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67. Dearest Calif. Peg ,,,
Sat May 16, 2026, 07:35 PM
18 hrs ago

Do NOT become discouraged! After each of two surgeries past 79 yrs, I lost my short term memory for about 6-8 mos. due to combination of anesthesia and pain meds. Long term remained intact. Took about 2 yrs. to clear up errors that I made during that period of memory loss.
Very good friends helped me clear up the errors and get back on tract. (Note: I lived alone and still do,)
Prior to updating my Last W&T a short time ago, my PCPs (NP and her boss) both gave written statements as to my mental acuity.
Yes, there are words that I mispronounce, some that know well, but can not say as my brain can find the synapse to get them to my tongue. I put things away and don't remember where. These are normal happenings for us. (I laugh at myself a lot - and keep looking til they turn up.)
My Grandmother wrote a poem in her mind at age 98 and dictated it to a visiting niece who wrote it down sent it to all of us living grand-children (was15, now 7). All 7 of us Grandkids, (oldest 91; youngest, 73) inherited Grandmothers sense of of humor and her optimism. As all of our bodies are aging, it is the last two (plus family, friends and Angels) that keep us going.
Hang in there, my friend. We DUers NEED your beautiful posts!

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Great news malaise Yesterday #1
Time is moving too fast for all of us Boomers. I'll livetohike Yesterday #2
Dearest CaPeggy Niagara Yesterday #3
Congratulations, CaliforniaPeggy! Totally Tunsie Yesterday #4
Wonderful pathology report. spanone Yesterday #5
You have been through a lot, Peggy! SheltieLover Yesterday #6
Great news! Swede Yesterday #7
Good to hear they got it all. sinkingfeeling Yesterday #8
Excellent news on the cancer being fully removed! Solly Mack Yesterday #9
Feel safe, rest and get better. BootinUp Yesterday #10
Six hours is rough Nigrum Cattus Yesterday #11
One of the earliest things I remember learning in nursing school... 3catwoman3 Yesterday #12
I waa wondering about that, how cleanly the cancer came out... NNadir Yesterday #13
Really great news CaliforniaPeggy! bsiebs Yesterday #14
I find the hardest part after surgery is to be patient during recovery. HeartsCanHope Yesterday #15
Your new job is recovery Marthe48 Yesterday #16
The best news, Peggy . . . peggysue2 Yesterday #17
I'm glad to hear they got it all out :) Dave says Yesterday #18
"the cancer was removed in its entirety" is the absolute BEST news. I think you LoisB Yesterday #19
Give yourself some grace. hamsterjill Yesterday #20
Good news and you are doing great! cksmithy Yesterday #21
Wonderful news. Enjoy living.... surfered Yesterday #22
Oh dear Peggy Grim Chieftain Yesterday #23
I'm so glad they got it all! cate94 Yesterday #24
You are doing great. Keep it up. multigraincracker Yesterday #25
Continued healing. Tommy Carcetti Yesterday #26
Every day is a good day Wild blueberry Yesterday #27
Be kind to yourself. Nevilledog Yesterday #28
That is really great news, Peggy! kentuck Yesterday #29
My dear Ms Peggy. It is such good news that the surgeon got it all, niyad Yesterday #30
Peggy, I so get every word of your OP. I'm with Ninga Yesterday #31
It does seem longer than two months to me. LeftInTX Yesterday #32
There were lots and lots of prayers going out for you. lamp_shade Yesterday #33
That's wonderful news CP, JMCKUSICK Yesterday #34
You are an amazingly strong woman... Spazito Yesterday #35
Happy for you people Yesterday #36
We were on Pins and Needles for those early days IbogaProject Yesterday #37
So happy to see this.. mountain grammy Yesterday #38
Glad to hear you're doing OK. edbermac Yesterday #39
So happy to hear angrychair Yesterday #40
Yeah, recovery after cancer surgery is like that. mwmisses4289 Yesterday #41
Perfect, California Peggy... stay healthy and positive as always about your health! hlthe2b Yesterday #42
Smiles BaronChocula Yesterday #43
I typed enough pathology reports to recognize that this is very good news....often with deep emotion for the patient joanbarnes 23 hrs ago #44
I'm so happy for you, Peggy! karin_sj 23 hrs ago #45
Peggy, that's fabulous news that they got all the cancer! I am sorry to hear that the recovery has been highplainsdem 23 hrs ago #46
Such wonderful news! bif 23 hrs ago #47
awesome, Ms. Pegster Skittles 23 hrs ago #48
Congratulations! DelMar dem 23 hrs ago #49
This si great news! Have the doctors cleared you ... JustABozoOnThisBus 23 hrs ago #50
Of course they have! CaliforniaPeggy 23 hrs ago #51
OMG, prayers answered on that pathology report! :D Beartracks 23 hrs ago #52
We are so happy you're with us! Nt spooky3 23 hrs ago #53
I'm glad the cancer was completely removed senseandsensibility 22 hrs ago #54
Well, Peggy, ... A successful surgery with a long recovery time is SO much better.... 70sEraVet 22 hrs ago #55
Wow! There's a lot to unpack in that message. debsy 22 hrs ago #56
Coming up on a year since my wife's diagnosis. Old Crank 22 hrs ago #57
The good news, CP, you're are here now and recovering everyday. Buddyzbuddy 22 hrs ago #58
You are bravely facing rehabilitation with loads of caring energy coming from us every day. Facing the trauma of a KitFox 22 hrs ago #59
I can relate having been through a long recovery from surgery myself. The anxiety of it all, GoodRaisin 22 hrs ago #60
Keep on truckin' n/t malthaussen 21 hrs ago #61
Excellent News ProfessorGAC 21 hrs ago #62
I've had to say this to several friends in recent months. Trueblue Texan 20 hrs ago #63
You have nailed my situation perfectly, my dear Trueblue Texan! Thanks so much! CaliforniaPeggy 20 hrs ago #64
You are such a lovely human being California Peggy. 1WorldHope 19 hrs ago #65
So glad to hear the pathology report showed they had gotten it all!!! woodsprite 19 hrs ago #66
Dearest Calif. Peg ,,, oldsoldierfadingfast 18 hrs ago #67
God Speed Peggy! n/t Jacson6 17 hrs ago #68
Wonderful popsdenver 17 hrs ago #69
good pathology news! Kali 16 hrs ago #70
Cancer is so scary! Congratulations on your recovery Dan 16 hrs ago #71
Give yourself time to heal MustLoveBeagles 15 hrs ago #72
Hallelujah, dear Peggy! summer_in_TX 14 hrs ago #73
Good to hear padfun 14 hrs ago #74
Keep on truckin' mama BeneteauBum 13 hrs ago #75
If asked canetoad 13 hrs ago #76
Together we are more than the sum of us an idividuals. DU has certainly made a difference in my recoveries. marble falls 13 hrs ago #77
Sending you hugs! FM123 13 hrs ago #78
This message was self-deleted by its author jfz9580m 7 hrs ago #79
I am really happy for you Peggy.nt jfz9580m 6 hrs ago #80
Sit yerself down and stick around for a while! DFW 5 hrs ago #81
Very good to hear, m'dear! Maeve 4 hrs ago #82
Please continue to update, kpete 4 hrs ago #83
Prayers and Kindest Regards topcelts 2 hrs ago #84
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