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dmallind

(10,437 posts)
5. I would add a couple of points
Fri Feb 17, 2012, 12:09 PM
Feb 2012

1) Keep complaints vague and impersonal without complaining about workload - I found phrases like "inconsistent and ill-defined priorities for my role and the whole department/company" and "absence of any real metrics that defined and incentivized high performance" to be useful. That way they know you were interested in priorities and high performance, and you are blaming the whole systems and processes of the company not "the boss" when you are talking to a person who will hopefully become "the boss", and will probably think they have a better system of metrics and planning.

2) If you are likely to get a poor reference, set this up upfront with again impersonal statements like "the company's way of managing uncertainty and change were not conducive to employee success. Communication was poor and erratic (every employee survey at nigh every company says this) and change, instead of being collaborative and positive as in well-managed companies (never badmouth change itself - nobody wants an inflexible worker), was thrown at the wall in the hope it would stick with no real input from or guidance for those affected. It became a very uncomfortable and unproductive environment filled with conflict".

Need to use your own way of speaking of course, not mine!

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Yeah, I'd drop any reference to stress issues and focus on the turmoil... Scuba Feb 2012 #1
+1 dem644555il Mar 2012 #16
Even though... rbnyc Feb 2012 #2
That is probably the best advice I have been given Nikia Feb 2012 #3
Awesome! rbnyc Feb 2012 #4
I would add a couple of points dmallind Feb 2012 #5
Very, very good! rbnyc Feb 2012 #6
I agree fully with the advice from rbnyc; it's excellent. Scuba Mar 2012 #17
Best Response I Have Heard!!! Shemmi21202 Jun 2016 #23
Cool rbnyc Jun 2016 #25
+1. Very good advice. n/t FSogol Jun 2016 #24
Great response EllaJones Aug 2016 #27
So glad... rbnyc Aug 2016 #28
I guess this is why I have been unemployed for over four years! blue ivy schlotsky Feb 2012 #7
It as if they don't understand that some supervisors and/or companies have serious problems Nikia Feb 2012 #9
Update: I got a job Nikia Feb 2012 #8
Excellent and well done. How DID you handle those questions if I may ask? nt dmallind Feb 2012 #10
Okay, help me with this problem. fladem2006 Mar 2012 #11
Aim higher. Chan790 Apr 2012 #20
I mentioned culturual changes within the organization Nikia Mar 2012 #13
Nicely done. Congrats. nt dmallind Mar 2012 #15
Awesome!! rbnyc Mar 2012 #12
I am glad to have this job Nikia Mar 2012 #14
Congratulations!! Scuba Mar 2012 #18
I always say that "the organization decided to move in a new direction and... Chan790 Apr 2012 #19
Just wanted to say this entire thread has been very helpful... cynatnite Jun 2012 #21
same situation gregmoreland Aug 2012 #22
Happened to me I just gave factual account of my side MyNameGoesHere Jun 2016 #26
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