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Celerity

(53,778 posts)
Thu Jan 15, 2026, 07:04 PM 9 hrs ago

The Heritage Foundation Proposes Federal "Marriage Bootcamp" in New Policy Blueprint



Heritage published its blueprint for federally subsidized "marriage bootcamps" run by churches.

https://globalextremism.org/post/project-2025-january-14th-update/

After the success of Project 2025, the authors at the Heritage Foundation have intensified their focus on imposing a Christian nationalist view of the ideal American family in 2026, urging the Trump administration to fund “marriage bootcamp” classes for unmarried couples living together. This is part of a 168-page policy document, released on January 8, 2026, that seeks to reshape how Americans form families. The report, titled “Saving America by Saving the Family,” builds on the policy framework Heritage established in Project 2025, the 920-page transition blueprint that has already guided the Trump administration’s overhaul of federal agencies. Where Project 2025 focused on restructuring government, it acted as a springboard for this new document which extends Heritage’s reach into private life, proposing cash incentives for marriage, discouragement of dating apps, and expanded Sunday closing laws.

Heritage describes the effort as a “culture-wide Manhattan Project” to reverse declining marriage and birth rates. “Our country will not survive if families continue to crumble at this rate,” Heritage President Kevin Roberts wrote. He warned that the United States is “dangerously close to being unable to reverse the decline” in family formation. The Heritage report defines marriage as “the committed union of one man and one woman” and calls it “the cornerstone” of civilization. Children, the authors write, are “divine gifts” arriving through “God’s grace.” The report cites Aristotle and Cicero in arguing that family serves as the foundation of political order. Heritage argues that federal policy should favor heterosexual married couples over same-sex couples, unmarried partners living together, polyamorous relationships, and people who choose to parent alone. “Fathers and mothers are not generic and interchangeable parents,” Heritage writes. The report acknowledges that IVF has helped people build families but recommends against the practice outside of marriage.

Churches would apply for federal grants to run the bootcamps. Heritage cites a $35 million HHS program called Helping Every Area of Relationships Thrive (HEART), an evolution of healthy marriage grants that date back to George W. Bush’s Healthy Marriage Initiative in 2002, as the funding model. Participants would learn communication, money management, fidelity, and conflict resolution. Nonprofits, radio spots, transit ads, and social media would drive recruitment. At the end, a communal wedding. Couples walk down the aisle together and receive a $5,000 wedding bonus from private foundations. Mentor couples would guide them afterward. Grantees get paid based on marriage success rates. The report doesn’t define what counts as success or how long marriages must last. Heritage proposes HHS-funded ad campaigns. One suggested slogan: “Give her a ring before she gives you a baby.” The report holds up then-Mayor Michael Bloomberg’s 2013 teen pregnancy public service announcement ads as a model.

These ads blatantly shamed young mothers and featured photos of toddlers asking, “Honestly, Mom, chances are he won’t stay with you. What happens to me?” Beyond marriage bootcamp, Heritage’s report proposes $2,500 deposits into investment accounts for couples who marry by age 30. Married biological parents would receive a new tax credit equal to the $17,670 adoption tax credit, with a 25 percent bonus for families with three or more children. The report encourages couples to have an average of two children to maintain the population. U.S. fertility dropped to a record low of 1.59 children per woman in 2024. The Heritage report also discourages online dating and calls for expanding blue laws, which restrict Sunday alcohol sales in some states, into a “universal day of rest.” The report asks President Trump to sign executive orders requiring every federal grant, contract, and regulation to be assessed for its effect on marriage and family formation.

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The Heritage Foundation Proposes Federal "Marriage Bootcamp" in New Policy Blueprint (Original Post) Celerity 9 hrs ago OP
I read half of that..., kwolf68 9 hrs ago #1
Oh, the end of this nonsense is a blurb about restricting alcohol sales on Sundays. Volaris 9 hrs ago #17
Even Oklahoma, the most notorious dry state in history Wednesdays 6 hrs ago #48
LEAVE US ALONE! mountain grammy 9 hrs ago #2
... Solly Mack 9 hrs ago #3
Sounds romantic Blues Heron 9 hrs ago #4
GET YOUR FUCKING CHURCH OUT OF MY GOVERNMENT!!!!! Coventina 9 hrs ago #5
Un-Constutional Trueblue1968 6 hrs ago #38
The Sedition Foundation says what? JHB 9 hrs ago #6
Gift from God bullshit annoys me kwolf68 9 hrs ago #7
Sounds positively Hitlerian. Turbineguy 9 hrs ago #8
Besides being creepy as fuck, none of this will work Arazi 9 hrs ago #9
Not willingly- the plan is to force it on them biophile 9 hrs ago #15
Nah. Like South Korea the women will just drop out of dating altogether Arazi 9 hrs ago #16
Having children, even marriage, is not for everyone. Full stop. Diamond_Dog 7 hrs ago #34
How about a MYOFB Bootcamp for Trumpy Ars Longa 9 hrs ago #10
"Children, the authors write, are 'divine gifts'..." That's what Trump thinks too. n/t flvegan 9 hrs ago #11
So too, Elon Musk Wednesdays 6 hrs ago #49
This reminds me my experience in 1974 when I was transferred to Houston. walkingman 9 hrs ago #12
What's next... PXR-5 9 hrs ago #13
I know. Shades of Gilead. electric_blue68 8 hrs ago #23
The Heritage Foundation are the real insurrectionists. They want to replace our Constitutional democracy with their ... eppur_se_muova 9 hrs ago #14
I call them lonely bird 6 hrs ago #44
Obviously it's God's will and you must obey. DJ Synikus Makisimus 8 hrs ago #18
God's will... five kids by three wives, two of them immigrants. And all the adultery you can brag about. Norrrm 7 hrs ago #29
Yup, Biblical. (n/t) DJ Synikus Makisimus 7 hrs ago #33
Marriage training is an extremely good idea gulliver 8 hrs ago #19
Marriage is gradually dying out, and there is no going back to the fifties. valleyrogue 7 hrs ago #32
By whatever name it goes, it's extremely effective gulliver 6 hrs ago #46
. Baitball Blogger 8 hrs ago #20
Belief in a cruel God makes a cruel man. Thomas Paine Ping Tung 8 hrs ago #21
Ah, good ol' blue laws localroger 8 hrs ago #22
Dodgy crawfish etouffee on a Saturday night often leads to the shitter exploding on Sunday morning. Celerity 8 hrs ago #25
I was stationed in San Antonio TX in 1976-77 in the Air Force nurse corps... 3catwoman3 6 hrs ago #42
In the fine print... WestMichRad 8 hrs ago #24
Call it what it is, The Donald John Trump Marriage Bootlicker Camp For Adulterous Republicans. RedWhiteBlueIsRacist 7 hrs ago #26
And this policy is to be delivered JBTaurus83 7 hrs ago #27
Oh, snap!! keep_left 2 hrs ago #54
Sounds like it has real potential for a massive grift. MorbidButterflyTat 7 hrs ago #28
Incels wonder why no one wants them Johonny 7 hrs ago #30
Perverts don't belong in our bedrooms! /nt bucolic_frolic 7 hrs ago #31
We should procreate but not have fun doing it. I get it. Norbert 7 hrs ago #35
"A rat in a maze is free to go anywhere, as long as it stays inside the maze." Blessed be. /nt artemisia1 7 hrs ago #36
rat in a maze Celerity 6 hrs ago #39
Remember their mantra. There won't be any trouble of the liberals let them do this. Norbert 7 hrs ago #37
Unbelievable. NoMoreRepugs 6 hrs ago #40
Aren't these clowns the same "do as I say, not as I do" group who wants a government small enough to drown in a bathtub? Hugin 6 hrs ago #41
There are a lot of things the planet needs - sanity would be good. The last thing it needs is more people. flashman13 6 hrs ago #43
More religious bullshit. paleotn 6 hrs ago #45
That the HFound wants to get their hands on our money is no surprise at all. littlemissmartypants 6 hrs ago #47
pardon me, wasn't this the party of SMALL Government ? Bread and Circuses 6 hrs ago #50
At this point, all women should refuse to marry. nt Laffy Kat 6 hrs ago #51
they need to STOP shoving their religious views on others vapor2 6 hrs ago #52
What "success" of Project 2025? There isn't any. n/t valleyrogue 5 hrs ago #53
Heritage Foundation should be declared a terrorist organization. travelingthrulife 2 hrs ago #55

Volaris

(11,423 posts)
17. Oh, the end of this nonsense is a blurb about restricting alcohol sales on Sundays.
Thu Jan 15, 2026, 07:46 PM
9 hrs ago

You know, WHEN MAGAS ARE AT THE BAR CAUSE FOOTBALL IS ON.

Wednesdays

(21,653 posts)
48. Even Oklahoma, the most notorious dry state in history
Thu Jan 15, 2026, 10:10 PM
6 hrs ago

...dumped most of their blue laws in 2018.

Coventina

(29,215 posts)
5. GET YOUR FUCKING CHURCH OUT OF MY GOVERNMENT!!!!!
Thu Jan 15, 2026, 07:11 PM
9 hrs ago

I hate these people so much.

I have no words to express how much I hate them.

kwolf68

(8,284 posts)
7. Gift from God bullshit annoys me
Thu Jan 15, 2026, 07:11 PM
9 hrs ago

Birth is a miracle. Bla Bla Bla

For the record I have 3 kids I love them so much. No doubt.

But they were a byproduct of sexual intercourse, no metaphysical deity had anything to do with it. We coulda kept on popping them out, but wife was maxed at 3 because her last pregnancy was hard so that was it.

Miracles should be rarely seen. I am sorry if we can pop out billions upon billions of babies in this world, I call bullshit on it being a miracle. Also, can God please explain why women have "natural abortions", better known as a miscarriage. Is he just fucking with the women? Here is a child you so desperately want...PSYCH!!

These people want to take us back to the freaking stone age.

Arazi

(8,725 posts)
9. Besides being creepy as fuck, none of this will work
Thu Jan 15, 2026, 07:17 PM
9 hrs ago

The Scandinavian countries have the most generous pro-family benefits on earth and their birth rate is falling. Other countries with similar enticements face the same falling birth rate.

Women especially have discovered the joy of single, and child free, lives. They aren’t going back to the 1950s

biophile

(1,220 posts)
15. Not willingly- the plan is to force it on them
Thu Jan 15, 2026, 07:31 PM
9 hrs ago

Not going to really have any choices at all other than the way the government wants it.

Arazi

(8,725 posts)
16. Nah. Like South Korea the women will just drop out of dating altogether
Thu Jan 15, 2026, 07:44 PM
9 hrs ago

And stay single until this shit blows over

flvegan

(65,824 posts)
11. "Children, the authors write, are 'divine gifts'..." That's what Trump thinks too. n/t
Thu Jan 15, 2026, 07:21 PM
9 hrs ago

walkingman

(10,380 posts)
12. This reminds me my experience in 1974 when I was transferred to Houston.
Thu Jan 15, 2026, 07:23 PM
9 hrs ago

My now DW (we were not married at the time) went to look at a house for rent and when we were in the process of putting down our deposit the lady asked us if we were married? We told her no just dating. She said that she would not be able to rent to us because were not married. We couldn't believe it. We left, laughed a little and said to ourselves "I hope this is a common thing in this State" 😁 It wasn't.

I can't imagine this being accepted these days, but there are a lot of things I'm seeing that I never thought would happen.

The Bible Belt is a strange place even today - very weird and very real.

eppur_se_muova

(41,060 posts)
14. The Heritage Foundation are the real insurrectionists. They want to replace our Constitutional democracy with their ...
Thu Jan 15, 2026, 07:27 PM
9 hrs ago

vision of an authoritarian, misogynist, white-supremacist kleptocracy.

Maybe a future Dem POTUS should try out the Insurrection Act on them.

DJ Synikus Makisimus

(1,198 posts)
18. Obviously it's God's will and you must obey.
Thu Jan 15, 2026, 07:51 PM
8 hrs ago

That's what you get when you allow freedom of religion without a guarantee of freedom FROM religion.

But we can't do that. Wouldn't be bipartisan.

Norrrm

(4,075 posts)
29. God's will... five kids by three wives, two of them immigrants. And all the adultery you can brag about.
Thu Jan 15, 2026, 09:03 PM
7 hrs ago

Including lusting after your own daughter.

gulliver

(13,736 posts)
19. Marriage training is an extremely good idea
Thu Jan 15, 2026, 08:10 PM
8 hrs ago

I don't think it needs to be religious, and I assume that any funding would not require religious affiliation.

Home economics and parenting skills training are also super important. Without them, kids whose parents didn't simply inherit those skills through generations of successful role modeling are at an extreme disadvantage.

valleyrogue

(2,603 posts)
32. Marriage is gradually dying out, and there is no going back to the fifties.
Thu Jan 15, 2026, 09:22 PM
7 hrs ago

Home economics was absolute BULLSHIT when I was in school. it was forced upon girls to prepare them for marriage and kids. Eff that shit for those of us not interested in either. Title IX banned the teaching of home economics solely to girls. It is now radically different and both boys and girls enroll in it. It is not called "home economics" anymore and hasn't been called that for decades. It is not about "marriage" preparation as it was pre-1972, training girls to be wives.

Nope, no going back. Marriage isn't necessary for anything anymore. Its purpose is obsolete and has been for centuries. Thank god for that.

gulliver

(13,736 posts)
46. By whatever name it goes, it's extremely effective
Thu Jan 15, 2026, 10:04 PM
6 hrs ago

Nothing is perfect. Also, no blithe rejection of imperfect systems is perfect.

We're playing old tapes. Home economics is unisex and necessary even for singles. Same for learning how to parent. "I'm never going to use this," is the common objection anyone makes to being "forced" to learn something. But it goes against principles of social equality not to ensure all people have access to fundamental life skills and vital guidance concerning their importance.

It's really in the interest of a country's future workers that they know not just how to get a living but how to maximize the "life" side of work/life balance (a thoroughly progressive priority).

localroger

(3,777 posts)
22. Ah, good ol' blue laws
Thu Jan 15, 2026, 08:33 PM
8 hrs ago

I remember there was an all out political knock-down drag-out in NOLA when I was a kid over blue laws. Louisiana had them, and they prohibited all kinds of work related stuff from being sold on Sunday, as well as alcohol. Except in NOLA, where alcohol was OK, because it was NOLA and the hospitality industry is that big here. But the city wasn't exempt from the hardware laws, which were driven largely by hardware stores that didn't want to compete with up-and-coming big boxes that could afford Sunday staffing. So drugstores like Katz & Besthoff and Walgreens, which were the shiznit before the big boxes like K-mart came, had to rope off some aisles and refuse to sell parts and tools on Sunday. Which meant that if your toilet exploded Sunday morning, you couldn't get the stuff to fix it, but you could get shitfaced drunk as you contemplated the stupidity of the situation. Even with that stupidity it took several years to get the hardware blue laws overturned, so now Louisiana is a mix of wet and dry parishes on Sunday but you can get the parts to fix your toilet all 7 days, everywhere in the state.

Celerity

(53,778 posts)
25. Dodgy crawfish etouffee on a Saturday night often leads to the shitter exploding on Sunday morning.
Thu Jan 15, 2026, 08:46 PM
8 hrs ago

Laissez les bons temps rouler!

3catwoman3

(28,658 posts)
42. I was stationed in San Antonio TX in 1976-77 in the Air Force nurse corps...
Thu Jan 15, 2026, 09:58 PM
6 hrs ago

…and the Sunday blue laws were ineffective then. I’d grown up in Rochester NY, where there were no blue laws, so it seemed very strange and ridiculous. I remember the roped off aisles in the grocery stores, and there didn’t seem to be much logic about what items were forbidden.

I don’t remember the specifics anymore, but it was stuff like you could buy dish soap to wash your dishes, but not a cooking pot to make food in, or a dish towel to dry the pot after washing it.

This was only one of many reasons that Texas seemed like a foreign country to this Yankee girl.

WestMichRad

(2,951 posts)
24. In the fine print...
Thu Jan 15, 2026, 08:40 PM
8 hrs ago

They also probably want to ban divorce, birth control and the reporting of spousal and child abuse.

JBTaurus83

(897 posts)
27. And this policy is to be delivered
Thu Jan 15, 2026, 09:01 PM
7 hrs ago

By a 34 time felon and adjudicated rapist, multiple time divorcee who had his ex buried in a golf course for a tax break.

artemisia1

(1,454 posts)
36. "A rat in a maze is free to go anywhere, as long as it stays inside the maze." Blessed be. /nt
Thu Jan 15, 2026, 09:33 PM
7 hrs ago

Celerity

(53,778 posts)
39. rat in a maze
Thu Jan 15, 2026, 09:48 PM
6 hrs ago
Social Unrest - Rat In A Maze (Full EP) 1982


Social Unrest formed in Hayward, CA, near San Francisco, in 1980. They soon established themselves as one of the leading forces of the Bay Area early hardcore punk scene. The band released their 1st 7'' in 1981, on Infra Red Records. 'Making Room for Youth' was produced by the Dead Kennedys guitar player, East Bay Ray. SU teamed up again with Ray a year later to produce their classic 'Rat in a Maze' 12", released in the summer of 1982 on their own Libertine Records label. They also appeared on Maximum Rock'n'Roll masterpiece 47 band compilation, 'Not so Quiet on the Western Front'.

Label: Libertine Records – LSU1
Format: Vinyl, 12", 45 RPM, Red Translucent
Country: US
Released: 1982
Genre: Rock
Style: Punk, Hardcore















Hugin

(37,477 posts)
41. Aren't these clowns the same "do as I say, not as I do" group who wants a government small enough to drown in a bathtub?
Thu Jan 15, 2026, 09:53 PM
6 hrs ago

What they are proposing here would cost billions.

flashman13

(2,073 posts)
43. There are a lot of things the planet needs - sanity would be good. The last thing it needs is more people.
Thu Jan 15, 2026, 10:00 PM
6 hrs ago

paleotn

(21,634 posts)
45. More religious bullshit.
Thu Jan 15, 2026, 10:00 PM
6 hrs ago

Why can't these people face the fact that their mythology is dying. People can do and live however the hell they want. It ain't up to the religious bigots anymore.

Bread and Circuses

(1,611 posts)
50. pardon me, wasn't this the party of SMALL Government ?
Thu Jan 15, 2026, 10:31 PM
6 hrs ago

Except when it comes to women’s bodies

travelingthrulife

(4,516 posts)
55. Heritage Foundation should be declared a terrorist organization.
Fri Jan 16, 2026, 02:04 AM
2 hrs ago

Tax the churches back into political silence.

Fucking evangelicals have the worst marriages in the world.High divorce rate.

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