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Duncanpup

(14,070 posts)
Sun Feb 2, 2025, 05:42 PM Feb 2

Stopped nursing home today with Dunc the golden.

Visited my mother her new roommate lit up when she met Dunc the golden retriever. These ladies are dementia patients on that wing and strolling down hallway we always do the meet and greets people in hallway Nurses to residents and their smiles are worth it.

Yet my mom’s roommate just was so involved animated smiling giggling hanging with the golden chonk.
Dunc jumped up on the roommates bed and stretched out as this tiny woman sat on the edge of bed rubbing him.

Dude was totally into the attention he fell asleep yet I’ve never saw this lady so alert in previous perhaps two visits even with Dunc since she’s come to the wing.

It made me happy too see this woman having a good time and in her early stages of dementia and dementia is a bitch yet today she was aware alert.
And then leaving the lunch cart came past us in the hallway that got furry dudes attention nose sniffing the lady pushing cart asked if dude wanted to help her pass out chow.

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SheltieLover

(62,739 posts)
6. Sounds like a wonderful woman, Dunc!
Sun Feb 2, 2025, 05:49 PM
Feb 2

After all, your Golden furchild is truly special.

But I'm sure she really enjoys seeing you, too! You're quite the pair, you two.

Any more Rosa Parks moments?

Aussie105

(6,740 posts)
4. Dogs bring out the best in people.
Sun Feb 2, 2025, 05:48 PM
Feb 2

Even the dementia people.

Met a lady - 12 month old Rottweiler - at a shopping centre, asked the human escort if I could say hello.
Human said ok.

The love in the eyes of the girl dog brightened the rest of my day.


Attilatheblond

(5,172 posts)
5. Meeting my big, fluffy dog brought my sister a long way out of her dementia for a while when they visited.
Sun Feb 2, 2025, 05:48 PM
Feb 2

In fact, she announced she had to pee, and shuffled herself to the bathroom. My brother-in-law was dumbfounded as she was barely able to walk most of the time, and he said it had been over 2 years since she recognized her need to empty her bladder, let alone make her way to do it properly.

Dogs are magic. Give the Dunc a big hug for me. I love my current dogs, the big St Bernard cross and the wiry Portuguese Podengo rescued from the desert here, but will ALWAYS miss my huge Golden boy. Still shedding tears after nearly 13 years.



SheltieLover

(62,739 posts)
7. Dogs truly are magical!
Sun Feb 2, 2025, 05:50 PM
Feb 2

Nothing mends the heart like the love of a puppy... Speaking from experience.

And this work with dementia patients is incredible!

Aussie105

(6,740 posts)
8. Remember the good times, not the bad.
Sun Feb 2, 2025, 05:51 PM
Feb 2

The first meet, the puppy years, the walks, the play times.

Same tears here.

Wife (80) says 'no more new pets for us. Wouldn't be fair because they would outlive us."

Reluctantly me (76) has to agree. But sad, very sad.

soldierant

(8,193 posts)
16. Thoughts -
Sun Feb 2, 2025, 09:27 PM
Feb 2

You might wan to consider a senior animal. Thay are very hard to place but often transform when fostered or adopted.

And - speaking of fosters- you might want to consider that also.

Just thoughts.

Duncanpup

(14,070 posts)
10. Hugs to your pup.
Sun Feb 2, 2025, 05:52 PM
Feb 2

Dunc is now deciding should i go and mooch off my hooman brother as he’s eating Stromboli should i leave cuddles with dad.

Diamond_Dog

(35,970 posts)
9. People in nursing homes really respond to dogs!
Sun Feb 2, 2025, 05:51 PM
Feb 2

And Dunc would be a fantastic therapy dog.

How nice of you to bring him and brighten everyone’s day!

Figarosmom

(4,523 posts)
14. I bet hed be good at passing out chow
Sun Feb 2, 2025, 06:51 PM
Feb 2

One for you and one for me
One for you and one for me
Etc

ShazzieB

(19,464 posts)
20. Congrats to Dunc for being such an excellent therapy dog for your Mom's roommate!
Mon Feb 3, 2025, 06:32 PM
Feb 3

Sounds like he is doing the same for you Mom and the other ladies there as well. Good for him!

Dogs are very therapeutic, and I imagine Goldens are very good for that as they love everybody.

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