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OldBaldy1701E

(10,004 posts)
Tue Dec 23, 2025, 11:18 PM Tuesday

I hope you all make it through the season.

As alone as we may feel, we are actually not. I know that may be tough to believe at times, and I can attest to that fact myself.

Please know that I wish us all some time of peace and joy these next few weeks.

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I hope you all make it through the season. (Original Post) OldBaldy1701E Tuesday OP
We will and so will you! Ocelot II Tuesday #1
Thank you. Wishing the same for you. LoisB Yesterday #2
Right back at you OB, and all around. mahina Yesterday #3
Whishing the same for you OldBaldy IbogaProject Yesterday #4
christmas is tough for me because of memories . we move foreward though and break thrugh it. :) AllaN01Bear Yesterday #5
Merry Resist-mas. Stay strong, raise hell, and have a healthy New Year--we'll get through this together. Timeflyer Yesterday #6
You are kind to think of us. crosinski Yesterday #7
Yes. I am in the same boat. OldBaldy1701E 14 hrs ago #8
Crimmus! OldBaldy1701E 11 hrs ago #9
Alone but not lonely! ... OldBoss 3 hrs ago #10
I suspect that it has been very bad for those Minnesotans who have been caught up in that crap. OldBaldy1701E 3 hrs ago #11

AllaN01Bear

(28,492 posts)
5. christmas is tough for me because of memories . we move foreward though and break thrugh it. :)
Wed Dec 24, 2025, 01:27 AM
Yesterday

looking torward the mid terms,

Timeflyer

(3,640 posts)
6. Merry Resist-mas. Stay strong, raise hell, and have a healthy New Year--we'll get through this together.
Wed Dec 24, 2025, 09:09 AM
Yesterday

crosinski

(669 posts)
7. You are kind to think of us.
Wed Dec 24, 2025, 09:59 PM
Yesterday

The holidays are stressful for me because I do all the cooking … and usually the clean up too. A group hug is very much appreciated.

OldBaldy1701E

(10,004 posts)
8. Yes. I am in the same boat.
Thu Dec 25, 2025, 08:44 AM
14 hrs ago

I do the work, others do the celebrating.

Your efforts are not seen as minuscule by myself, that is for sure!

OldBoss

(62 posts)
10. Alone but not lonely! ...
Thu Dec 25, 2025, 07:11 PM
3 hrs ago

Been in bed since yesterday and not improving much, nasty cold or flu but no phlegm or temperature. Most of my fam is scattered around the country and we spent a lot of time together this year - so no regret missing the fam, they knew months ago I’d be absent. I’m missing close friends but they totally understand and I’m thankful. I have a roaring fire and two fur babies to keep me warm, and plenty of amazing food.

But, I still cannot shake my combo anger and sadness about ICE detentions in MN past two weeks. Two friends detained overnight. Both citizens. Both Anoka. Dozens of other reports from friends and plenty in the news.

Sorry if I’m not thinking clearly, but I wonder how this impacts local economies? People don’t leave the house cuz they’re afraid of getting detained even if they’re citizens! That’s fcuked and literally what is happening for both citizens and non-citizens here. So they are all missing wages during the holidays and many had little money at the end of the month anyway (and lesser wages means lesser taxes dontcha know).

I wonder what payroll has been like for local retailers impacted by this? I could be waaay wrong but if POC stayed home and didn’t show up for work, their
“don’t have to apologize for being white” peers picked up a bunch of extra shifts and overtime. Or more likely the stores just had longer lines and worse service for customers.

The local gig economy has to be measurably suffering too. Uber/Eats, Lyft, DoorDash, Instacart, etc. That’s not a small number. And with fewer local drivers - businesses lose revenue too, both local and national.

Too bad we didn’t have more snow in the last 48-hours. I’m not sure what % of snow plow drivers are POC but wouldn’t be surprised if it’s double-digits or actually a lot more. Maybe not MNDOT and ciounty/state roadways but certainly city, retail, and private properties. And what if Becky soccer mom can’t get creme fraiche from Kowalski's cuz the local streets and parking lots are mucked?

Thanks for your patience, gonna put the mouse down now and resume my slumber.

OldBaldy1701E

(10,004 posts)
11. I suspect that it has been very bad for those Minnesotans who have been caught up in that crap.
Thu Dec 25, 2025, 07:28 PM
3 hrs ago

I can just hope that those same brave souls who have been out there raising hell will continue to do so.

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