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This message was self-deleted by its author [View all] ismnotwasm Dec 2013 OP

"do the little things" pintobean Dec 2013 #1

They mean a lot.... monmouth3 Dec 2013 #4

definetly hate the clingers, loli phabay Dec 2013 #2

They're the worst Capt. Obvious Dec 2013 #9

That's another reason why I'm so adorable BainsBane Dec 2013 #197

I understand your fear of rejection Capt. Obvious Dec 2013 #200

Oh that's it. BainsBane Dec 2013 #202

A two-drink maximum???? Where is this going?....n/t monmouth3 Dec 2013 #3

cheap date at only two drinks. loli phabay Dec 2013 #5

Certainly not me. EOTE Dec 2013 #6

"Independent" NuclearDem Dec 2013 #7

i think they mean independant as in they have their own life ie dont cling loli phabay Dec 2013 #24

What kind of life though? NuclearDem Dec 2013 #35

well do what they want outside of the relationship i presume loli phabay Dec 2013 #38

I have said the word 'yes' on several occasions. HappyMe Dec 2013 #8

psychotic broken $800 ipad rant maxsolomon Dec 2013 #11

Holy crap! HappyMe Dec 2013 #14

Definitely a crime pintobean Dec 2013 #15

lol!! That's true. HappyMe Dec 2013 #18

Advice only an a-hole could displense TroglodyteScholar Dec 2013 #10

Gross. Iggo Dec 2013 #12

Interesting ismnotwasm Dec 2013 #13

Same Capt. Obvious Dec 2013 #16

.. ismnotwasm Dec 2013 #20

Couldn't be more transparent BainsBane Dec 2013 #32

I'd like to add... mike_c Dec 2013 #17

Probably have better luck at Rimjob's place Fumesucker Dec 2013 #19

I did a google image search on your picture to help you find originator, look what I found snooper2 Dec 2013 #21

god i love the dead pan humor in the ecards. loli phabay Dec 2013 #23

Is he her dad or something? Lex Dec 2013 #22

It's paternalism, plain and simple. Hence the "dad" vibe. nomorenomore08 Dec 2013 #156

He probably posts in the same area where it's cool to refer to women in dog terms. n/t LadyHawkAZ Dec 2013 #25

bazinga, for the alltime mf win. loli phabay Dec 2013 #26

For the WIN! HappyMe Dec 2013 #27

Does that mean you'll actually hide the reference BainsBane Dec 2013 #30

How do you know I don't? HappyMe Dec 2013 #33

that post was tragic in so many ways. loli phabay Dec 2013 #34

Yes, it is. HappyMe Dec 2013 #36

The owner of that post Capt. Obvious Dec 2013 #40

She's made them against me BainsBane Dec 2013 #108

That doesn't exclude here. BainsBane Dec 2013 #29

It definitely includes DU. HappyMe Dec 2013 #31

What a horrible fucking attack Capt. Obvious Dec 2013 #37

I should keep a file BainsBane Dec 2013 #39

Your anecdotes are more than enough evidence Capt. Obvious Dec 2013 #41

of what? BainsBane Dec 2013 #43

Where are all these posts using the nasty words? HappyMe Dec 2013 #45

I've posted about some in ATA BainsBane Dec 2013 #51

She's given you several anecdotes in this thread Capt. Obvious Dec 2013 #55

Yeah. Silly me. HappyMe Dec 2013 #58

Now that's not fair Capt. Obvious Dec 2013 #64

Oh, is this the old talking about the existence of misogyny BainsBane Dec 2013 #63

No, this is the old "You talking about shit you claim to have happened is not the same thing as EOTE Dec 2013 #65

No, it's not. HappyMe Dec 2013 #75

Your anecdotes are more than enough evidence Capt. Obvious Dec 2013 #46

That "women are the source of all evil" BainsBane Dec 2013 #48

Evidence: Here is some of BB Katashi_itto Dec 2013 #157

Aw, poor you BainsBane Dec 2013 #163

hahah, right, whatever you want to spin Katashi_itto Dec 2013 #214

Post removed Post removed Dec 2013 #44

Are you referring to the poster you linked to? BainsBane Dec 2013 #47

I posted the link to her lovely HappyMe Dec 2013 #49

Which violates community standards BainsBane Dec 2013 #53

I haven't seen any posts using the word 'bitch'. HappyMe Dec 2013 #60

It wasn't just TA LadyHawkAZ Dec 2013 #69

Isn't that special. HappyMe Dec 2013 #73

LOL. polly7 Dec 2013 #80

Funny, I saw you use the word BainsBane Dec 2013 #95

"Pat" you mean? LadyHawkAZ Dec 2013 #110

no, the term for a female dog BainsBane Dec 2013 #112

"It's a bitch finding the right size replacement needle for them" LadyHawkAZ Dec 2013 #115

No one BainsBane Dec 2013 #116

I did? That's interesting. It's a word I rarely use. LadyHawkAZ Dec 2013 #118

Why am I the only one here who can do a search? BainsBane Dec 2013 #121

You realize most of those are from other people in the threads? LadyHawkAZ Dec 2013 #124

not all BainsBane Dec 2013 #128

Because I pay attention to post histories LadyHawkAZ Dec 2013 #134

Actually it would not have resulted in a ban BainsBane Dec 2013 #164

Step away from the mirror. nt. polly7 Dec 2013 #170

I said nothing about MIRT LadyHawkAZ Dec 2013 #190

Your refusal to debate in good faith is noted BainsBane Dec 2013 #220

If I didn't notice who posted this pintobean Dec 2013 #221

Why would you think BainsBane Dec 2013 #222

*snort* LadyHawkAZ Dec 2013 #226

ROFL!! polly7 Dec 2013 #230

+1,000. polly7 Dec 2013 #232

This time, it's more laugh than ill, thank goodness LadyHawkAZ Dec 2013 #260

Ha! So you admit it! Capt. Obvious Dec 2013 #129

Massive fail. polly7 Dec 2013 #126

LOL. We're all capable of doing searches. We're also capable of taking things in context. EOTE Dec 2013 #155

a search is so easy to do BainsBane Dec 2013 #96

Were those words directed at another DU member? maddezmom Dec 2013 #50

Yes, in a couple of cases BainsBane Dec 2013 #52

Well I would hope you alerted admin to the ones that were directed at DU members maddezmom Dec 2013 #54

Yet when those slurs are about fat shaming BainsBane Dec 2013 #59

Sorry but there is plenty of fat shaming and homophobic posts that get a pass by juries as well maddezmom Dec 2013 #61

I find those homophobic insinuations offensive BainsBane Dec 2013 #92

It gets hostile responses because it's a sly call out to DU men ProudToBeBlueInRhody Dec 2013 #165

But calling out DU women, no problem. BainsBane Dec 2013 #167

That post sucks. ProudToBeBlueInRhody Dec 2013 #169

Truthfully, I'm not sure what that OP's take on the matter is BainsBane Dec 2013 #172

Whatever the case....wonder if they post here? is bullshit. ProudToBeBlueInRhody Dec 2013 #175

not if you think that's how your mate should behave BainsBane Dec 2013 #176

Apparently a woman wrote the op's meme ProudToBeBlueInRhody Dec 2013 #181

I think very young women (in their 20s) might BainsBane Dec 2013 #182

A list is a list ProudToBeBlueInRhody Dec 2013 #183

the point was not lists BainsBane Dec 2013 #185

I have no issue with the lists, lists are fine ProudToBeBlueInRhody Dec 2013 #187

Okay, I'll concede the lists point BainsBane Dec 2013 #191

Or the one where it's perfectly fine to refer to women in insulting ways. polly7 Dec 2013 #42

Oh, but that's different. HappyMe Dec 2013 #56

For such an ardent board feminist... Old and In the Way Dec 2013 #91

It's just plain old hypocricy, not a single male on this board or any other polly7 Dec 2013 #101

"it would last about 2 seconds in RL" Old and In the Way Dec 2013 #107

Having one's illusions shattered isn't often a pleasant thing Fumesucker Dec 2013 #195

Heh. +1 n/t lumberjack_jeff Dec 2013 #57

Is that the group with the MattBaggins Dec 2013 #186

Hmm. I wonder . . . BainsBane Dec 2013 #28

Oh my GOD what have I done? ismnotwasm Dec 2013 #62

You wanted your thread to sink like a stone? EOTE Dec 2013 #66

You hit way too close to home BainsBane Dec 2013 #67

Apparently so. ismnotwasm Dec 2013 #83

Sure you did Capt. Obvious Dec 2013 #70

Meh ismnotwasm Dec 2013 #74

I suppose the HOF members Capt. Obvious Dec 2013 #77

It's not us, Capt. Obvious ismnotwasm Dec 2013 #82

Well there was this one first thing this am when I signed on maddezmom Dec 2013 #87

There were a number of other threads on porn too BainsBane Dec 2013 #93

Sure they are.... maddezmom Dec 2013 #103

Actually I did ismnotwasm Dec 2013 #102

Talk about obsessed BainsBane Dec 2013 #86

Aren't you just the most adorable thing Capt. Obvious Dec 2013 #100

I am actually BainsBane Dec 2013 #106

I'm sure I'm not the only one Capt. Obvious Dec 2013 #194

On pins and needles BainsBane Dec 2013 #196

Assuming there's an answer Capt. Obvious Dec 2013 #199

I wonder who holds the record for most ATA questions ignored? ProudToBeBlueInRhody Dec 2013 #217

Didn't sink? Overreaction is like that. lumberjack_jeff Dec 2013 #71

I was outraged? ismnotwasm Dec 2013 #78

When did it turn to shit? pintobean Dec 2013 #72

When it got hostile ismnotwasm Dec 2013 #76

It was more of an observation pintobean Dec 2013 #79

Then I'm confused, but ismnotwasm Dec 2013 #81

It's now come down to denouncing thought crime BainsBane Dec 2013 #89

Oh ismnotwasm Dec 2013 #94

What a load of crap. pintobean Dec 2013 #117

Sorry about that, your right. pintobean Dec 2013 #98

I hardly ever alert ismnotwasm Dec 2013 #104

Now you've done it! 500 reply thread on the way! Rex Dec 2013 #85

Fuck ismnotwasm Dec 2013 #90

Oh my! Wide eyed innocence! HappyMe Dec 2013 #99

No you don't understand ismnotwasm Dec 2013 #109

That was just genuinely funny. Thank you! xulamaude Dec 2013 #141

So it goes from wanting independance...to saying yes. Rex Dec 2013 #68

He left out, walk three paces behind me. Just kidding of course. The only one I go along with brewens Dec 2013 #84

In other words, make your entire existence centered around him notadmblnd Dec 2013 #88

To know, know, know him is to love, love, love him FatBuddy Dec 2013 #97

I'm curious.... Old and In the Way Dec 2013 #105

Oh HELL no ismnotwasm Dec 2013 #113

So, you like your men drunk and slutty? Old and In the Way Dec 2013 #119

I don't have a list of proper attributes for him no. ismnotwasm Dec 2013 #127

Fascinating Old and In the Way Dec 2013 #131

No, the list specifically says "not slutty" BainsBane Dec 2013 #198

I guess that was only 2nd best to "no humiliation"? Old and In the Way Dec 2013 #203

My "team" BainsBane Dec 2013 #206

See post 210. Old and In the Way Dec 2013 #218

Misandry BainsBane Dec 2013 #227

Did the other thread OP lie about the origin of whatever was posted? Old and In the Way Dec 2013 #228

It was identical BainsBane Dec 2013 #235

Three shots of mstinamotorcity2 Dec 2013 #111

So long as she also dusts lightbulbs OldHippieChick Dec 2013 #114

I can't take all this fighting! ismnotwasm Dec 2013 #120

It really is over the top. *Somebody's* upset about *something*, even if I'm not sure nomorenomore08 Dec 2013 #166

Either you're being sarcastic, or you don't remember my response to you Monday. RiffRandell Dec 2013 #244

where is this going? GeorgeGist Dec 2013 #122

Exactly ismnotwasm Dec 2013 #125

How to be a man women love. ananda Dec 2013 #123

+1 ismnotwasm Dec 2013 #130

Do women makes lists of things that they love in men? Old and In the Way Dec 2013 #132

Really? I thought people grew out of that by age 22 at the latest? BainsBane Dec 2013 #135

What makes you think the one who wrote the list above was over 22? EOTE Dec 2013 #136

Do you know the age of the person who wrote the OP? Old and In the Way Dec 2013 #137

So the OP is right BainsBane Dec 2013 #139

'He'? polly7 Dec 2013 #140

Hahahaha BUSTED! Old and In the Way Dec 2013 #146

You're welcome! polly7 Dec 2013 #250

This was written by a woman? EOTE Dec 2013 #147

Links please. Old and In the Way Dec 2013 #144

OMG. No I am not saying you wrote it. BainsBane Dec 2013 #152

Hey BB, take it up with divinecaroline! Old and In the Way Dec 2013 #154

Haven't we been? BainsBane Dec 2013 #160

You asked for links BainsBane Dec 2013 #161

Yeah...but, now that we know the truth about where it came from... Old and In the Way Dec 2013 #168

What truth? BainsBane Dec 2013 #171

LOL! polly7 Dec 2013 #178

This thread? pintobean Dec 2013 #192

That was amazing Capt. Obvious Dec 2013 #207

Who is the sock? Capt. Obvious Dec 2013 #193

Was adogslife maddezmom Dec 2013 #201

Thank you Capt. Obvious Dec 2013 #205

Wow....using a sock account to abuse the alert function. Old and In the Way Dec 2013 #209

I always check in when these threads happen Capt. Obvious Dec 2013 #210

They're not fooling anybody. Old and In the Way Dec 2013 #213

Not only dishonest.. Used to be a bannable offense as well... opiate69 Dec 2013 #245

and don't tell a woman she isn't a real feminist BainsBane Dec 2013 #133

That's the part that really makes me facepalm. I mean, sure, disagree with somebody all you want. nomorenomore08 Dec 2013 #223

I would never do that BainsBane Dec 2013 #224

It's basically the equivalent of knocking over the chess pieces and saying "I win!" nomorenomore08 Dec 2013 #225

So then, you repudiate this idiotic cartoon, yes? opiate69 Dec 2013 #238

That's not my post BainsBane Dec 2013 #239

+222 treestar Dec 2013 #174

^^^women should be more like this^^^ MattBaggins Dec 2013 #188

This seems to have come from an article in 'divine caroline', polly7 Dec 2013 #138

The author is female? 1000words Dec 2013 #142

It appears that way. polly7 Dec 2013 #143

Did you see this one? maddezmom Dec 2013 #145

I did! Thanks maddezmom, it is like bad Cosmo lol. polly7 Dec 2013 #150

There's a lesson here, I think. 1000words Dec 2013 #148

There's always a lesson. EOTE Dec 2013 #153

Whoops! ProudToBeBlueInRhody Dec 2013 #177

BWAHAHAHA! LadyHawkAZ Dec 2013 #158

Oh shi- LittleBlue Dec 2013 #216

LOL. This was written by a woman. EOTE Dec 2013 #149

Yes, I'm sure she does post here lillypaddle Dec 2013 #151

fitman ? JI7 Dec 2013 #159

No doubt BainsBane Dec 2013 #162

It's all about control treestar Dec 2013 #173

erm, it was written seemingly by a woman, who am i to lambast her list. loli phabay Dec 2013 #179

So, that's how the right wing rolls treestar Dec 2013 #266

uhhh, no. polly7 Dec 2013 #180

Apparently it's a list of how to attract a man.... ProudToBeBlueInRhody Dec 2013 #184

Actually, if you read some of the subthreads, it appears much more likely that it's a women's list. Old and In the Way Dec 2013 #212

Just another pintobean Dec 2013 #215

It boils down to you getting this exactly, precisely 180 degrees wrong. DisgustipatedinCA Dec 2013 #231

Oh, don't forget this one! frogmarch Dec 2013 #189

I can't speak for other men, but Jamaal510 Dec 2013 #204

those are the kids of guys who claim they "don't know how to talk around women" Skittles Dec 2013 #208

That's kind of messed-up alarimer Dec 2013 #211

This is a rather misleading OP Old and In the Way Dec 2013 #219

It looks as if he is a she. Sissyk Dec 2013 #229

The continuing saga of "Teh menz suck" posts... nt Bonobo Dec 2013 #233

The ease at which some immediately jumped to a desired conclusion is most telling here 1000words Dec 2013 #234

So I'll be seeing this same denunciation BainsBane Dec 2013 #241

Well.. If it turns out that the person who trashed that ipad was a guy, then yeah... opiate69 Dec 2013 #247

I'm not sure how it matters who wrote the list or scratched out the IPad BainsBane Dec 2013 #249

It matters, because.. opiate69 Dec 2013 #251

Did she assume it was written by a man? BainsBane Dec 2013 #252

"I wonder if he posts here?" polly7 Dec 2013 #253

What is the meaning of the thread title then? Fumesucker Dec 2013 #254

So you think the woman (if it is a woman) who scratched out the Ipad actually posts here? BainsBane Dec 2013 #256

The assumption was clearly that a man wrote the piece in this OP Fumesucker Dec 2013 #258

So I'll see posts in that thread where you object to that OP as well? BainsBane Dec 2013 #261

I haven't "objected" to ~any~ OP, in fact I recced this one just for the entertainment factor Fumesucker Dec 2013 #265

I know English can be a confusing language, but... opiate69 Dec 2013 #255

Yeah, somehow I didn't take it literally BainsBane Dec 2013 #257

No, I don't. And to be perfectly honest, I didn't even see that thread until I was probably 4 posts opiate69 Dec 2013 #262

What did you all do in English literature class? BainsBane Dec 2013 #259

Do let me know when opiate69 Dec 2013 #263

LOL BainsBane Dec 2013 #264

Rec for assumption fail.... opiate69 Dec 2013 #236

Except for the posters BainsBane Dec 2013 #240

Care to point 'em out? Cause, I ain't seein 'em. opiate69 Dec 2013 #242

Certainly BainsBane Dec 2013 #243

Yeah... Not exactly ringing endorsements... opiate69 Dec 2013 #246

Hardly BainsBane Dec 2013 #248

Somebody needs to start making a list of these faceplants. Bonobo Dec 2013 #237

Oh FFS ismnotwasm Dec 2013 #267