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DFW

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31. Sounds like you were in good hands, indeed
Thu Feb 21, 2019, 05:43 AM
Feb 2019

My wife lucked out here when she got "the murderer," as she was sent to the top specialist as soon as the diagnosis was in. Medical care is not "free" here in Germany, and she was 64 at the time, so her government-guaranteed medical insurance hadn't kicked in yet, but I had been paying for her medical insurance since she retired (about €500 a month, or around $600, as I remember), and that covered everything, even including a four week stay at a rehab spa in the Black Forest. Now that she is over 65, the German version of Medicare has relieved me of the monthly payments, though we are perfectly fine if she is spared a third round of cancer. I'm probably next, since both my parents had it, and so did ALL of their siblings. I already lost a cousin to glioblastoma 25 years ago. I'm not looking forward to it. Though I pay income taxes in Germany, I get no medical insurance at all, and no pension, so when it hits me, I have to take the first plane home to get treated. It's just an 11 hour nonstop to Dallas from Frankfurt or Paris, so I can probably handle it.

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;-) elleng Feb 2019 #1
Happy for you to have another day and a chance to update us... Moostache Feb 2019 #2
I remember when you had so much trouble awhile ago . I am so glad life is good for you lunasun Feb 2019 #3
Glad things are going in the right direction and you can taste food! We take so much for Doodley Feb 2019 #4
Yay! I'm so happy! Solly Mack Feb 2019 #5
Glad you're feeling better! Paz. RestoreAmerica2020 Feb 2019 #6
Thank you. It's always encouraging to share the progress and the positives! TygrBright Feb 2019 #7
Everybody talks about health (in my circle). erlewyne Feb 2019 #8
Whatever happen you deal with it. There's no viable option alfredo Feb 2019 #23
Welcome to the light at the end of the tunnel DFW Feb 2019 #9
I have to credit my doctors at the VA. alfredo Feb 2019 #24
Sounds like you were in good hands, indeed DFW Feb 2019 #31
Great! aka-chmeee Feb 2019 #10
I swore I would not gain back the weight, TNNurse Feb 2019 #11
Yeah I turn 74 next week. That is why recovery is dragging. alfredo Feb 2019 #25
I was only 64 at onset aka-chmeee Feb 2019 #32
One thing I've learned: Enjoy every day of your life! CaptainTruth Feb 2019 #12
Thank you for the update,... magicarpet Feb 2019 #13
Spring is significant for me, I was declared cancer free May 3rd alfredo Feb 2019 #26
You are very inspiring! What a great attitude! yardwork Feb 2019 #14
So proud of you for coping as well as you have! Karadeniz Feb 2019 #15
Hope each day samplegirl Feb 2019 #16
Thyroid advice Chicagogrl1 Feb 2019 #17
I will bring that up when I see my gp. alfredo Feb 2019 #27
Brave. That's what you are lillypaddle Feb 2019 #18
Oh my! 2naSalit Feb 2019 #19
I'm a hyper person, maddengly cheerful. alfredo Feb 2019 #29
Thank You for sharing. k and r Stuart G Feb 2019 #20
You're making yourself better, great to hear. JudyM Feb 2019 #21
What do you think helped you get better? n/t madisongrace Feb 2019 #22
I love earl grey too n/t deek Feb 2019 #28
Thanks for all the responses. I didn't know cancer was so popular, alfredo Feb 2019 #30
☀️❤️ Love and strength to everyone in this thread. ❤️☀️ we can do it Feb 2019 #33
Thank you. alfredo Feb 2019 #36
Dear alfredo, CrispyQ Feb 2019 #34
It's character buildingprevail. alfredo Feb 2019 #37
You have such a good attitude LiberalLoner Feb 2019 #35
I might not completely understand the gravity of my situation. alfredo Feb 2019 #38
Great news malaise Feb 2019 #39
I still have to guard against aspiration. alfredo Mar 2019 #40
wish I could hug you in person :) JHan Apr 2019 #41
Thanks. It's been a long strange trip. alfredo Apr 2019 #42
You've inspired me with your positive attitude PennyK Apr 2019 #43
Thanks alfredo Apr 2019 #44
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