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kdmorris

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24. In my perfect world, they would, too

Tue Jul 31, 2012, 08:04 AM

Jul 2012

In my perfect world, variations in people would be celebrated and not mocked. This girl should have never felt like she needed to get her ears pinned back. School has become some sort of special hell for those children that do not fit the perfect mold - not just children with ears that stick out, but shy children and children who are more or less intelligent than there classmates. I hate that she ever felt she needed to get this done to stop it.

Even here, on a progressive board, I see people make fun of people with missing teeth and people who are overweight and any other variation of "not like me". I always assume that they came through school without having any of those conditions that children get bullied for.

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Bullied Girl Receives Free Plastic Surgery to Pin Her Ears, Is Heartbreakingly Thrilled [View all] Starry Messenger Jul 2012 OP

They also did the nose and chin Warpy Jul 2012 #1

I'm surprised they didn't inject collagen in her lips too. Starry Messenger Jul 2012 #4

She stated that she is breathing much better since the surgery, though, so 1monster Jul 2012 #5

Exactly. Daemonaquila Jul 2012 #12

Her nose was messed up. Atman Jul 2012 #28

The more that cosmetic surgery is used to "correct" even the smallest of traits... lumberjack_jeff Jul 2012 #2

+1000 Starry Messenger Jul 2012 #3

I know what it's like to be bullied formercia Jul 2012 #6

Wow, was that really necessary? Starry Messenger Jul 2012 #7

Well, I'm sorry you feel that way. Starry Messenger Jul 2012 #8

I agree. Warren DeMontague Jul 2012 #17

For me this thread isn't about discussing her choices. It's discussing the pressure to conform Gormy Cuss Jul 2012 #20

She shouldn't have been bullied in the first place, to be sure. Warren DeMontague Jul 2012 #21

We talked about this on another forum I belong TBF Jul 2012 #9

I think there's a distinction to be made between "a problem" and "the problem" lumberjack_jeff Jul 2012 #10

I can definitely see it both ways. Starry Messenger Jul 2012 #11

Well, it's interesting - TBF Jul 2012 #15

For health, I can totally understand doing stuff when young. Starry Messenger Jul 2012 #16

Agree - TBF Jul 2012 #30

before/after looks about the same except for makeup, cleanup, better lighting ng msongs Jul 2012 #13

Now all the little Heathers back home are going to want a tune-up. DCKit Jul 2012 #14

I wish I could remember who said this obamanut2012 Jul 2012 #18

I think for me, ultimately, isn't that she had it done. Starry Messenger Jul 2012 #19

I'm really torn on this kdmorris Jul 2012 #22

That is heartbreaking kdmorris Starry Messenger Jul 2012 #23

In my perfect world, they would, too kdmorris Jul 2012 #24

I know I'm only one person, but I definitely have zero tolerance for that in my classroom Starry Messenger Jul 2012 #25

You are a kind hearted soul. JNelson6563 Jul 2012 #27

Child culture rules get the red out Jul 2012 #26

Surgery is not the answer to bullying HockeyMom Jul 2012 #29