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JMCKUSICK

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31. I'll be there with him and for him.
Tue Jul 14, 2026, 06:24 PM
Yesterday

I'll tell you a funny story and another poignant story about Cuddles and then Toby and Cuddles.

We were living with his mom when she found Cuddles and Snuggles during her postal route, long story short, I talked her into keeping them and she agreed. After the first winter, she insisted that they stay outside. All through the next eight months until we moved, we snuck them in the minute she'd leave for work and take them out the back as she'd walk in the front. We never got caught!

What really kind of forced our move was when she insisted we find new homes for them. Snuggles spent the next several months on a farm, until her new owners asked me to take her back because she didn't get along with their other barn cat.
As for Cuddles, we found a lady that was willing to take him and we brought him out to her home. Well, Cuddles didn't like that idea one bit and tore off into the woods close to her house. Toby was beside himself all of a sudden, bawling his eyes out as Cuddles disappeared into the trees. He did not want to give him away but hadn't said a word to that point against it.
On the way home, I promised I would get him back by convincing his mom to let him keep him and she finally did. We went the next day and sure as you could plan it, within one minute of arriving back in that neighborhood where Cuddles took off, Toby found him on his first call. He's been Cuddles "Dad" ever since.
Toby loved Cuddles as much as I did, just couldn't express it as easily. Anyway, almost three years ago we moved into this mobile home and shortly thereafter I went and got Snuggles from that farm and we had a wonderful six months together until she unexpectedly died.

Whatever Cuddles did for me, he surely did for Toby too.


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Good morning my DU family, [View all] JMCKUSICK Yesterday OP
Bless you John. debm55 Yesterday #1
Thank you Debbie, you're a great blessing to all of us. JMCKUSICK Yesterday #3
Thinking of you and Cuddles FM123 Yesterday #2
Thank you so much FM123 JMCKUSICK Yesterday #5
Good Morning John Emile Yesterday #4
Hi Emile JMCKUSICK Yesterday #10
"If love could have healed him, Cuddles would have lived forever." Emile Yesterday #11
Good morrning, John. Continuing vibes for you and Cuddles niyad Yesterday #6
Well, I just spoke with the Vet and there's been no change. JMCKUSICK Yesterday #7
I am so very sorry for all of you, my friend. debm55 Yesterday #8
Thank you Debbie JMCKUSICK Yesterday #9
Holding you & Cuddles in loving, healing thoughts SheltieLover Yesterday #12
Thank you SheltieLover, JMCKUSICK Yesterday #13
Take Cuddles' favorite food with you. He may not eat, but will enjoy the scent. SheltieLover Yesterday #14
I'll do that. JMCKUSICK Yesterday #15
We are all here for you, John. Lean in as hard as you need to. SheltieLover Yesterday #16
Sitting here waiting, blubbering is starting JMCKUSICK Yesterday #17
Take Shadow with you SheltieLover Yesterday #18
I couldn't, out only carrier was at the Vet with Cuddles. JMCKUSICK Yesterday #19
Oh, John, my heart is breaking for you SheltieLover Yesterday #21
It sure doesn't SheltieLover, JMCKUSICK Yesterday #23
You've just paid the ultimate price, John, & I'm not referring to the vet bill. SheltieLover Yesterday #26
I understand and it's well worth it JMCKUSICK Yesterday #27
It always is or we wouldn't knowingly accept gifts from Mother Nature SheltieLover Yesterday #29
I did give my Good boy a taste of churro tuna and he licked his lips. JMCKUSICK Yesterday #20
You are an amazing guy, John, & a fabulous pet parent SheltieLover Yesterday #22
If I am, Its solely because I've had my cat kids since the late eighties making me a better JMCKUSICK Yesterday #24
What a beautiful tribute to your kid cats! SheltieLover Yesterday #25
I am, but it's gonna be really rough in an hour when Toby gets home. JMCKUSICK Yesterday #28
Healing vibes to Toby as well SheltieLover Yesterday #30
I'll be there with him and for him. JMCKUSICK Yesterday #31
Poor Toby! SheltieLover Yesterday #32
Yea, it's been really rough on him JMCKUSICK Yesterday #33
I'll bet SheltieLover Yesterday #34
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