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Nanjeanne

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34. Really. I know women who sext as well as men. Depends on who they are talking to, whether consensual

Tue Jun 2, 2026, 04:46 PM

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Etc. But in my day we did it over the phone with long distance boyfriends. Are we really judging adult people and their individual sexual activity? Infidelity Im not a fan of and wouldn’t tolerate in my personal life. But I don’t give a shit about someone else.

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Sexting is wrong and victimizes females. Irish_Dem Tuesday #1

How does sexting victimize females? Sympthsical Tuesday #3

Perhaps you can educate yourself. Irish_Dem Tuesday #4

I'm educated Sympthsical Tuesday #6

Back to the 80's, it seems orangecrush Tuesday #10

How do you even know if everybody involved is an adult? LisaL Tuesday #16

The poll was specific H2O Man Tuesday #127

Personally, I think ForgedCrank Tuesday #27

I'm not addressing it in that context Sympthsical Tuesday #54

Grindr is what people use to get the pepper on their pasta, right? mr715 Tuesday #70

No, that's grinder. LisaL Tuesday #72

You sure? mr715 Tuesday #78

Could be both? orangecrush Tuesday #84

There is a solid Family Guy joke... mr715 Tuesday #86

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This thread orangecrush Tuesday #83

Now you'll be accused of being a "prude" MorbidButterflyTat Tuesday #9

I'm a gay male Sympthsical Tuesday #14

I don't get where your "educational" DU thread applies to females. Climate Crusader Tuesday #60

I am female and disagree usedtobedemgurl Tuesday #61

Please ZDU Tuesday #31

Really. I know women who sext as well as men. Depends on who they are talking to, whether consensual Nanjeanne Tuesday #34

No longer, that is a forgivable sin sarisataka Tuesday #59

I have mixed views on this Kali Tuesday #2

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Grandma (and Mom) alway said Kali Tuesday #7

True orangecrush Tuesday #8

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Orange... ZDU Tuesday #126

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Didn't Melania advise Trump against running for office? Attilatheblond Tuesday #129

I am curious whether the spouse of the "sexter" counts LisaL Tuesday #12

... orangecrush Tuesday #13

WTF is that supposed to mean? LisaL Tuesday #15

For some people it is orangecrush Tuesday #17

What do you call a relationship only open on one end? LisaL Tuesday #18

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All I have to say, his wife doesn't seem thrilled LisaL Tuesday #22

And she also said they worked through it orangecrush Tuesday #25

You don't need to "work through it" if you are fine with it, I think that's fair to guess. LisaL Tuesday #28

Only open on one end WITH CONSENT OF PARTNER orangecrush Tuesday #23

It becomes my business when one seeks political power Shrek Tuesday #32

On that basis orangecrush Tuesday #53

I said nothing of the sort Shrek Tuesday #76

Great song! ZDU Tuesday #35

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Is physical cheating considered a non-consenting act? Sympthsical Tuesday #21

It's the spouse who I am talking about. LisaL Tuesday #24

I understand that Sympthsical Tuesday #67

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Didn't we learn in that thread the other day TBF Tuesday #49

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it is indeed Skittles Tuesday #97

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the bar has been very much lowered for the presidency Skittles Tuesday #100

I'm glad you understand. mr715 Tuesday #105

while I "get" it Skittles Tuesday #120

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LOL mr715 Tuesday #71

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I'm still not sure what it is leftstreet Tuesday #26

This one is about a newly married men LisaL Tuesday #30

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This man is running for an important political office. LisaL Tuesday #41

It matters Shrek Tuesday #81

Yeah, it's risky leftstreet Tuesday #90

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Don't say hop before you jump. LisaL Tuesday #44

They sure are spending a ton of money orangecrush Tuesday #46

so you're saying Skittles Tuesday #57

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Panties. Wad. Discuss. ZDU Tuesday #39

What does that mean? obamanut2012 Tuesday #101

Mr. Panties, meet M. Wad. ZDU Tuesday #103

So, you are another one obamanut2012 Tuesday #107

You Need to Calm Down ZDU Tuesday #113

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This. orangecrush Tuesday #48

Why can't we just elect the guy who supports our positions, but isn't a POS? jmbar2 Tuesday #98

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I hear ya TVguyCards Tuesday #136

If a lying cheater tells me he supports single payer Shrek Tuesday #110

You never believed Bill Clinton I guess about annything policy wise I guess. Interesting. Nanjeanne Tuesday #112

I understand TVguyCards Tuesday #138

once again Skittles Tuesday #123

Well I would hope so TVguyCards Tuesday #137

It's definitely an issue for the people in the relationship EdmondDantes_ Tuesday #47

Huh? No poll option that reads, B.See Tuesday #50

Sorry orangecrush Tuesday #55

Just having a bit of wit with it, Orange. B.See Tuesday #58

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At first I saw this as "sexit poll" SSJVegeta Tuesday #51

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Oooo there is a dirty joke hidden there with Brexit. mr715 Tuesday #92

on the one hand, it may be "their own business" Skittles Tuesday #63

Agree, and with some voters orangecrush Tuesday #68

This message was self-deleted by its author Skittles Tuesday #122

Sexting with another person is fine if both are consenting... Ineedamoment Tuesday #65

4 combat tours could do that orangecrush Tuesday #89

It was 6 women and welcome to du questionseverything Tuesday #117

Oh - only six. That makes it okay. Ineedamoment Yesterday #144

I wonder if I go back and look for a sexting scandal sarisataka Tuesday #66

JFK orangecrush Tuesday #69

FDR mr715 Tuesday #79

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Love ya MustLoveBeagles Tuesday #77

Love always orangecrush Tuesday #82

Ina random person Boo1 Tuesday #91

I'm normally live and let live if no one is getting hurt Quiet Em Tuesday #93

The app at present is age restricted orangecrush Tuesday #94

I think it's over 13 in the US Quiet Em Tuesday #116

Just looked orangecrush Tuesday #118

Welp... jmbar2 Tuesday #96

In what context? JustAnotherGen Tuesday #111

I find the Nazi tattoo and the misogynistic Luciferous Tuesday #114

The Premise Is Too General. ColoringFool Tuesday #119

Why do people keep using "sexting" to mean buzzycrumbhunger Tuesday #121

It's important to have standards. QueerDuck Tuesday #124

Nah, I wanna know what those texts say Polybius Tuesday #125

I'm confused orangecrush Tuesday #135

His own wife is wrong Polybius Yesterday #143

Apparently Mainers disagree. orangecrush Yesterday #145

We'll see if they do in November n/t Polybius 18 hrs ago #146

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I care when the person pinkstarburst Tuesday #128

You forgot the apostophe in "ELSE's". niyad Tuesday #133

Thank you orangecrush Tuesday #134

Then I will say, you are most welcome. niyad Tuesday #139

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At the least, it shows bad judgement and a lack of impulse control. LudwigPastorius Yesterday #141

4 combat tours and he's still alive orangecrush Yesterday #142