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gopiscrap

(24,593 posts)
Fri Feb 6, 2026, 05:54 PM Yesterday

My friends I have been in this community and love being here. I ask for your prayers and good wishes

I was hit with a double whammy this morning...I have been diagnosed with stage two prostate cancer AND stage one bladder cancer

If you have been through this, please let me know and give me advice...thanks Mike C

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My friends I have been in this community and love being here. I ask for your prayers and good wishes (Original Post) gopiscrap Yesterday OP
... 2naSalit Yesterday #1
I am sorry you have to go through this, my friend. HeartsCanHope Yesterday #2
thank you gopiscrap Yesterday #4
Healing vibes on the way to you. SheltieLover Yesterday #3
Sending love and hugs your way, Mike C.❤️ sheshe2 Yesterday #5
Sending healing energy Mike. FalloutShelter Yesterday #6
Sending prayers and good wishes your way. brer cat Yesterday #7
Both are usually curable Dave says Yesterday #8
That sounds like very encouraging information for anybody StarryNite 17 hrs ago #70
Sending Healing thoughts and energy to you- best wishes for quick treatment and recovery biophile Yesterday #9
I am so sorry. You stick close by and keep us informed. applegrove Yesterday #10
thank you gopiscrap 4 hrs ago #87
I had the female equivalent - stage three uterine cancer - three times. Staph Yesterday #11
thank you gopiscrap Yesterday #12
I wish I had more practical help or advice to offer senseandsensibility Yesterday #13
Sending you love and prayers...My husbands uncle had what you describe in his 70's 80's Demsrule86 Yesterday #14
🫶🏽 Mike C 🫶🏽 blm Yesterday #15
"" AllaN01Bear Yesterday #16
You have my prayer for a complete recovery from both. My only advice is to LoisB Yesterday #17
No advice, just holding you in my heart, Mike C. n/t TygrBright 23 hrs ago #18
Best wishes and good vibes stage left 23 hrs ago #19
Wow. Hugs to you. LittleGirl 23 hrs ago #20
thank you gopiscrap 4 hrs ago #88
No comments or advice canetoad 23 hrs ago #21
Wish you wellness Figarosmom 23 hrs ago #22
I'm saddened to hear of your health problems. I am sending hugs and wish you a positive outcome. I don't alwaysinasnit 23 hrs ago #23
Lots of love and healing vibes, dear gopiscrap Grim Chieftain 23 hrs ago #24
Sorry for that news. 70sEraVet 23 hrs ago #25
That sucks really bad jmbar2 23 hrs ago #26
I know someone who has had both LNM 23 hrs ago #27
Damn malaise 23 hrs ago #28
Nurture 🧡 Comfort 🩵 Healing 💚 to you gopiscrap Clouds Passing 23 hrs ago #29
Sucks to read this. OAITW r.2.0 23 hrs ago #30
Hi Mike C.. All the best to you... mountain grammy 23 hrs ago #31
You will win this fight. mr715 23 hrs ago #32
We're here berniesandersmittens 22 hrs ago #33
I'm so sorry, Mike. iemanja 22 hrs ago #34
I don't have any personal experience along those lines, Mike, but calimary 22 hrs ago #35
Bladder twice Nigrum Cattus 22 hrs ago #36
Sending hugs and healing energy. I'm so sorry you got this diagnosis, but cancer treatment is very highplainsdem 22 hrs ago #37
Double whammy for sure. Dear_Prudence 22 hrs ago #38
Half-way through treatment for Gleason Score 8/Stage II prostate cancer Bluejeans 22 hrs ago #39
Caught it early, eh? Tranquil72 22 hrs ago #40
Sending a hug and wishing you all the very best. hamsterjill 22 hrs ago #41
There is hope dawgdan 22 hrs ago #42
Best wishes inbound! ... OldBoss 22 hrs ago #43
Mike, I had a prostatectomy 15 years ago radical cystectomy 2 years ago TexLaProgressive 21 hrs ago #44
I had Gleason 8 in 2025 bagimin 21 hrs ago #45
I have Timewas 21 hrs ago #46
I haven't, but my daughter went thru a Joinfortmill 21 hrs ago #47
Dear gopiscrap, My husband had Maliginant Prostrate cancer. He always went to his Urologis a PSI test and a Prostate debm55 21 hrs ago #48
I am so sorry. Keep us posted. Cancer survivor here. DU Cancer Support Group is a great place for questions and venting Solly Mack 21 hrs ago #49
Thinking of you and hoping for the absolute best! chowder66 21 hrs ago #50
Scary, Man.. Permanut 21 hrs ago #51
Cancer x 2. Ms. Toad 20 hrs ago #52
Adding my best wishes for you and the team that is gonna get you back to good health 🌺 Deuxcents 20 hrs ago #53
I hope you are soon healthy again Mike, huge hugs. Celerity 20 hrs ago #54
Stage 3 survivor here....you got this purr-rat beauty 20 hrs ago #55
Wishing you a cancer free outcome. GoodRaisin 20 hrs ago #56
So sad to read this CountAllVotes 20 hrs ago #57
God Speed Mike C JMCKUSICK 20 hrs ago #58
Best wishes for successful treatment! waterwatcher123 20 hrs ago #59
Sorry to hear this news JohnnyLib2 20 hrs ago #60
A gentle hug 🫂 to you and your family. mwmisses4289 20 hrs ago #61
Wishing you all the best!!! CaptainTruth 20 hrs ago #62
Prayers for you Mike - TBF 19 hrs ago #63
My husband has stage four PC with metastases... DET 19 hrs ago #64
Sending you hugs and blessings Wicked Blue 19 hrs ago #65
Haven't been through this but know men who have had experience with both. Marie Marie 19 hrs ago #66
I identify Wifes husband 18 hrs ago #67
My mate had both róisín_dubh 17 hrs ago #68
Advice Roy Rolling 17 hrs ago #69
Here's to the Very Best Help & Support Cha 16 hrs ago #71
I'm a nurse. This is scary as hell I know, but you got this. Maru Kitteh 15 hrs ago #72
The Mayo Clinic and the Cleveland Clinic have good websites about cancers along with the American Cancer Botany 8 hrs ago #73
K&R spanone 8 hrs ago #74
These people are with you as I. twodogsbarking 8 hrs ago #75
Sending prayers and good wishes for you, your family and badhair77 8 hrs ago #76
I had prostate cancer about 15 years ago Playingmantis 8 hrs ago #77
Sending you healing vibes and wishes for complete recovery! CousinIT 7 hrs ago #78
You have my prayers and good wishes. CBHagman 7 hrs ago #79
Adding my wishes to you for a fast and full recovery. herding cats 6 hrs ago #80
What awful health news! pandr32 6 hrs ago #81
Positive vibes headed your way. We're here for anything you need. Nevilledog 6 hrs ago #82
Best wishes, gopiscrap! I was diagnosed with stage 4B (out of 5!) prostate cancer in early 2014. generalbetrayus 6 hrs ago #83
Wishing you the best flamingdem 6 hrs ago #84
Hi Mike, I imagine you are in shock. 1WorldHope 5 hrs ago #85
Wishing you a sucessful and complete recovery! electric_blue68 4 hrs ago #86
Sending positive vibes and prayers... Desert grandma 4 hrs ago #89
I have been fighting bladder cancer for a couple years now. SidneyR 4 hrs ago #90
Very sorry to hear. That really sucks. I hope you get good care and can arrest both. Take care, ED Evolve Dammit 3 hrs ago #91
Hang in there...... popsdenver 3 hrs ago #92
I had my prostate out 23 years ago A-Schwarzenegger 1 hr ago #93
You asked for advice mercuryblues 1 min ago #94

Dave says

(5,348 posts)
8. Both are usually curable
Fri Feb 6, 2026, 06:14 PM
Yesterday

I had bladder cancer 3 decades ago. Had surgery, quick recovery, and no relapse. May it be as easy for you as it was for me.

applegrove

(131,050 posts)
10. I am so sorry. You stick close by and keep us informed.
Fri Feb 6, 2026, 06:19 PM
Yesterday

We are all in this together, whether we are fighting Trump or cancer.

Staph

(6,460 posts)
11. I had the female equivalent - stage three uterine cancer - three times.
Fri Feb 6, 2026, 06:21 PM
Yesterday

Stay positive!

Listen to your body - when it says rest, take a nap. If it says "I'm hungry for something unusual", go for it. Your body is trying to tell you what you need.

Listen to your doctors, and if you don't feel comfortable with what they tell you, get a second opinion. I went 150 miles away for that second opinion, and I think it was very wise.

The various treatments that you will endure cause a variety of side effects. It might help to find a support group for your particular types of cancer. (I didn't end up with a support group - all the local groups were dominated by breast cancer patients. They deal with very different problems than I had.)

Stay positive! My first cancer diagnosis was in 2013. I'm surviving and you can, too!


senseandsensibility

(24,408 posts)
13. I wish I had more practical help or advice to offer
Fri Feb 6, 2026, 06:25 PM
Yesterday

but sending tons of well wishes and prayers, my friend. Stay strong, and I am glad that you find strength in the DU community. We'll be here for you.

Demsrule86

(71,519 posts)
14. Sending you love and prayers...My husbands uncle had what you describe in his 70's 80's
Fri Feb 6, 2026, 06:39 PM
Yesterday

and there was limited treatment...it is better now. He survived into his 90's and I don't think he died of the cancer...Keep us updated please...

Terry a proud member of your DU family.

LoisB

(12,559 posts)
17. You have my prayer for a complete recovery from both. My only advice is to
Fri Feb 6, 2026, 06:46 PM
Yesterday

stay as positive as possible and never give up.

LittleGirl

(8,975 posts)
20. Wow. Hugs to you.
Fri Feb 6, 2026, 06:56 PM
23 hrs ago

I go in Monday for my annual cancer check so I’m thinking if you . I had surgical removal and no further treatment. Wishing the best for you.

canetoad

(20,405 posts)
21. No comments or advice
Fri Feb 6, 2026, 06:59 PM
23 hrs ago

But sending you the very best wishes and hopes for a full recovery. Cancer treatment is very advanced these days.

alwaysinasnit

(5,572 posts)
23. I'm saddened to hear of your health problems. I am sending hugs and wish you a positive outcome. I don't
Fri Feb 6, 2026, 07:19 PM
23 hrs ago

know if this is relevant or even helpful, but I was just reading an article written by Robert Reich where he provides background info on his own prostate health (https://www.rawstory.com/robert-reich-2675104713/). This is the study his doctor references.

https://www.mrcctu.ucl.ac.uk/studies/all-studies/p/patch-pr09/

jmbar2

(7,780 posts)
26. That sucks really bad
Fri Feb 6, 2026, 07:21 PM
23 hrs ago

I cannot imagine what you are feeling after such dire news, but glad that you reached out to the community.

People more knowledgeable than me will be able to offer sound advice and useful tips for getting through this. Any time a member of the DU community is struggling, we all feel it.

Keep us posted as you see fit.

LNM

(1,242 posts)
27. I know someone who has had both
Fri Feb 6, 2026, 07:26 PM
23 hrs ago

Prostate cancer about 12 years ago. Surgically removed and a full recovery. Bladder cancer in the last 18 months. Initial surgery to remove small cancerous lesions, then 3 treatments after to stop anything that was missed in surgery. 1 more surgery to grab a suspicious lesion, then 3 more treatments. So far everything seems good to him but will have a post-surgery follow-up next week.
Best of luck to you and as a side-note, I’ve always loved your name.

mountain grammy

(28,807 posts)
31. Hi Mike C.. All the best to you...
Fri Feb 6, 2026, 07:47 PM
23 hrs ago

For what it's worth I have two friends who had the same diagnosis a few years ago. Both alive and well today!

You are in my thoughts..

berniesandersmittens

(13,126 posts)
33. We're here
Fri Feb 6, 2026, 07:48 PM
22 hrs ago

Take care of yourself and know that you have a whole community of folks here who care about you.

Sending you light and peace

calimary

(89,294 posts)
35. I don't have any personal experience along those lines, Mike, but
Fri Feb 6, 2026, 07:50 PM
22 hrs ago

I’ve seen friends battle cancer - and some of ‘em actually do win!

So I’d like to focus on that aspect of the story. Cancer CAN be beaten, or at least be put off for awhile. And sometimes it’s for a long while!

Nigrum Cattus

(1,252 posts)
36. Bladder twice
Fri Feb 6, 2026, 08:02 PM
22 hrs ago

they will "scrap" the tumor to remove it
you will have a catheter with a urine bag for 7-10 days
they may go back in 2 months later for a biopsy, they did me
depending on type of tumor you may get BCG infusions
start taking BroccoMax supplement for the prostate
https://www.allstarhealth.com/f/jarrow-broccomax_(30mg).htm
https://www.lifeextension.com/protocols/cancer/prostate-cancer-treatment
https://www.hypnosisdownloads.com/search/g/cancer?filter=download&0.5100472618214922

highplainsdem

(60,818 posts)
37. Sending hugs and healing energy. I'm so sorry you got this diagnosis, but cancer treatment is very
Fri Feb 6, 2026, 08:25 PM
22 hrs ago

good now, so much better than it was decades ago. You'll get through this.

Dear_Prudence

(1,112 posts)
38. Double whammy for sure.
Fri Feb 6, 2026, 08:26 PM
22 hrs ago

The first time I had breast cancer, I relied on a book entitled "Just get me through this" and the second time I had bc, I relied on a book, "What the fuck just happened?" So, different advice helps at different times. Whatever works for you is ok. If you need support, keep asking until your needs are met. Some people will seem non-responsive; they might not have the bandwidth. My sister only called once during the first bout; I found out years later she was afraid her tears would discourage me. My brother never called, but I found out years later he wears a pink ribbon tee shirt on Fridays for me. So, some people can provide rides or meals or company; some, like my siblings, are sending 'good vibes.' Well, I am so sorry you are going thru this. You take care now.

Bluejeans

(144 posts)
39. Half-way through treatment for Gleason Score 8/Stage II prostate cancer
Fri Feb 6, 2026, 08:27 PM
22 hrs ago

My PSAs stair-stepped higher since 2010, so I've been under active surveillance with PSAs every 6 months, at times DREs, and four prostate biopsies (all 4 negative). In Dec 2026, my PSA number had jumped to 9, so the nurse and doctor coaxed me into a fifth prostate biopsy. The doctor took 16 samples and cancer was found in sample # 16.

In a matter of a day, I was put on medication and scheduled for a CT scan. The CT scan found just one instance of cancer---right where sample # 16 was taken. It appears my cancer, Gleason Score 8, had just developed in the weeks before. I went through 30 radiation therapy sessions and was put on Eligard. Eligard takes your testosterone down to zero, cutting off "the fuel" for any cancer which eluded the radiation therapy. Here I am in February 2026 with my PSA near zero, meaning between the radiation therapy and the Eligard, the cancer was stopped in its tracks. The oncologist told me he won't use the "cure word" yet, but my prognosis is "excellent". I have another year to go on the Eligard, but things are looking very good.

My advice is to fight cancer with all you've got in you and any help the doctors and nurses can bring to bear. You can beat this bastard!

You may want to say a few words to St. Sharbel, the medical miracle worker], asking for assistance in beating this cancer. (It can't hurt, especially when he's a 4th cousin on mine!) https://www.familyofsaintsharbel.org/miracles.html

Good luck!

hamsterjill

(17,186 posts)
41. Sending a hug and wishing you all the very best.
Fri Feb 6, 2026, 08:39 PM
22 hrs ago

The only advice that I can give is to be your own best advocate. I've had a sibling going through multiple types of cancer. We've found that it helps to keep everything written down. Notes on visits, medications, etc.

She has so many different doctors that they sometimes prescribe against one another. So, it's always best to learn as much as you can about your own situation, be informed, and don't be shy about speaking up and INSISTING that you get the correct care.

That said, I sincerely wish you the very best. I wish you strength, peace and love.

dawgdan

(39 posts)
42. There is hope
Fri Feb 6, 2026, 08:42 PM
22 hrs ago

Mike C.

I am a prostate cancer survivor having had my prostate removed when I was 50. I am now 73 and cancer free. Best of luck and I will be praying for you.

OldBoss

(73 posts)
43. Best wishes inbound! ...
Fri Feb 6, 2026, 08:43 PM
22 hrs ago

I had RARP for prostate cancer two weeks ago today. GG2 3+4=7, PIRADS 5, pT3a.

Your cancer is very treatable and you have plenty of treatment options. I’d suggest considering a cancer Center of Excellence if possible. Also consider talking to Medical Oncologist, Urologic Oncologist, and Radiation Oncologist and balance your plan with quality of life goals.

TexLaProgressive

(12,702 posts)
44. Mike, I had a prostatectomy 15 years ago radical cystectomy 2 years ago
Fri Feb 6, 2026, 08:56 PM
21 hrs ago

Last edited Sat Feb 7, 2026, 12:34 PM - Edit history (1)

you have my prayers. It's pretty daunting. I had the best surgeons and oncologist.

For the prostate surgery was all I needed, no spread from the gland.

For the bladder cancer I had 3 rounds of ddMVAC chemo. The tumors shrunk to undetectable. The pathologist found 2 mm cancer in the muscle but all lymph glands clear.

As a precaution I did 12 months of immunotherapy. I've had 8 circulating tumor dna test all negative.

I think you will have a Urostomy since both bladder and prostate. It's not the end of the world.

bagimin

(1,674 posts)
45. I had Gleason 8 in 2025
Fri Feb 6, 2026, 09:03 PM
21 hrs ago

I'm still here. I had external beam radiation for 6 weeks and hormone deprivation therapy. It's a bitch, but I want to see drumph dead.

Timewas

(2,682 posts)
46. I have
Fri Feb 6, 2026, 09:05 PM
21 hrs ago

I have beed dealing with stage one bladder cancer for about 10 years now, will start my third round of chemo Monday... if it stays at stage one as it is treated it can be held ok with constant checkups and maybe some small tumers being removed mostlly by burning the off with a laser in office procedures.Some get it under control and can go along fine for many years..The checkups are not fun but fairly tolerable, I do not have a diagnosed prostrate cancer but have known several that did, they went through a prostratectomy and healed and moved on to pretty normal lifes...

Insist on checkups pretty often I have found that to work best for me... they can find them small and take care of them in the office and ot go to OR for TURB (trans uretheral bladder resection) sounds worse than it is have had that 4 times so far..

Best of luck to you

Joinfortmill

(20,509 posts)
47. I haven't, but my daughter went thru a
Fri Feb 6, 2026, 09:24 PM
21 hrs ago

double mastectomy a few months ago. It's amazing what they can do. I prayed for you, can't hurt, right? Take care. Keep us informed.

debm55

(57,845 posts)
48. Dear gopiscrap, My husband had Maliginant Prostrate cancer. He always went to his Urologis a PSI test and a Prostate
Fri Feb 6, 2026, 09:26 PM
21 hrs ago

Biopsy was given , They rated it on the Gleason scale which was a 9 which is equal to a stage 2. His PSA test also was high. Since his cancer did not metastasize His oncologist went with the radiation treatment instead of the Chemo, Rich got radiation and hormone therapy. Be aware that the that the radiation therapy has a 2-3 day set up. Bowels must be empty or they will not do the radiation. I went with my husband every day for a month. He is now taking a hormone(female} treatment that he takes daily. Rich, also gets his urine and blood work done twice a month. The onocologist said after 5 years it will not come back. I am sorry you have this news given to you . It is a terrible blow. He is still tired and not as energetic as he once was.But I don't care as I love him. I would like to give you a hug, You can do it I will include you in my prayers tonight. You, like my husband are fighters. you will survive, you are strong and you are loved. DUmail me for more info, Rich's second anniversary is coming up in June. Bless you my friend

Ms. Toad

(38,409 posts)
52. Cancer x 2.
Fri Feb 6, 2026, 09:53 PM
20 hrs ago

Breast cancer (stage 1, grade I) in 2016. Sarcoma (stage 1/2 (we don't know for sure, since it came out in 2 separate surgeries - so size is unknown) grade II) in 2020)

NED (no evidence of disease) for both, 5 and 9.5 years out. I'm discharged from surveillance for breast cancer - just routine annual mammograms. Still under surveillance for sarcoma (a much more aggressive cancer). CT or X-ray (for metastasis surveillance), plus local palpation every year (it just shifted to annual, from every six months.

Do your own research in medical journals so you can anticipate, rather than react, to whatever your doctor says. It makes it easier to ask questions during the visit with follow-up questions (rather sending notes after the visit).

Advocate for yourself. Medical care these days is one size fits all, unless you demand they treat you as an individual.

Don't be afraid to fire a team that is not a good for. I fired my first breast cancer team because they wanted me to go along and not rock the boat - even when their incompetence was costing me time and money. I shifted primary post surgery surveillance for my sarcoma, because my second opinion (within the same team) was a better care philosophy match for me.

Figure out what you want/need and ask others to adjust to it. Staying home after a partial mastectomy was much more stressful than watching others (who were trying to protect me) try to do my job. When they couldn't adapt to my requests to ask me, before acting and messaging things up, I came back early. That's how I'm wired. However you're wired, let people know and expect them to adapt. You need to be the center of the universe for now.

Good luck.

purr-rat beauty

(1,087 posts)
55. Stage 3 survivor here....you got this
Fri Feb 6, 2026, 10:03 PM
20 hrs ago

I understand the news is scary and it sucks, but if you hold out hope and let the process work, you'll emerge from this humbled, grateful, and amazed.

And....it's ok to cry and be angry, scared, apprehensive, unsure, and any other feelings that will touch you.

I love my oncology team, they were so kind and supportive. I am still not out of the clear, a few years of appts ahead of me but thank God that medicine, science, and caring people exist

I am sorry this is happening, you are not alone!

Keep your head up
And your spirit higher


GoodRaisin

(10,810 posts)
56. Wishing you a cancer free outcome.
Fri Feb 6, 2026, 10:07 PM
20 hrs ago

A close friend recently got that news who has been fighting lymphoma. You can beat it.

JohnnyLib2

(11,314 posts)
60. Sorry to hear this news
Fri Feb 6, 2026, 10:25 PM
20 hrs ago

But I see many reasons for encouragement in the many responses. Many here value your input and wish you the best.
My wife is a 41 year cancer survivor and we remember the oncologist saying "welcome to the wild world of cancer." You'll find more and more in this club.

DET

(2,409 posts)
64. My husband has stage four PC with metastases...
Fri Feb 6, 2026, 10:56 PM
19 hrs ago

…and with treatment he’s still here 6 1/2 years after diagnosis. PSA is undetectable and metastases have disappeared. Unfortunately, stage four PC is not considered curable, unlike the earlier stages. I know it doesn’t seem like it, but in many ways you’re lucky - your cancer was caught early, which means that you have an excellent prognosis. You’ll be closely monitored in the future and you have many options for treatment.

Treatment for PC depends on the stage, type, and aggressiveness of the cancer. My husband has had radiation and aggressive hormone treatment (chemical castration). It has not been easy, to put it mildly, but it beats the alternative. Your treatment should be much easier.

My best advice would be to see a medical oncologist who specializes in genitourinary cancers, preferably at a cancer center of excellence. Do your research and ask lots of questions. Advocate for yourself and don’t be intimidated.

I know the shock of hearing a cancer diagnosis, but you will almost undoubtedly be around for many years to come. I wish you the best.

Marie Marie

(11,042 posts)
66. Haven't been through this but know men who have had experience with both.
Fri Feb 6, 2026, 11:27 PM
19 hrs ago

Both men lived years and years beyond their diagnosis. One died of heart failure at 96 and the other is still alive and kicking. May you outlive us all.

Wifes husband

(714 posts)
67. I identify
Sat Feb 7, 2026, 12:04 AM
18 hrs ago

I have been fighting this for nine years. They have developed amazing surgery, radiation and drugs.I have had several major surgeries, laser treatments, continuous bladder irrigation, radiation, hyperbaric oxygen treatments, very serious bladder infections. I am taking an unpleasant cancer pill every day and a monthly injection. I have had the bladder removed and now have a urostomy bag. It has not been fun, but I am currently in remission.

You can get through this. Do whatever your doctors tell you to do. You might want to consider staying off the internet about this. Every case is different and you have to find doctors you can trust. You are going to go thorough some challenging times, but take it one day at a time. It is a beautiful world, and you have my very best wishes.

róisín_dubh

(12,262 posts)
68. My mate had both
Sat Feb 7, 2026, 01:01 AM
17 hrs ago

He had surgery and still enjoys his life. I think it was about 10 years ago. I’m so sorry for you. My partner has prostate cancer but it was caught super early, so we’re exploring options for treatment.
May the road ahead be smooth for you and I wish you well

Roy Rolling

(7,516 posts)
69. Advice
Sat Feb 7, 2026, 01:13 AM
17 hrs ago

What’s the difference between God and a doctor?
God never pretends to be a doctor. LOL

The point, doctors only repair they don’t heal. Healing is a process of the human body, standard equipment by the manufacturer. Stimulate those healing processes as well as use chemotherapy, radiation, or whatever advanced medicine can offer.

Don’t rule out anything, nurture your healing processes and see how far that takes you.

That worked for friends, relatives, and spouse. It can work for you, Stage-2 isn’t too far gone, my wife recovered from Stage-4. So go for it.😍

Cha

(317,714 posts)
71. Here's to the Very Best Help & Support
Sat Feb 7, 2026, 01:53 AM
16 hrs ago

you Need on your Healing Journey to Recovery, Mike C!

We're here for You ☮️🌺🌻🕯️🕊️💜

Maru Kitteh

(31,392 posts)
72. I'm a nurse. This is scary as hell I know, but you got this.
Sat Feb 7, 2026, 03:28 AM
15 hrs ago

I am continually blown away by the pace of advancements in cancer treatment. It’s absolutely nothing like when we were younger - at all.

See? The whole family is here for you.

Botany

(76,697 posts)
73. The Mayo Clinic and the Cleveland Clinic have good websites about cancers along with the American Cancer
Sat Feb 7, 2026, 10:15 AM
8 hrs ago

…. Society. Lots of useful information there and take notes about “things” and talk to your
care givers.

Turn off any “miracle cure” crap that is posted on line.

Listen to your doctors, nurses, and your body.

You are going to go through some tough times and the stuff they give you to kill
the cancer will make you feel like crap.

If you are up to it get out and walk, enjoy nature’s show, eat some good meals,
and spend time with family and friends.

After going through some medical crap myself walking outside and feeling some rain,
snow, sun, and Labrador time is really nice.

Get a couple ounces of Black Eyed Susan seed (Rudbeckia hirta) and plant it and by July you will flowers
and pollinators.

badhair77

(5,114 posts)
76. Sending prayers and good wishes for you, your family and
Sat Feb 7, 2026, 10:37 AM
8 hrs ago

your medical team. Sounds like things were caught when they are treatable. Wishing you the best. Hope you can feel your DU family is with you. Please keep us updated.

Playingmantis

(557 posts)
77. I had prostate cancer about 15 years ago
Sat Feb 7, 2026, 10:46 AM
8 hrs ago

and it was cured..with surgery..

I later had my appendix out thinking it was causing stomach cramps..it was not the cause but they found it was filled with signet and goblet cancer cells. Very dangerous cancer cells Look it up.It was sheer luck that i had it taken out before it spread..doctor said it would have been terminal..

I was one lucky bastard! That was about ten years ago.

Now i went to the hospital for a blocked bowel two weeks ago...turns out I have stage four cancer down there..waiting for treatments after they do some further testing to find out exactly where it originated.

I survived two cancers and will survive this ....AS WILL YOU!!!

Dont give up hope. Dont give in to despair...There are lots of new treatments that will make a difference.

I will think of of you..you think of me..We will both survive..Chat next Thanksgiving?





CousinIT

(12,362 posts)
78. Sending you healing vibes and wishes for complete recovery!
Sat Feb 7, 2026, 10:54 AM
7 hrs ago

I know you're scared, but you're not alone. Please keep us posted.

CBHagman

(17,454 posts)
79. You have my prayers and good wishes.
Sat Feb 7, 2026, 11:11 AM
7 hrs ago

May everyone who provides medical care do so with wisdom, insight, and deep humanity.

May all in your community form a network of support and kindness.

May you be lifted up by the good will and support in every community of which you are a member.

pandr32

(13,931 posts)
81. What awful health news!
Sat Feb 7, 2026, 12:04 PM
6 hrs ago

It must be extremely frightening, but it is not unbeatable--on both counts. I hope your doctors have a good rapport with you and you are able to give yourself the care and attention to slay the cancer beast.
Please keep us updated and here's some love from me.

generalbetrayus

(1,595 posts)
83. Best wishes, gopiscrap! I was diagnosed with stage 4B (out of 5!) prostate cancer in early 2014.
Sat Feb 7, 2026, 12:10 PM
6 hrs ago

I had a prostatectomy in April of that year and radiation a year later. My prostate cancer metastisized in spite of those efforts, but I am on medication which has blocked the further spread of the cancer cells. The medication makes me tired a lot, probably because it blocks the production of testosterone (Testosterone encourages the growth of prostate cancer cells.) but obviously almost 12 years later I am still here and posting more than ever on DU.

Prostate cancer has a good recovery record; with you in stage two, you might not even require surgery. Early stage prostate cancer can be treated with radioactive "pills" inserted into the prostate gland. Avoid surgery if you can because when they remove the prostate gland they also have to remove the nerve that controls erections, making you impotent. There are ways to provide you with artificially-produced erections if you so desire, but I found them undesirable. NOTE: If they remove that nerve, you will still be able to have orgasms (different nerve), just not erections ... TMI?

I can't help you with bladder cancer, but I believe it is treatable if it has not spread too far. Hoping you have a good urologist like I have had. Let us know how things progress.

1WorldHope

(1,909 posts)
85. Hi Mike, I imagine you are in shock.
Sat Feb 7, 2026, 12:58 PM
5 hrs ago

I'm sorry you've been handed this life event. My husband 1st had bladder cancer, they removed the tumor. A couple of years later it was prostate cancer. He did radiation for that. Then he got lung cancer and had radiation for that. He has an aortic aneurysm as well.
But what is likely to get him is the COPD. He is 77 now. Everyone's story is different and it depends on how fast you catch it, but, it may just be a bump in the road as my doctor told me when I had breast cancer 7 years ago. Stay in the moment and take your medicine and remember how precious life is every second. It's another part of the journey and pretty hard to avoid in these toxic times. ☯️❤️🪷

electric_blue68

(26,406 posts)
86. Wishing you a sucessful and complete recovery!
Sat Feb 7, 2026, 02:17 PM
4 hrs ago

My dad had prostate cancer back in the ?1980's. Was successfully treated. No reoccurance, no other cancer.

Best of luck to you!

Desert grandma

(1,075 posts)
89. Sending positive vibes and prayers...
Sat Feb 7, 2026, 02:30 PM
4 hrs ago

Praying that you will experience a complete recovery. Your cancers should be very treatable and perhaps even curative because they were caught early. I am experiencing a critical and sudden medical crisis with my husband as well. Our DU friends are so supportive. Know that we are here for you. ((hugs))

SidneyR

(211 posts)
90. I have been fighting bladder cancer for a couple years now.
Sat Feb 7, 2026, 02:31 PM
4 hrs ago

I'm not familiar with stage one--is that a UK system? I was diagnosed with "High Grade CIS with pagetoid spread." I'm not sure how that stages, but it is high risk for recurrence. After three TURBT operations and multiple rounds of BCG, I have been clear for about a year now. Next cystoscopy is in two weeks, to check again for recurrence.

I'd be happy to advise and encourage based on my experiences anytime I can help.

A-Schwarzenegger

(15,789 posts)
93. I had my prostate out 23 years ago
Sat Feb 7, 2026, 04:59 PM
1 hr ago

& i'm doing fine. I had to make some inconvenient adjustments along the way, but i just thought of how many of us men go through prostate cancer and at least didnt feel so all alone. My faith helped, my 12-step work helped, talking about it when i needed to helped. All my prayers and love to you, Mike. I'll tell you one story after i had the biopsy on my prostate. They told me before one of the minor effects of the biopsy, which i quickly forgot. So I was, uh, fiddling around with myself the next day or so, and my semen comes out brown! Rust-colored! A mix of semen and the blood that normally gets in there after the biopsy. My heart about stopped until i remembered what they'd told me, and i went ahead and cleaned up the area with relief. Again, Mike, prayers, etc., and if something incongruously makes you feel like laughing along the path, indulge! In fact if you message me your address I'll send you a copy of Mixed Animal, the novel. It might tickle you here and there.

mercuryblues

(16,238 posts)
94. You asked for advice
Sat Feb 7, 2026, 06:46 PM
1 min ago

I will start by saying find the best oncologist you can and listen to them. Let yourself feel what you feel.

Next up. Make a spread sheet for the Meds you will be on and what time to take them. Get yourself a monthly pill holder (Trust me.)

I used a large dry erase board to follow my weekly meds and appts. it worked out well. When I was taken off a med, I could erase it.
I am serious about this. At one point in my treatment, I was taking about 30 pills. I have no clue about your ins but get preapproved to use the pharmacy in the treatment center. Let me put it to you this way, after treatment you don't want to make a stop on your way home to get an Rx. Whoever is your ride can pick it up at the center, while you are getting treatment.

My best wishes for you.

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