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orleans

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30. sometimes the signs are there for us but we don't make the connection to our loved ones.
Sun May 17, 2026, 02:58 AM
16 hrs ago

could be a birthdate, birth year, address (on gas station signs, license plates), their name or relationship to us (bro, mom)

some people believe seeing a cardinal, butterfly, dragonfly is a sign from a loved one.

a reference to a connection you had with them, finding or running into an item that the two of you talked about or connected over or had an inside joke about

hearing a song the two of you sang together, danced together, or a song they liked.

not to mention when a light flashes or goes on or off, or you smell something related to them.

sometimes talking to them out loud might get their attention, telling them to give you a sign.

keep looking, keep paying attention.

btw--i wondered about paul's du user name and googled towelie. i see it was a character on south park (that i didn't watch very often) with the catchphrase "don't forget to bring a towel" (looked on youtube and saw towelie for the first time. this made me laugh:




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Don't sell yourself short Bettie Yesterday #1
Hugs to you Ilsa sdfernando Yesterday #2
Exactly understated, the same way a superhero would put it. Doing all you could was a lot. That's what a superhero... marble falls Yesterday #3
Thank you for bringing us along on this journey, Ilsa. calimary Yesterday #4
Not all superhero folks wear capes! ZDU Yesterday #5
Emotional support is what keeps all of us sane, Ilsa UpInArms Yesterday #6
It's okay. A steady presence has as much positive effect as a superhero. haele Yesterday #7
Just to share FullySupportDems Yesterday #8
indeed NJCher Yesterday #9
Crying is cathartic. Sharing helps release the tears wnylib Yesterday #10
You provided emotional support to your family Niagara Yesterday #11
Again, thank you for any support to Paul LetMyPeopleVote Yesterday #12
Thank you for sharing. CaptainTruth Yesterday #13
You carried an incredible burden, with grace Ilsa. JMCKUSICK Yesterday #14
Thank You for sharing. I was unaware of his passing. I often liked and commented on his posts. My condolences. ChicagoTeamster Yesterday #15
We can't even be everything for our own selves. IbogaProject Yesterday #16
Ilsa, you did everything you could. That makes you a hero. Superheroes are fictional and are only highplainsdem Yesterday #17
I've been looking for signs for 3 years. No joy, yet. Ilsa Yesterday #18
It's possible you missed some when you were griefstricken. But there are some things that can help highplainsdem Yesterday #21
Thanks for this share blue_jay Yesterday #23
sometimes the signs are there for us but we don't make the connection to our loved ones. orleans 16 hrs ago #30
That was so funny. Ilsa 10 hrs ago #32
Just want to say that, Through the power of your own words, we know exactly how good a person you are! bluestarone Yesterday #19
Wishing you comfort and peace from here on out. You've been through a lot. 10 Turtle Day Yesterday #20
You were there for emotional support BeneteauBum Yesterday #22
you're a good sister Skittles Yesterday #24
You're a wonderful sister. Even given your shock and heartbreak, you came here to let us know. lapucelle 23 hrs ago #25
You did what you could MustLoveBeagles 23 hrs ago #26
My philosophy... oldsoldierfadingfast 22 hrs ago #27
Oh! Missed this. My condolences. electric_blue68 21 hrs ago #28
Oh JustAnotherGen 19 hrs ago #29
I am sorry about Texas Towelie.nt jfz9580m 11 hrs ago #31
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