MuseRider.



And consider this a snuggle from a little Yorkie named Suki.

usonian

(23,297 posts)
91. These are stressful times and will probably get worse, but people will DO THE RIGHT THING when the time comes.
Thu May 15, 2025, 11:16 PM
May 2025

And the entire Putin cadre of treasonous bastards will be enjoying the lovely Northern California weather ON ALCATRAZ. There be sharks in the waters of the bay 🦈 🦈 🦈 🦈 🦈 🦈 🦈

And batteries 🔋 🔋 🔋 🔋 🔋 🔋 🔋 🔋 🔋 🔋!

https://www.democraticunderground.com/100220295160

Call them out and band together.

highplainsdem

(59,639 posts)
98. A hug for you, and everyone else who needs one.
Fri May 16, 2025, 04:46 PM
May 2025


I think we can all use a group hug right now.

Bluestocking

(467 posts)
105. Yeah it sounds dumb
Fri May 16, 2025, 05:39 PM
May 2025

Just kidding. That is nice
Every day I still can’t get beyond the idea that it is back in the White House. WTF. I think it is affecting my mental health.

 

elocs

(24,486 posts)
107. Pass. I don't do hugs, group or otherwise. And I avoid warm & positive feelings.
Fri May 16, 2025, 07:17 PM
May 2025

This is why I come to DU, for the bad news and sense of hopelessness I usually get here and to its credit, DU seldom disappoints on that.

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