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Duncanpup

(15,620 posts)
Sun Feb 2, 2025, 05:42 PM Feb 2025

Stopped nursing home today with Dunc the golden.

Visited my mother her new roommate lit up when she met Dunc the golden retriever. These ladies are dementia patients on that wing and strolling down hallway we always do the meet and greets people in hallway Nurses to residents and their smiles are worth it.

Yet my mom’s roommate just was so involved animated smiling giggling hanging with the golden chonk.
Dunc jumped up on the roommates bed and stretched out as this tiny woman sat on the edge of bed rubbing him.

Dude was totally into the attention he fell asleep yet I’ve never saw this lady so alert in previous perhaps two visits even with Dunc since she’s come to the wing.

It made me happy too see this woman having a good time and in her early stages of dementia and dementia is a bitch yet today she was aware alert.
And then leaving the lunch cart came past us in the hallway that got furry dudes attention nose sniffing the lady pushing cart asked if dude wanted to help her pass out chow.

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Stopped nursing home today with Dunc the golden. (Original Post) Duncanpup Feb 2025 OP
Awwwww that's so nice of you to take your furry boy to brighten others' days SheltieLover Feb 2025 #1
Oh Sheltie Duncanpup Feb 2025 #3
Sounds like a wonderful woman, Dunc! SheltieLover Feb 2025 #6
Sweet! sheshe2 Feb 2025 #2
Dogs bring out the best in people. Aussie105 Feb 2025 #4
Meeting my big, fluffy dog brought my sister a long way out of her dementia for a while when they visited. Attilatheblond Feb 2025 #5
Dogs truly are magical! SheltieLover Feb 2025 #7
Remember the good times, not the bad. Aussie105 Feb 2025 #8
Thoughts - soldierant Feb 2025 #16
Hugs to your pup. Duncanpup Feb 2025 #10
People in nursing homes really respond to dogs! Diamond_Dog Feb 2025 #9
He's into it for belly rubs Diamond dog. Duncanpup Feb 2025 #11
Awww he's such a good boy. Diamond_Dog Feb 2025 #12
Dunc the Golden Retriever - healer in chief. LoisB Feb 2025 #13
I bet hed be good at passing out chow Figarosmom Feb 2025 #14
Nice job! And good boy Dunk! Evolve Dammit Feb 2025 #15
K UTUSN Feb 2025 #17
Thank you for posting this Duncanpup. Very beautiful story debm55 Feb 2025 #18
❤️This story made my midnight. I miss my doggo & it's been a year... Hekate Feb 2025 #19
Congrats to Dunc for being such an excellent therapy dog for your Mom's roommate! ShazzieB Feb 2025 #20

Duncanpup

(15,620 posts)
3. Oh Sheltie
Sun Feb 2, 2025, 05:47 PM
Feb 2025

My mom loves dogs she probably enjoys seeing her furry grandson more than me 😉

SheltieLover

(77,007 posts)
6. Sounds like a wonderful woman, Dunc!
Sun Feb 2, 2025, 05:49 PM
Feb 2025

After all, your Golden furchild is truly special.

But I'm sure she really enjoys seeing you, too! You're quite the pair, you two.

Any more Rosa Parks moments?

Aussie105

(7,663 posts)
4. Dogs bring out the best in people.
Sun Feb 2, 2025, 05:48 PM
Feb 2025

Even the dementia people.

Met a lady - 12 month old Rottweiler - at a shopping centre, asked the human escort if I could say hello.
Human said ok.

The love in the eyes of the girl dog brightened the rest of my day.


Attilatheblond

(8,366 posts)
5. Meeting my big, fluffy dog brought my sister a long way out of her dementia for a while when they visited.
Sun Feb 2, 2025, 05:48 PM
Feb 2025

In fact, she announced she had to pee, and shuffled herself to the bathroom. My brother-in-law was dumbfounded as she was barely able to walk most of the time, and he said it had been over 2 years since she recognized her need to empty her bladder, let alone make her way to do it properly.

Dogs are magic. Give the Dunc a big hug for me. I love my current dogs, the big St Bernard cross and the wiry Portuguese Podengo rescued from the desert here, but will ALWAYS miss my huge Golden boy. Still shedding tears after nearly 13 years.



SheltieLover

(77,007 posts)
7. Dogs truly are magical!
Sun Feb 2, 2025, 05:50 PM
Feb 2025

Nothing mends the heart like the love of a puppy... Speaking from experience.

And this work with dementia patients is incredible!

Aussie105

(7,663 posts)
8. Remember the good times, not the bad.
Sun Feb 2, 2025, 05:51 PM
Feb 2025

The first meet, the puppy years, the walks, the play times.

Same tears here.

Wife (80) says 'no more new pets for us. Wouldn't be fair because they would outlive us."

Reluctantly me (76) has to agree. But sad, very sad.

soldierant

(9,291 posts)
16. Thoughts -
Sun Feb 2, 2025, 09:27 PM
Feb 2025

You might wan to consider a senior animal. Thay are very hard to place but often transform when fostered or adopted.

And - speaking of fosters- you might want to consider that also.

Just thoughts.

Duncanpup

(15,620 posts)
10. Hugs to your pup.
Sun Feb 2, 2025, 05:52 PM
Feb 2025

Dunc is now deciding should i go and mooch off my hooman brother as he’s eating Stromboli should i leave cuddles with dad.

Diamond_Dog

(39,838 posts)
9. People in nursing homes really respond to dogs!
Sun Feb 2, 2025, 05:51 PM
Feb 2025

And Dunc would be a fantastic therapy dog.

How nice of you to bring him and brighten everyone’s day!

Duncanpup

(15,620 posts)
11. He's into it for belly rubs Diamond dog.
Sun Feb 2, 2025, 05:53 PM
Feb 2025

My mom loves dogs she always we always had dogs.

Figarosmom

(9,898 posts)
14. I bet hed be good at passing out chow
Sun Feb 2, 2025, 06:51 PM
Feb 2025

One for you and one for me
One for you and one for me
Etc

ShazzieB

(22,240 posts)
20. Congrats to Dunc for being such an excellent therapy dog for your Mom's roommate!
Mon Feb 3, 2025, 06:32 PM
Feb 2025

Sounds like he is doing the same for you Mom and the other ladies there as well. Good for him!

Dogs are very therapeutic, and I imagine Goldens are very good for that as they love everybody.

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