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Lifeafter70

(556 posts) Tue May 27, 2025, 04:35 PM May 27

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Last edited Wed May 28, 2025, 03:25 PM - Edit history (2)

Having a very bad day. Awhile back I posted about my son's ACC cancer. It's back and there are no further treatments. Cancer doc said it was time for palitive care. It is skull base and infiltrating his orbital nerves affecting his sight and he can no longer drive. He lives in Washington and I'm in the Sacramento area
I traveled to take him to his doc appointment and bring him home with me. So we can help him with medical needs. Packed up his car to make the trip down. We got as far as klamath Falls and the transmission went out, quote to fix was more than 8 grand (thanks tfg). So am in a hotel waiting for hubby to get to pick us up.
So good vibes would be greatly appreciated
Thanks P
Edited to add:
I want to thank all of you for the outpouring of love, prayers and positive vibes. You kept me calm while waiting for hubby (lame54) to arrive. Thank you again.
Edited to add:

We are finally on our way home. Once I get him settled in, we will start the process of transferring his medical care. The one good thing about this cancer is it is slow growing. So we still have some time. The only functions he has lost is site in one eye, but still has blurred vision in the other and hearing in one ear. This cancer sets up shop in the nerves making it difficult to treat but slow progression. He was diagnosed in 2016 with two surgeries and two rounds of different types of radiation.
We knew the time would come when no further treatments would be available.

I want to thank you all for being there and getting me through a very difficult time
Bless you all and I will keep the cancer group updated as to his progress.
Patricia

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Healing vibes on the way to you & your family SheltieLover May 27 #1

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Yes, you are lucky to have each other SheltieLover May 27 #21

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Good vibes coming your way.... dgauss May 27 #7

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Oh, no...sending good thoughts to you all.... Karadeniz May 27 #8

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You have them mgardener May 27 #10

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What a test BaronChocula May 27 #11

Yes Lifeafter70 May 27 #13

Yeah, transmissions are pricey. soldierant May 27 #41

The price shocked me Lifeafter70 May 27 #51

It sounds like you raised him right. soldierant May 27 #63

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Thaks Lifeafter70 May 27 #17

Thinking of you and your son choie May 27 #15

Thank you so much Lifeafter70 May 27 #19

Sending good vibes and healing wishes Grim Chieftain May 27 #18

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Sending you, your son and your husband every positive thought I can. Dem2theMax May 27 #22

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I am praying for you. DU energy helped when I felt cancer had me on the ropes, it'll help all you all. marble falls May 27 #25

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I learned about ACC cancer today. We need to grab onto all the hope we can, because a lot of us got more ... marble falls May 27 #43

Glad to hear you are doing good Lifeafter70 May 27 #55

I know you'll keep us up on it. I feel invested in the best outcome now! marble falls May 27 #60

On the way, air mail special delivery. Permanut May 27 #26

Thank you so much Lifeafter70 May 27 #33

On their way...take care. stillcool May 27 #28

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Sending positive vibes to you, your son and your loved ones. 🩵💚 Clouds Passing May 27 #30

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You are strong justcheckinin May 27 #31

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your love will guide you - Nigrum Cattus May 27 #37

Prayers for strength and peace for you and your son. May angels watch over you both. LoisB May 27 #38

..... Lifeafter70 May 27 #40

So sorry you're going through this uphill challenge. Thank goodness you have the support of hubby and that he's on his wordstroken May 27 #42

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Praying for the best possible outcome. Tanuki May 27 #44

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Sending healing and calming vibes to you and your family. virgdem May 27 #45

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Hope things get on a more even keel soon Figarosmom May 27 #49

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Tough break/s. Cancer; a test. Car, looking is keeping the brain moving in another direction. cachukis May 27 #50

Sending.... Blue Owl May 27 #52

Love that Lifeafter70 May 27 #56

Positivity BeneteauBum May 27 #54

Hubby is here Lifeafter70 May 27 #57

I hope you are on your way when this reaches you. jmbar2 May 27 #58

We are still here in klamath Falls Lifeafter70 May 27 #61

Thinking of you and your son and sending comforting vibes. skylucy May 27 #59

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My heart breaks for you and your family, truly! NCgayguy May 28 #64

Sending hugs and good vibes. calimary May 28 #65

Thanks calimary Lifeafter70 May 28 #69

Continuing vibes for all of you for best possible outcomes. niyad May 28 #66

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Holding you in my heart... strength and consolation to you and your beloveds. n/t TygrBright May 28 #67

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Healing blessings to you and your son Wicked Blue May 28 #68

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I'm so sorry that you are all going through this Danmel May 28 #73

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Your son is very lucky to have a strong Mom like you Bayard May 28 #76

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So sorry for your son and you and your family. 58Sunliner May 28 #78

Peace to all. sinkingfeeling May 28 #79