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MichMan

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12. A few as I tend not to think about what might have been.

Thu Apr 17, 2025, 08:56 AM

Apr 17

Before I was married, maybe a couple of younger love interests that my shyness at the time held me back from pursuing. Been married for 38 years, so can't say it didn't work out just fine otherwise.

Changed majors in college and wondered how my career would have been different had I not done so. As a result of changing, I delayed any possible graduation, which ultimately meant that my degree was earned several years later from a different school after going at night. Still ended up earning a degree, but would have liked to graduate from the first one with my friends. Now I did meet my wife in between, which ended up being the best decision I ever made.

Worked in a field I wanted, but in a role that at times wasn't very fulfilling. Managed to stay employed my whole career and earned a decent enough living, so could have been worse.

Also, there was a local sports figure I enjoyed watching as a fan, who had a small business in my home town. Never went over there as I didn't want to bother him. After he retired from competing, I was able to become friends with him, and wish I would have taken the opportunity to do that years earlier.

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Do you have any regrets in life? [View all] bif Apr 17 OP

Its about a girl. DiverDave Apr 17 #1

I'm an atheist but I nonetheless live by an axiom put forth... NNadir Apr 17 #18

I did get DiverDave Apr 17 #24

That's absolutely adorable DiverDave. JMCKUSICK Apr 18 #52

I wish I had bought the lotto ticket, from the numbers Bluethroughu Apr 17 #2

I'm glad that things worked out for you... skypilot Apr 17 #25

I was depressed for two years... Bluethroughu Apr 17 #44

oh yes,,,, many,,,, KarenS Apr 17 #3

Me too! Beatlelvr Apr 17 #7

Lot's and lot's of regrets. Mostly people i didn't stay closer to and places i didn't go. Srkdqltr Apr 17 #4

Plenty. (nt) Paladin Apr 17 #5

I regret the way I treated some people when I was younger. Mad_Dem_X Apr 17 #6

This is it for me as well True Dough Apr 17 #13

I was going to post something similar, same regrets about being mean to others. Been bullied as well as a kid. Dave Bowman Apr 17 #27

Nope. In a good place now and multigraincracker Apr 17 #8

Thats true. Never know if one thing changes how everything will change. Srkdqltr Apr 17 #21

I regret I was not able to temper my ambition with FalloutShelter Apr 17 #9

Male professors talked me out of majoring in Geology when I was a freshman in college. catbyte Apr 17 #10

Any regrets I have are offset by the fact of a somewhat random event in the life I led. NNadir Apr 17 #11

A few as I tend not to think about what might have been. MichMan Apr 17 #12

I regret I stayed in Ohio samplegirl Apr 17 #14

Yes moving to Florida in 1979, should have stayed in Connecticut TommieMommy Apr 17 #15

Doesn't everyone? redstatebluegirl Apr 17 #16

If I could go back in time and change anything i would have Rustynaerduwell Apr 17 #17

Hell, I remember some bad calls I made umpiring Little League baseball games... Wounded Bear Apr 17 #19

A pile of them, too many to list here CanonRay Apr 17 #20

Yes, of course. Fla Dem Apr 17 #22

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Not really. I'm one with the belief that the life you do end up living is the one you were meant to live. SWBTATTReg Apr 17 #28

Ha!!!!!!!! snowybirdie Apr 17 #29

I regret not having the courage to be myself as a child. surrealAmerican Apr 17 #30

🤗🤗🤗💙💙💙 LiberalLoner Apr 17 #39

I don't recall a single meaningful conversation JMCKUSICK Apr 18 #53

No regrets. Amazed I've made it stillcool Apr 17 #31

I regret the time and energy I foolishly spent trying to impress other people. Midnight Writer Apr 17 #32

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Thank you for that. It was beautiful. n/t. NNadir Apr 17 #47

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Go take lessons. Eko Apr 17 #46

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] should never have married. rickyhall Apr 17 #43

I wish I loved everyone more. Eko Apr 17 #45

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Yes. My life. nt. Dem2theMax Apr 19 #56

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The big one (of many other big ones) haha Prairie_Seagull Apr 21 #60