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Over the past year, Metropolitan Diary shared more than 250 tales of life in New York City. Now, readers have chosen the best. New York Times editors narrowed the entire field to a top 5, from which readers picked their favorite during a two-week online vote.
The Winner
Dear Diary:
I went to a new bagel store in Brooklyn Heights with my son.
When it was my turn to order, I asked for a cinnamon raisin bagel with whitefish salad and a slice of red onion.
The man behind the counter looked up at me.
Im sorry, he said. I cant do that.
Richie Powers
Two of the Finalists
Ferry Farewell
Dear Diary:
On a February afternoon, I met my cousins at the Staten Island Ferry Terminal. Their spouses and several of our very-grown children were there too. I brought Prosecco, a candle, a small speaker to play music, photos and a poem.
We were there to recreate the wedding cruise of my mother, Monica, and my stepfather, Peter. They had gotten married at City Hall in August 1984. She was 61, and he, 71. It was her first marriage, and his fourth.
I was my mothers witness that day. It was a late-in-life love story, and they were very happy. Peter died in 1996, at 82. My mother died last year. She was 100.
Peters ashes had waited a long time, but finally they were mingled with Monicas. The two of them would ride the ferry a last time and then swirl together in the harbor forever. Cue the candles, bubbly, bagpipes and poems.
Two ferry workers approached us. We knew we were in trouble: Open containers and open flames were not allowed on the ferry.
My cousins husband, whispering, told the workers what we were doing and said we would be finished soon.
They walked off, and then returned. They said they had spoken to the captain, and they ushered us to the stern for some privacy. As the cup of ashes flew into the water, the ferry horn sounded two long blasts.
Caitlin Margaret May
Nice Place
Dear Diary:
When I lived in Park Slope over 20 years ago, I once had to call an ambulance because of a sudden, violent case of food poisoning.
Two paramedics, a man and a woman, entered our third-floor walk-up with a portable chair. Strapping me in, the male medic quickly inserted an IV line into my arm.
Out of the corner of my eye, I could see his partner circling around and admiring the apartment.
Nice place youve got here, she said. Do you own it?
Yeah, I muttered, all but unconscious.
Once I was in the ambulance, she returned to her line of inquiry.
Do you mind me asking how much you paid for your apartment?
$155,000, I croaked.
Wow! You must have bought during the recession.
Yeah, I said.
They dropped me off at Methodist Hospital, where I was tended to by a nurse as I struggled to stay lucid.
At some point, the same medic poked her head into the room with one last question:
You wouldnt be wanting to sell any time soon, would you?
Melinda DeRocker
https://www.nytimes.com/2025/12/28/nyregion/metropolitan-diary.html
quaint
(4,620 posts)The Winner left me confused.
Ferry Farewell had me tear up.
Nice Place gave me chuckles.
Donkees
(33,382 posts)I don't subscribe to the NYT, so it's a longer process editing by jumping through hoops
quaint
(4,620 posts)I saw the "unacceptable" answer but not being a bagel eater, plus having spent my Upstate NY years at ages one through five, I am clueless as to why.
onethatcares
(16,961 posts)nt