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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsWhat's your daily simple joy?
Mine is having frothy milk in my coffee every morning. Lived 40 years without knowing the simple joy of warm frothy milk until a trip to Switzerland. Bought a small froth machine as soon as I got home. ☕️
marble falls
(71,178 posts)... life is magical with ritual.
markie
(23,894 posts)I found the most enlightening class I took was "The Transformative Power of Ritual"
Woodwizard
(1,272 posts)Reminding me it is time to get up. He will also jiggle the dresser drawer handles if nothing handy to smack around.
NJCher
(42,557 posts)Hitting the floor as he jumps off the bed.
I laughed at the idea of your cat resorting to jiggling the bureau drawer handles. Cute little nut.
Groundhawg
(1,205 posts)markie
(23,894 posts)to greet my chickens, open the coop door and let free range for the day....
tonkatoy8888
(176 posts)Coffee and the NY Times crossword first thing in the morning.
Cooking dinner while drinking a couple of beers and listening to music. Right now, I'm working my way through the operas of Handel. For opera/orchestral music lovers I highly recommend Julius Caesar.
Drum
(10,578 posts)I was in an opera production of it, and it was a month of glorious rehearsals and performances. Priceless.
Redleg
(6,831 posts)some time in the late 90s. It was wonderful. One of our college staff people had a leading role and she was fantastic.
tonkatoy8888
(176 posts)Moscow Chamber Orchestra/Christopher Moulds, conductor
A surprisingly special orchestra and the cast is phenomenal. Especially countertenor Ayren Nussbaum-Cohen and soprano Amanda Forsythe.
Sun-Moon
(237 posts)Morphed into Operas!
Nephew is a tenor and it really is good to see the topic be discussed..
ultralite001
(2,369 posts)The rattle of beans in the grinder
The wur as they grind
The set up of the carafe
The aroma of freshly ground beans added to the filter
The scent as water creates the bloom
The tinkle as the dark magic liquid is produced
The excitement while stirring the slurry in a favorite mug
The satisfaction pouring the coffee
The comfort w/ that first sip, first whiff, first swallow
For one moment, all is right w/ the world + I can do anything
Redleg
(6,831 posts)I can't start my day without it. I do have a hand frother that I use on weekends when I have a bit more time to relax and really enjoy my coffee.
TommieMommy
(2,679 posts)Mad_Dem_X
(10,138 posts)and, of course, coffee.
lucca18
(1,447 posts)I open the sliding glass door, he sticks his head in, and I hand him a walnut.
He climbs up the arbor to eat the walnut, and then comes down for more!
❤️
Skittles
(169,787 posts)once when she was busy and Basil was at the front door, I gave him a walnut as she instructed.......then I yelled to her, HE'S STILL HERE and she said, "WELL YOU HAVE TO GIVE HIM MORE THAN ONE, HE'S A BLOODY SQUIRREL"! (yes mum was a Brit)
lucca18
(1,447 posts)AllaN01Bear
(28,663 posts)electric_blue68
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Long post, but it was wonderful, and soothing (as I wait for this to happen again) to recall this Nature's procession.
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Our ALP has a sweet, tree filled backyard (within a enclosure of buildings on a super block) including 3 flowering trees: 2 kanzan cherry trees, with the fancy, pink blossoms, and a white one idk what it is.
I'm on the 3rd floor facing the mid-upper tree crowns. I love watching the decidious (non-conferous) leaf buds swell. Having taken a zoomed photo last week - buds are still tight.The beautiful bright, even shiny light spring green of the new little leaves, slowly growing, turning a more "apple" green, then eventually over 2 months or so turning summer green. The sunlight glitrering on the leaves. I can catch a glimpse of the kanzan pink flowers at very lower corner of my right window, and see the white one across the yard.
As long as it's in the ?upper 50°s+, and not raining, or below ?93°-ish (not too humid) I'm out there on a bench under -the trees with a book, yarn work, even a bit of simple jewelry wire working for the very least a half hour, more often 1 - 2 hours. Also taking photos, too. Who'd have guessed I'd have a backyard in my later life! 🥰🌳🌳🌲🌳 It is glorious!
But now (just remembered) I have a *New Summer Ritual*. Something prompted me to think about fireflies last summer. Ah, I think my sister told me of seeing them in her right outside, big park.
So, I went down at dusk. And, yes there were fireflies! Saw 2 of the 3 kinds (orange, yellow, or green) of color flashes. And I took a video! 🩷
Going to make sure I get out there every, or every other night (weather petmitting) to watch them. Nature's extra magic!
NJCher
(42,557 posts)One time I was lost on a mountain trail while out for a run. It was dark and it was getting cold. I was dressed only in shorts and a T and felt desperate.
Some fireflies, about 50, Id guess, formed a long line and escorted me to my car. I had the good sense to follow them.
That was decades ago. I have never forgotten it and still can see them in my mind.
I am so happy to hear how you are enjoying your back yard.
Rebl2
(17,441 posts)we adopted last year. We thought when our previous cat, who we loved so much, passed away, we would never get another cat. I am so glad that we did! She has been a joy and so different from the other cats we have had😊!
justaprogressive
(6,346 posts)snuggles every night, bounces over the bed to see me etc.etc

LogDog75
(1,121 posts)I usually take a 30 minute nap in the afternoon and I set my watch to vibrate to wake me up. Often, I'll wake up 10 minutes early and I take pleasure in resuming the nap for another 10 minutes.
bif
(26,707 posts)my bowl of ice cream when I watch tv at night. And listening to Gustav Mahler.
Aristus
(71,736 posts)and into my pajamas and bathrobe.
Totally Tunsie
(11,610 posts)and "sleeping in" on dark, rainy days.
Ahhhh, retirement!
Hassler
(4,782 posts)Then on to firing up the kettle for my french press coffee, while watching the dawn unfold. About 20 years and counting.
duckworth969
(1,230 posts)Coffee, chocolate and classical music.
Zackzzzz
(280 posts)democrank
(12,210 posts)Fire up the wood stoves
Sit with a cup of coffee
Send Im-thinking-of-you messages to my daughter and son and to any friend who may need encouragement or support
Wait for daylight and enjoy whatever sights it offers: a woodpecker, church steeple, distant mountains, a workers truck, wood pile, sunrise or snowstorm.
Write a To-Do list
fierywoman
(8,510 posts)ritual that accompanies it.
NJCher
(42,557 posts)Of the universe.
I lie on my.bed until the wave hits me. Then I jump on. The feeling is spectacular. I tingle from head to toe. The rest of the day is all green lights.
democrank
(12,210 posts)then I turned 80
.now its try with all my might to want to jump.
Heres to your green lights
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SamKnause
(14,757 posts)I spend my days watching and listening to Dire Straits and Mark Knopfler during his solo career.
If I am not listening to music, I am watching every basketball game that I can find that Larry Bird played in.
I find myself with a big smile on my face enjoying all the things I am grateful for.
SorellaLaBefana
(486 posts)Today we got a nice image of the Sombrero Galaxy, and saw distant fox eyes glowing in the night.
lark
(25,913 posts)Feeding "our" feral kitty while on the walk, and seeing how healthy and shiny and funny she is. Sharing affection with our dog and cats