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KS Toronado

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Sat Feb 14, 2026, 12:36 PM 23 hrs ago

My cancer update, not pretty [View all]

As many of you know I went to the Doctor's office Jan. of last year with a small tender lump on my jaw. I found
out yesterday at the Doctor's office I weighed 265 lbs that visit, today I weigh 205, losing most of it in the last
five months.

To refresh, the cancer center took 5 months to get any treatment started and they put me on an auto-immune
treatment once a month for 8 months. Finished those late Dec., scheduled me for a CT & PET scan an hour apart
Jan 20. Meet with my 5th new cancer Doc the 28th to review the scans, in addition to the lymph node surrounding
my right carotid artery there are now 6 more lymph nodes in my neck area growing plus the cancer is 4 times the
size it was a year ago. And he wanted to get me started on more auto-immune treatments right away, as politely
as I could I reminded him I'm sicker today than I was before all the treatments. He referred me to the head cancer
Doctor.

I meet with him & his head nurse for over 2 hours yesterday, looking over my CT & PET scans he believes the
cancer has gone back into my vocal cords and even up into my nose. He got me scheduled with the ENT docs
this coming Tuesday to put the scope down and look at my vocal cords to see if they are cancerous, and if they
are any future treatment will get complicated.

The day after the 2 scans I got real sick, peeling chapped lips and blowing a lot of red snot out of my nose, watery
eyes plus being really tired, I was thinking it was a reaction to the radio active dyes that were used, Doc & Nurse both said it wasn't that and encouraged me to go see my family Doctor. Got an appt with her yesterday afternoon and
glad I went, she believes I picked up a bug the day of my scans, gave me a couple prescriptions that appear to be helping, so that's a little good news.

Any suggestions for fating foods, Doc said I need to put weight back on.

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My cancer update, not pretty [View all] KS Toronado 23 hrs ago OP
I am so sorry to hear that KS Toronado jfz9580m 23 hrs ago #1
What a nightmare for you. pandr32 23 hrs ago #2
Those are some great suggestions. And use real greek yogurt without emulsifiers - recommend Fage. erronis 22 hrs ago #9
Exactly. pandr32 22 hrs ago #15
Breyers. The best ice cream on the market. Silver Gaia 17 hrs ago #68
Thank you! pandr32 16 hrs ago #72
I always have a Yoplait yogurt every day KS Toronado 2 hrs ago #86
Yikes! 2naSalit 23 hrs ago #3
You are brave. quaint 23 hrs ago #4
I am so sorry to hear this KS, you have been through so much. sheshe2 23 hrs ago #5
Thanks SS KS Toronado 2 hrs ago #87
.... Spazito 23 hrs ago #6
Thanks for the recipe, I'll try it. KS Toronado 2 hrs ago #88
You're very welcome! You can also spoon the hamburger mix over a half a hamburger bun... Spazito 1 hr ago #90
Mmm, that sounds good! I love Montreal Steak seasoning (and mushrooms, mushrooms, mushrooms)! liberalla 1 hr ago #100
I add chives to my potatoes as well depending what I am serving them with... Spazito 49 min ago #103
More yummmm! liberalla 21 min ago #107
I'm so sorry. That's a lot to go through. Solly Mack 22 hrs ago #7
I will keep you in my prayers, KS Toronado. My husband has malignant cancer and they took their good old time, getting debm55 22 hrs ago #8
Hugs! erronis 22 hrs ago #10
I'm so sorry to hear you're going through so much stage left 22 hrs ago #11
Peanut Butter! OldBaldy1701E 22 hrs ago #12
Several people have mentioned Peanut Butter KS Toronado 2 hrs ago #89
I don't have the correct words to express my feeling for what you are going LoisB 22 hrs ago #13
Sending love and healing energy to you! 💗🙏🏼 Hope22 22 hrs ago #14
Blessings and white light dear ks tornanado. 1WorldHope 22 hrs ago #16
Ice cream if you can take it malaise 22 hrs ago #17
I hope you get better JoseBalow 22 hrs ago #18
So sorry to hear this. Healing vibes on the way to you! SheltieLover 22 hrs ago #19
I can only say that you have my fondest hopes for interventional care that will promote hlthe2b 22 hrs ago #20
Thank you, I should be asking the head cancer Doctor about diet KS Toronado 1 hr ago #91
Lumberjack breakfast, cheesestake sandwich and shake for lunch and lasagna with a pina colada for dinner. SunSeeker 22 hrs ago #21
Fuck cancer Nevilledog 22 hrs ago #22
WOW, thanks for that fantastic LINK! KS Toronado 1 hr ago #93
You are most welcome, my dear KS. Nevilledog 1 hr ago #94
So very sorry to hear this. 3catwoman3 22 hrs ago #23
Oh man, no one should be going through all of this. Even if our medical personnel were competent, it's a huge struggle. Exp 22 hrs ago #24
Sending healing thoughts your way Mz Pip 22 hrs ago #25
So sorry. WestMichRad 22 hrs ago #26
Wishing only the best for you, from Canada. Bev54 22 hrs ago #27
Sending healing vibes to you++++++++++ spooky3 22 hrs ago #28
I can't believe the delays and lousy decisions your doctors have provided. If you have an oncologist suspecting sinkingfeeling 22 hrs ago #29
I forgot to mention it above KS Toronado 1 hr ago #95
Better. I had surgery first, but I also had a lymph node next to my carotid. They did 33 radiation shots at it and sinkingfeeling 42 min ago #104
Already booked marked them my friend KS Toronado 27 min ago #106
God I'm sorry. I hate hearing this. Billsdaughter 21 hrs ago #30
I'm so sorry you're going through this. live love laugh 21 hrs ago #31
(((((HUGS))))) UpInArms 21 hrs ago #32
I wish you get better and fast. mercuryblues 21 hrs ago #33
All the best to you. PittBlue 21 hrs ago #34
Sending a hug and strength democrank 21 hrs ago #35
In addition to focusing on food justsomeguy01 21 hrs ago #36
That was practical advice I needed to hear, thanks KS Toronado 1 hr ago #97
I really appreciate your sharing this. Bristlecone 21 hrs ago #37
Hey KS Toronado, lark 21 hrs ago #38
Geez, what a mess. Hope they get you Figarosmom 21 hrs ago #39
How's your appetite in general these days? BaronChocula 21 hrs ago #40
I can relate Randomthought 21 hrs ago #41
Hang in there...I know how many times have you heard that... MiHale 21 hrs ago #42
Damn, KS, that is very crappy news. I hate that you are going through this. brer cat 21 hrs ago #43
Thanks brer, been buying Ensure by the case for over a year now. KS Toronado 1 hr ago #98
Sorry to hear this! TBF 20 hrs ago #44
First let me send calming vibes your way Lifeafter70 20 hrs ago #45
Sounds like so much Dear_Prudence 20 hrs ago #46
Damm. I am sorry for your situation. Please keep us posted as you can. Milkshakes with egg(s) thrown in? Rocky Balboa Evolve Dammit 20 hrs ago #47
I know how you feel with all the docs Nigrum Cattus 20 hrs ago #48
WOW, thanks for that LINK N C KS Toronado 1 hr ago #99
100% natural vanilla ice-cream Joinfortmill 20 hrs ago #49
So sorry KS canetoad 20 hrs ago #50
Beer And Peanut Butter... BurnDoubt 20 hrs ago #51
((((HUGS)))) BumRushDaShow 20 hrs ago #52
Sending you big, huge hugs.... Marie Marie 20 hrs ago #53
Sorry to hear it. Vanilla ice cream. Ensure protein drinks. Best wishes surfered 20 hrs ago #54
Eat whatever you enjoy and can tolerate. Set a weight goal so you don't overdo it. Get in contact with a dietician if Dorothy V 19 hrs ago #55
Ideas for weight gain synni 19 hrs ago #56
Damn KS, 🙏🏻 ♥️ 🙏🏻 ♥️ 🙏🏻 ♥️ 🙏🏻 a kennedy 19 hrs ago #57
Sending you healing light, love, nurture, comfort and positivity KS 💚🤍❤️🧡🩵 Clouds Passing 19 hrs ago #58
So...so sorry to hear this. I remember when you announced your cancer last year Bengus81 19 hrs ago #59
Holding you in my heart, KS Tornado. n/t TygrBright 19 hrs ago #60
Awww Damn! MeNotThatKindOfOrc 19 hrs ago #61
My cancer weight gain trick is peanut butter and vanilla ice cream smoothies. herding cats 18 hrs ago #62
Aloha, KS 💔☮️🌺🌻🕯️🕊️💜 Cha 18 hrs ago #63
Cancer sucks. murielm99 18 hrs ago #64
Chocolate. Maybe with a side of peanut butter. calimary 18 hrs ago #65
Have cheese fondue using cooked shrimp, bread cubes, applegrove 18 hrs ago #66
If it does not conflict with medical advice, try adding some butter (real) to your cooking. It packs on fat and artemisia1 18 hrs ago #67
High calorie Boost Unrepentant Fenian 17 hrs ago #69
I'm sorry you're going through this. yardwork 17 hrs ago #70
Sending love stillspkg 16 hrs ago #71
Sometimes, there are just no good words to help, and I'm sorry for that. hamsterjill 14 hrs ago #73
Foods to put on weight ms.pamela 14 hrs ago #74
Damn. I fucking hate cancer, and babylonsister 13 hrs ago #75
All I have are hugs for you Lulu KC 12 hrs ago #76
Carrot cake with cream cheese frosting. milestogo 12 hrs ago #77
The stress from tRump made be drop a ton (down to 81 pounds) BigmanPigman 12 hrs ago #78
Thoughts and good Karma yankee87 12 hrs ago #79
I am so sorry, KS Toronado. HeartsCanHope 11 hrs ago #80
I don't know how this would work for you, but it put weight on my dear husband after several health issues made him drop MLAA 10 hrs ago #81
Where do you live? What took them so long to start treatment and then gave you a bug with your scans? Playingmantis 4 hrs ago #82
I'm finding out my home town cancer center KS Toronado 40 min ago #105
Sounds so rough Marthe48 3 hrs ago #83
You've been dealt a tough hand, my friend. Swede 3 hrs ago #84
We need a war on cancer. I lost two brothers and my mother to it. spanone 3 hrs ago #85
Oh, I'm so sorry to read this rundown of treatment, appts, tests, scans, doctors, etc. without a more positive result! liberalla 1 hr ago #92
OMG - what a nightmare for you. May you could sip on Ensure or something all day long? It would be easy Vinca 1 hr ago #96
I'm so sorry for what you've been going through! Ocelot II 58 min ago #101
Oh man, I'm sorry to hear of your troubles. CrispyQ 50 min ago #102
I'm so sorry, KS Toronado. Sending hugs and healing vibes...and some links with info that highplainsdem 5 min ago #108
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