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Addiction & Recovery

tavalon

(27,985 posts)

10. I wasn't, but the relationship died for reason's other than my codependency

Reply to irisblue (Original post)

Thu Jun 6, 2013, 08:56 PM

Jun 2013

My husband was sicker than I was. As I got better, he got sicker and he took up with a woman who shows all the signs of a personality disorder. Now, I don't even recognize him, he acts so much like her. Sad.

But, I'm moving on. We still share a child, so I'm stuck with him on some level but it's helping with my boundary work.

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Relationship changes in recovery [View all] irisblue May 2013 OP

I can share this with you... dixiegrrrrl May 2013 #1

Remember this tired old saw? libodem May 2013 #2

Message auto-removed Name removed Jun 2013 #9

I stayed in my relationship cally May 2013 #3

Somehow Old Codger May 2013 #4

i (we) practice the 12 Traditions in our relationship NMDemDist2 May 2013 #5

There wasn't a chance in hell that my relationship would survive. Iggo May 2013 #6

still sober and clean. 6 months irisblue May 2013 #7

congrulations dear IrisB NMDemDist2 May 2013 #8

I wasn't, but the relationship died for reason's other than my codependency tavalon Jun 2013 #10