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Scrivener7

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15. I have one like that. It was so hard to let go of her, but once I did my life got a lot easier.
Wed Feb 7, 2024, 10:23 AM
Feb 2024

When it's a sibling, often you think - or are raised to think- "well, that's just her."

Only when I had some distance could I see how very cruel and destructive she could be.

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Am I wrong/crazy/unreasonable? [View all] XanaDUer2 Feb 2024 OP
It is more than reasonable to take care of yourself. quaint Feb 2024 #1
She's an entitled narcissistic bitch XanaDUer2 Feb 2024 #3
Agree. And if you want to, get a second opinion. If it's also spooky3 Feb 2024 #4
You are not nuts! AKwannabe Feb 2024 #2
Why wouldnt I seek out XanaDUer2 Feb 2024 #6
Take care of yourself and your jaw. It is YOUR mouth and health. ms liberty Feb 2024 #5
I think her plan is XanaDUer2 Feb 2024 #16
Nope, nope, nope, nope, nope. Get your jaw fixed. Scrivener7 Feb 2024 #7
I'm done with her XanaDUer2 Feb 2024 #14
I have one like that. It was so hard to let go of her, but once I did my life got a lot easier. Scrivener7 Feb 2024 #15
She's a half sister XanaDUer2 Feb 2024 #18
Take care of your jaw with a specialist qualified in the field. I do like the idea of a 2nd opinion that another MLAA Feb 2024 #8
After her last abusive text XanaDUer2 Feb 2024 #10
Good for you! MLAA Feb 2024 #22
Sounds like she is... Think. Again. Feb 2024 #30
Personally, I wouldn't give her the time of day EYESORE 9001 Feb 2024 #9
Boundaries bucolic_frolic Feb 2024 #11
Take care of yourself! Ocelot II Feb 2024 #12
Exactly. Take care of yourself first. It is nobody else's business. Midnight Writer Feb 2024 #21
you are the only person that knows what it feels like to live in your body 10 Turtle Day Feb 2024 #13
20k loan and 5000k PODS XanaDUer2 Feb 2024 #17
You are none of those things. LoisB Feb 2024 #19
My cousin means well XanaDUer2 Feb 2024 #20
I am so sorry. I apologize to your cousin. LoisB Feb 2024 #23
Amen nt XanaDUer2 Feb 2024 #25
She might mean well but it's still none of her business. Ocelot II Feb 2024 #24
This XanaDUer2 Feb 2024 #27
Take Care of You First! Deep State Witch Feb 2024 #26
Wow, what a family problem! PJMcK Feb 2024 #28
I'm not in pain XanaDUer2 Feb 2024 #29
Protect your health. Hope22 Feb 2024 #31
Thanks XanaDUer2 Feb 2024 #32
Ignore her. ShazzieB Feb 2024 #33
Thank you so much XanaDUer2 Feb 2024 #34
you are being the opposite of nuts. mopinko Feb 2024 #35
I'm no contact XanaDUer2 Feb 2024 #36
lordy. maybe you shd get an order of protection. mopinko Feb 2024 #37
So far, I'm ok no contact XanaDUer2 Feb 2024 #38
You are certainly not nuts. OldBaldy1701E Feb 2024 #39
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