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XanaDUer2

(14,841 posts)
Wed Dec 25, 2024, 04:24 PM Dec 25

Don't think of your "partner"

This is my dumb fault. A lady gave me a new cd stand she was throwing out, so I thought the useless pos might be able to use it. Our apt is cramped and crowded, but he wants to move a latge cat condo in.

So I show it amd he starts yelling at me about the room and being an all-around prick. All he had to calmly say was thanks, no thanks not enuf room just throw it out.

Lesson learned. When will it ever sink in for me? I'm a dumbass. Merry Christmas.

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Don't think of your "partner" (Original Post) XanaDUer2 Dec 25 OP
I'm beginning to think you view your relationship as abusive. Frasier Balzov Dec 25 #1
Oh he's abusive XanaDUer2 Dec 25 #2
What I did for Love. Frasier Balzov Dec 25 #3
I hate that movie XanaDUer2 Dec 25 #4
Hey wait a minute. Frasier Balzov Dec 25 #5
They are XanaDUer2 Dec 25 #6
He's laughing at his own cleverness XanaDUer2 Dec 25 #7

Frasier Balzov

(3,639 posts)
1. I'm beginning to think you view your relationship as abusive.
Wed Dec 25, 2024, 04:26 PM
Dec 25

But I know you are able to give back as good as you get!

XanaDUer2

(14,841 posts)
2. Oh he's abusive
Wed Dec 25, 2024, 04:34 PM
Dec 25

He constantly threatens me with money. I told him finally stop paying the rent, they'll evict us and then this Hell will be over in 30 days. We can go our seperate ways. That I'll tell the rental office in in an abusive situation and i want them to evist us. I'm having jaw ear pain and this stuff makes it worse.

He smokes and has been coughing... he's an all around pos grinding and snorting opioid pills til he got kicked off, drinking a gallon of wine in 4 hrs...smokes...now hes snorting something else but my therapist said stay out of it its his choice. I used to express concern n was screamed at. He should have ODd on crack in the 90s and i wouldn't be here now.

XanaDUer2

(14,841 posts)
4. I hate that movie
Wed Dec 25, 2024, 04:40 PM
Dec 25

Basically, I'm doing it for a pension and bills paid, and the pension is really starting to not matter. Fuck him. A priest came out to take my Confession he should have confessed too but hes so full of shit he wouldn't tell the truth. He's in there arguing politics w strangers on his handheld. This is all he does all day.

Frasier Balzov

(3,639 posts)
5. Hey wait a minute.
Wed Dec 25, 2024, 04:44 PM
Dec 25

You've got 14,600 posts.

Don't you argue politics with strangers too?

Surely ALL your posts can't be about domestic grievances?

XanaDUer2

(14,841 posts)
6. They are
Wed Dec 25, 2024, 04:46 PM
Dec 25

Or health problems. I avoid gd for the most part. I don't have a lot of outlets, so DU is it. I told pos he's going to insult the wrong person one day and be sorry. Hes a know it all

XanaDUer2

(14,841 posts)
7. He's laughing at his own cleverness
Wed Dec 25, 2024, 05:13 PM
Dec 25

I'm not sure he understands how much everyone hates him. Several fb friends blocked him n then pmd me to apologize...he told me my posts were upsetting him he was going to snooze me...i said go ahead and block me asshole idc. That upset him. I said nevermind. I'll save you the work. N block. U... meanwhile ppl r asking me whats wrong w him he's become so unhinged...i said no apology needed block him idc.

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