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I avoid using that word (though I know the British don't cringe as much), Ocelot II Feb 12 #1
There ARE cases where it applies. USS_Dauntless Feb 12 #35
I look at the word like calling a guy a "Dick", obviously not saying the guy is like Nixon. Well, maybe so.. LiberalArkie Feb 12 #47
It is a no no word for my sex mr715 Feb 12 #2
My lips are sealed but my big beautiful brain is "running free" with forbidden words. Marie Marie Feb 12 #6
Same here. I won't say it but with respect to certain people I'll think it. Ocelot II Feb 12 #8
I'm a woman Betty Boom Feb 12 #49
I'm a man mr715 Feb 12 #52
So was I Betty Boom.... so was I! mountain grammy Feb 12 #56
I understand PatSeg Feb 12 #3
I find that word gross and vulgar. Dulcinea Feb 12 #28
Skags enid602 Feb 12 #30
On a bondi thread I posted "itch hore" and was alerted on. mobeau69 Feb 12 #37
Ditto that (without the "W" one) aeromanKC Feb 12 #59
How about bitch with a capital C? Tom Dyer Feb 12 #46
The best interpretation I have of Britons of using the word "c*nt" is, ironically, the same as when Americans say Intractable Feb 12 #4
She's puckered at both ends. Give Peace A Chance Feb 12 #42
I got admonished by DU monitors poli-junkie Feb 12 #5
See 37 above. mobeau69 Feb 12 #38
This message was self-deleted by its author mobeau69 Feb 12 #39
Nonsense Betty Boom Feb 12 #50
What are your views on sarisataka Feb 12 #58
I use the combination Traildogbob Feb 12 #7
Busted! snowybirdie Feb 12 #9
We've had many discussions about the word *bitch* on here. Some find it sexist to no big deal. Deuxcents Feb 12 #10
If I can't find a more creative insult than that, that would be on me EdmondDantes_ Feb 12 #11
+1 leftstreet Feb 12 #12
My wife, born and raised in the UK odins folly Feb 12 #13
I never used to use the B word. Irish_Dem Feb 12 #14
Kristi Noem too sboatcar Feb 12 #15
The one word (well, actually two) I will never say or even think DET Feb 12 #16
People are over thinking this Wifes husband Feb 12 #17
Wow. The fallacy is mercuryblues Feb 12 #18
No kidding. demmiblue Feb 12 #36
I thought you were going to say "Complicit". n/t Hugin Feb 12 #19
Contemptible. Harker Feb 12 #20
Misogyny isn't exclusive to the right, just sayin'. n/t demmiblue Feb 12 #21
She's an absolute c-word. mwooldri Feb 12 #22
With her, I would have to go with the old comeback steelyboo Feb 12 #23
Perfect Betty Boom Feb 12 #55
It's a word I rarely, rarely utter, but I was yelling it at the TV yesterday. LOL. Vinca Feb 12 #24
Same here. That's what made me post this Betty Boom Feb 12 #57
I hate it and will never use it, no matter how despicable someone is. Oneironaut Feb 12 #25
Nope. Still offensive Easterncedar Feb 12 #26
Channelling my inner Shakespeare from Twelfth Night ... aggiesal Feb 12 #27
What a wonderful play. I'll have to re-watch this - there are many productions available online. erronis Feb 12 #48
"See you next Tuesday" Pam Seinan Sensei Feb 12 #29
These people... idahoblue Feb 12 #31
Yeah, No. Kind Of Appalled, TBH. ColoringFool Feb 12 #32
Same obamanut2012 Feb 12 #34
It is insanely misogynistic, even when used in British English obamanut2012 Feb 12 #33
+1 leftstreet Feb 12 #41
Well that's the thing about British slang, they call the guys c*nts! Intractable Feb 12 #44
It's not a word i use, but there are times when virgdem Feb 12 #40
K&R red dog 1 Feb 12 #43
Ah, rationalization and self-justification sarisataka Feb 12 #45
I thought I was the only one calling her that RainCaster Feb 12 #51
It is not a word I have used. TNNurse Feb 12 #53
I propose a new descriptor for the lexicon, going forward. kurtyboy Feb 12 #54

Ocelot II

(130,187 posts)
1. I avoid using that word (though I know the British don't cringe as much),
Thu Feb 12, 2026, 04:11 PM
Feb 12

but I have to admit it came to mind when I saw the Pamster's performance.

LiberalArkie

(19,660 posts)
47. I look at the word like calling a guy a "Dick", obviously not saying the guy is like Nixon. Well, maybe so..
Thu Feb 12, 2026, 05:55 PM
Feb 12

mr715

(3,375 posts)
2. It is a no no word for my sex
Thu Feb 12, 2026, 04:12 PM
Feb 12

I will admit its use in the UK and Australia is deeply comic.

And yes, it is a slur that is useful when describing the deeply depraved Pam Bondi.

But I'm not gonna say it. Out loud.

Ocelot II

(130,187 posts)
8. Same here. I won't say it but with respect to certain people I'll think it.
Thu Feb 12, 2026, 04:17 PM
Feb 12

The Mother Of All Karens is one of those people.

Betty Boom

(435 posts)
49. I'm a woman
Thu Feb 12, 2026, 05:56 PM
Feb 12

And I was screaming it at the TV during her disgusting disrespectful performance.

PatSeg

(53,064 posts)
3. I understand
Thu Feb 12, 2026, 04:13 PM
Feb 12

But honestly, that is one word I can never get used to. Maybe it is the way it has been used around me and even about me. I'll just stick to "b*tch".

Dulcinea

(9,983 posts)
28. I find that word gross and vulgar.
Thu Feb 12, 2026, 05:19 PM
Feb 12

But it certainly applies to Pam Bondi & Karoline Whatsherface. Nasty skanks, both of them.

mobeau69

(12,325 posts)
37. On a bondi thread I posted "itch hore" and was alerted on.
Thu Feb 12, 2026, 05:36 PM
Feb 12

I posted that in the title and nothing else. Then I see posts where the complete words are used all the time! I won’t say it’s not fair because like a friend used to say “The fair’s in July”.

Intractable

(1,939 posts)
4. The best interpretation I have of Britons of using the word "c*nt" is, ironically, the same as when Americans say
Thu Feb 12, 2026, 04:14 PM
Feb 12

"You're a dick!"

poli-junkie

(1,549 posts)
5. I got admonished by DU monitors
Thu Feb 12, 2026, 04:14 PM
Feb 12

for using that descriptor about another MAGA woman. I was basically told I wasn’t allowed to use that word.

Response to poli-junkie (Reply #5)

Traildogbob

(12,926 posts)
7. I use the combination
Thu Feb 12, 2026, 04:17 PM
Feb 12

Of two organs, especially for this scum of a woman. “DUNK”, to describe her personality. And that is pretty gracious for her.

snowybirdie

(6,649 posts)
9. Busted!
Thu Feb 12, 2026, 04:18 PM
Feb 12

I hate that word and never use it, as it degrades woman. But did you monitor my tv viewing yesterday?

Deuxcents

(26,474 posts)
10. We've had many discussions about the word *bitch* on here. Some find it sexist to no big deal.
Thu Feb 12, 2026, 04:24 PM
Feb 12

The word * cunt* is the ultimate of vulgarities here in the US but used quite freely in other countries so it’s the power given the word, as you say. If one considers Pam Bondi the ultimate of vulgarity and wants to use the word, I’m not going to argue..if the shoe fits kinda thing with me.

EdmondDantes_

(1,669 posts)
11. If I can't find a more creative insult than that, that would be on me
Thu Feb 12, 2026, 04:26 PM
Feb 12

I don't feel the need to use a gendered slur in our society. The term doesn't make me wince if used in a British context, but in the American context it does, even if used against someone I think is a clownish cretin.

odins folly

(581 posts)
13. My wife, born and raised in the UK
Thu Feb 12, 2026, 04:37 PM
Feb 12

Has given me her permission to use the word, out loud. I reserve it for very specific descriptions of certain individuals.

The ag is one of those individuals. In fact, the word came up a few times yesterday as we were discussing the things we had read about the situation….

Irish_Dem

(80,815 posts)
14. I never used to use the B word.
Thu Feb 12, 2026, 04:52 PM
Feb 12

But now it is the only word I use when talking about Trump's bitches.

DET

(2,471 posts)
16. The one word (well, actually two) I will never say or even think
Thu Feb 12, 2026, 05:01 PM
Feb 12

It just strikes me like a slap in the face. It reflects the ultimate degradation of women. People can say what they want in other countries, but that word is (or should be) completely unacceptable here.

Wifes husband

(718 posts)
17. People are over thinking this
Thu Feb 12, 2026, 05:01 PM
Feb 12

I try to consider my audience when I am writing or speaking, and I try not to offend with out reason. And if I did not mean to offend, I will apologize.

However, I will say whatever I want, whenever I want, and to whomever I want. If that offends some one, that may have been my intention.

mercuryblues

(16,343 posts)
18. Wow. The fallacy is
Thu Feb 12, 2026, 05:02 PM
Feb 12

that using the word diminishes its power to degrade and dehumanize women. If you truly believe that, go up to a group of African Americans and call them the N word.

demmiblue

(39,609 posts)
36. No kidding.
Thu Feb 12, 2026, 05:33 PM
Feb 12

Imagine reading this on the front page of DU (like this one is right now) : “ I'm happy that [insert name] has finally made Americans embrace the N word.”

Disgusting and disappointing.

mwooldri

(10,810 posts)
22. She's an absolute c-word.
Thu Feb 12, 2026, 05:08 PM
Feb 12

My favourite insult of late has been "Absolute American"....

I have plenty of choice words for that person.

steelyboo

(861 posts)
23. With her, I would have to go with the old comeback
Thu Feb 12, 2026, 05:09 PM
Feb 12

"I'd call you a cunt, but you lack both the depth and warmth".

Betty Boom

(435 posts)
57. Same here. That's what made me post this
Thu Feb 12, 2026, 06:06 PM
Feb 12

And then I was struck today on social media by how many times I saw it being used to describe her. If the shoe fits, wear it.

Oneironaut

(6,276 posts)
25. I hate it and will never use it, no matter how despicable someone is.
Thu Feb 12, 2026, 05:13 PM
Feb 12

It’s a highly problematic gendered slur imo.

aggiesal

(10,731 posts)
27. Channelling my inner Shakespeare from Twelfth Night ...
Thu Feb 12, 2026, 05:18 PM
Feb 12

"By my life, this is my lady’s hand. These be her very c’s, her u’s, 'n her t’s, and thus makes she her great P’s. It is in contempt of question her hand."

erronis

(23,517 posts)
48. What a wonderful play. I'll have to re-watch this - there are many productions available online.
Thu Feb 12, 2026, 05:55 PM
Feb 12

idahoblue

(452 posts)
31. These people...
Thu Feb 12, 2026, 05:27 PM
Feb 12

They have made all the words applicable and accepted.
Fuck these fascist pig!
Bondi is the cuntious cunt in the entire world of cunts. Except maybe for the puppy killer.

obamanut2012

(29,309 posts)
33. It is insanely misogynistic, even when used in British English
Thu Feb 12, 2026, 05:31 PM
Feb 12

The meaning is still a term for a woman's genitals, and it is a negative term.

It si really gross to see this word advocated here at DU.

Calling ANY woman that is calling all women that.

leftstreet

(40,092 posts)
41. +1
Thu Feb 12, 2026, 05:44 PM
Feb 12

I hoped the comparisons upthread to "what if" normalizing the N word...would put a stop to this



Long ways to go before everyone stops thinking derogatory terms can sometimes be used as a "treat"

virgdem

(2,313 posts)
40. It's not a word i use, but there are times when
Thu Feb 12, 2026, 05:42 PM
Feb 12

it perfectly applies to certain people. and Bondi is very deserving of being called that name. If the shoe fits...

sarisataka

(22,489 posts)
45. Ah, rationalization and self-justification
Thu Feb 12, 2026, 05:55 PM
Feb 12

we sometimes see it here with homophobia.
Will it go as far as "rehabilitating" racist slurs because we don't mean every similar person, just one specific person? Time will tell.

TNNurse

(7,530 posts)
53. It is not a word I have used.
Thu Feb 12, 2026, 06:03 PM
Feb 12

When I worked in the hospital, we had a psych patient who was being admitted to a real psych hospital. We knew her well. She had tried to jump off balconies and elevated parking lots in our facility. We were waiting for an officer to pick her up for transport and she would not get dressed. She had on a hospital gown and that is all. She had clothes. Her nurse tried to reason with her and got called "cunt", the word had the desired effect on the nurse. I was the supervisor. I did not let it me even though the patient had an impressive grin on her face. I walked in and told her she could call me anything but either she got dressed or the cop and I would dress her. She backed down and got dressed. I told the nurse I understood her reaction. When used like that it is awful. Just so you know, later on the patient set fire to her apartment building and did some serious time.

But if I used the word, Pam Bondi and Karoline Leavette would bet the target.

kurtyboy

(1,007 posts)
54. I propose a new descriptor for the lexicon, going forward.
Thu Feb 12, 2026, 06:04 PM
Feb 12

Just as, in the film "Kingpin," the word for a loser was the surname of the lead character--a MUNSON.

From here on out, any petulant, bratty, unjustifiably contemptuous human who sounds like the current AG--well, I'm simply going to call them a BONDI.

As in, "Hegseth is such a Bondi." (Add Patel, Homan, Miller, and the champion Bondi of them all, Caroline Leavitt.)

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