Pets
Related: About this forumMy dog died.
She was the (very) older of the two. Really smart and sweet. I'm so tired of feeling sad.
Both dogs appeared to be grieving the other losses in our family, but she stopped eating. I took her into the vet. I have no idea what my finances are going to look like, so I couldn't hospitalize her. We tried other treatment over the last week, but she was getting progressively worse.

Walleye
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lark
(25,312 posts)They are so sweet and have such pure souls.
SheltieLover
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hlthe2b
(110,862 posts)I have treasured each and every one of my dogs, who got me through the worse of the worse in life.
May you find comfort with your remaining dog and peace in grieving together.
Tanuki
(15,961 posts)Cherish the memories and knowing that you gave her a good doggie life, filled with and caring. ❤️
Tetrachloride
(8,872 posts)badhair77
(4,931 posts)Our babies take a piece of our hearts with them. I hope your memories of her can help give you peace.
niyad
(125,760 posts)send peace and comfort to eer grieving loved ones.
I am so very sorry for your loss.
gademocrat7
(11,590 posts)On the loss of your beloved dog.
spooky3
(37,695 posts)Pets bring so much to our lives.
brer cat
(27,053 posts)It is heartbreaking to lose a furbaby.
Duncanpup
(14,955 posts)70sEraVet
(4,708 posts)rubbersole
(10,199 posts)Sending sympathy your way. Losing a pet is devastating.
Emile
(36,274 posts)onecaliberal
(36,594 posts)Hugs.
twodogsbarking
(14,742 posts)do what you must with compassion. Sorry for your loss. Remember what you had not what you lost.
LakeArenal
(29,949 posts)When ready, there are so many dog hearts yet to fill.
There are so many great dogs waiting to meet in Dog Heaven, too. Cuz it wouldn’t be heaven without dogs.
littlemissmartypants
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keithbvadu2
(40,915 posts)Ilsa
(63,078 posts)vercetti2021
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orleans
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murielm99
(32,188 posts)It always hurts to lose a dog. They have our hearts.
SilasSouleII
(485 posts)Dogs are the best.
StarryNite
(11,687 posts)The pain of losing a pup is nearly unbearable.
Ilsa
(63,078 posts)It's been six weeks of hell for our family.
mahina
(19,951 posts)That’s such a tough loss.
MontanaMama
(24,513 posts)Losing a beloved pet is awful…just awful.
GoneOffShore
(17,877 posts)MLAA
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area51
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pandr32
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Polly Hennessey
(7,997 posts)photo it says, “Thanks for everything.”
I am so sorry, Ilsa.
SouthernDem4ever
(6,618 posts)It's hard on the heart to lose a treasured pet.
kairos12
(13,374 posts)Hope22
(4,081 posts)She was lucky to have such a loving home. Sending love to you and yours. 💗💗🙏
Xoan
(25,544 posts)blueknight73
(326 posts)As I get older I seriously like animals better than people. Best wishes to you
in2herbs
(3,864 posts)it's their time to go. At that time our job is to support them. It sounds like you did.
IMO losing an animal is more traumatic than losing a human.
Sorry for your loss.
kimbutgar
(25,697 posts)But your doggie is smiling down on you from heaven!
Moostache
(10,705 posts)I wish I had words to make the pain less, but the memories of the time pent with our beloved animals does eventually replace the horrible feeling of loss. My wish for you is that those memories swiftly overpower your loss.
Lucinda
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FoxNewsSucks
(11,243 posts)Dogs are the best family members in the world.
pazzyanne
(6,707 posts)We grieve for our furry companions who have been with us in good times and bad. They have given us so much to enrich our lives. Take care of you and your other fur baby, who is also missing her companion. Prayers for you both on the way to you!
KPN
(16,820 posts)losing a dog can truly feel like losing one’s best friend. My heart goes out to you.
cate94
(2,991 posts)I had to say good bye to my sweet dog last week. The amount of grief seems to be equal to the amount of love.
1WorldHope
(1,488 posts)virgdem
(2,272 posts)liberalmuse
(18,876 posts)I'm so sorry for the loss of your 4-legged friend. It hurts so much to lose our sidekicks. I hope you can find some peace and comfort in the wonderful memories.
IrishAfricanAmerican
(4,282 posts)Sorry for your loss.
IthinkThereforeIAM
(3,198 posts)... few years ago, my ex-wife got assigned to work in NYC for a week, her 13 year old Shih Tzu, Max, had just had 6 inches of intestine removed due to cancer and she asked me to take care of him. She stated he would not eat and was weak... I make homemade bread in, "The Bread Machine/Welbilt", and got him to eat/scarf up the crusts from my sandwiches. After a day and a half or so he was jumping around playing outside with my own Shih Tzu, Peanut. And then he started eating Peanut's dog food, too!
Of course when I messaged my ex that Max started playing around for a minute or two when outside, she said, "you better not be lying to me"!
He lived another 6 months.
I share this so that if you are in this situation again, something to try.
Regards.
calimary
(87,242 posts)Even when they’re old and sick and in serious undeniable decline. It’s STILL hard as hell to let them go. Been there. I’m still struggling with it, and still missing them deeply and dearly as I know you are right now.
I think we all not only understand that, but have had to walk in those shoes, also. It’s so hard to say goodbye. Even as you want their pain and suffering to end. So sad that it means they end, also.
3catwoman3
(27,289 posts)…”merged with the universe.” It was a thought I found somewhat comforting. In our family, we call it liberating the spirit.
One of our vets once said to me that we bring our animals into our lives, knowing that we will outlive them, but we choose to do so anyway because our lives are so much richer for the being in it.
It sounds as if your beloved dog was ready to move on and you did the loving thing by listening to her. It’s always hard, even when it right.
Ilsa
(63,078 posts)a blanket on the grass and pine straw. It was windy, overcast, the trees were making music with their leaves, the birds were busy. It gave her an opportunity to pee/poop outside without being concerned about making a mess indoors. I had to bring her in when Nicole got too close.
Several nights ago she woke me up coming into my room to get on my bed. I had to lift her. She's not a cuddler, but I cuddled her anyway. She hadn't step in my bed in several months.
Maraya1969
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Permanut
(7,403 posts)Been there. Good on ya for making a good life for the little doggie.
ZZenith
(4,383 posts)Thanks for taking such good care of her.
iemanja
(56,404 posts)I know how difficult it is to lose a furry family member.
LetMyPeopleVote
(167,244 posts)It is hard to say goodbye to a family member
peacebuzzard
(5,618 posts)I am so sorry Ilsa, no words can express this loss.
they are family, maybe more, maybe these little critters are angels among us.