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In reply to the discussion: My mom died today [View all]thatcrowwoman
(1,230 posts)58. Kind condolences, Tree Lady, upon the death of your mother.
Be patient and kind and gentle with yourself in your mourning and remembrances.
How wonderful it is that you grew closer these past years.
My mamas been gone almost 4 years now, and I cried every day the first year. I still cry sometimes, and I reckon I always will. She was a nurse and believed in the healing power of salt water, be it tears, or sweat, or the ocean, or a salted soak in a warm tub. Salt water healing is one of the most important lessons I learned from mama. She comes to me in my dreams, and I still talk to her most days, laughing at something my dog has done, or spotting birds she liked, or making one of her many recipes, or trying something new.
Shes gone, but her love endures. Shes always in my heart. We are lucky daughters that way, you and I.
Sending you love and sweet Shalom, peace be with you.
🕊🩵thatcrowwoman
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I am so sorry for your mom's passing. May her memories be a blessing to you my friend.
debm55
Nov 2023
#2
I'm so sorry, Tree Lady. It's a terrible shock to lose someone suddenly, with no chance to say goodbye.
highplainsdem
Nov 2023
#14
I am so sorry for your loss. May her memory be a blessing. Give yourself time to be. EOM
LauraInLA
Nov 2023
#29
She seems to have loved well and been well loved. Condolences to you and your family.
BoomaofBandM
Nov 2023
#30
May your mother speak to you in your memories for as long as you need her
Hermit-The-Prog
Nov 2023
#43
I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my dad at 90 and was not ready either.
onecaliberal
Nov 2023
#65
Oh, my condolences! Rather shocking in a way. Been there ('08). Wow she lived a good healthy life.
electric_blue68
Nov 2023
#72