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OldBaldy1701E

(7,887 posts)
7. Nope.
Sun Feb 16, 2025, 09:20 PM
Feb 2025

That was his desire in the beginning. He leaned quickly that it was not going to happen. So, he started to change everything we agreed on and pulling away. We came up here at his insistence, and then he acted like he barely knew us. We agreed on a plan once we moved up here and he abandoned it the second he realized that he would not have controlling interest in everything, which meant that he would be expected to carry his own weight and be a responsible roommate.

And the fact that he wasn't gonna get what he wanted. He is a child. The only reason he has survived this long is because he is rich. Imagine thinking that you were moving in and throwing in your lot with what you thought was a quirky adult only to find out that he is a spoiled little brat who has zero practical abilities and even less interest in changing anything that supports his delusion that he is some kind of gift to humanity.

I apologize for all of this. It is what I have been suffering over for the last seven years. I am sure it is partially why I have become much worse as far as my depression and anxiety. Hell, I had never had a panic attack before I moved here. I suffer from anxiety but had never had that occur. It is the same with my husband. He was always a rock before all of this happened.

I am very scared. Very angry as well, but very scared. Thanks again. Venting helps.

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I'm so sorry XanaDUer2 Feb 2025 #1
Yes, I was describing the landlord of this townhouse. OldBaldy1701E Feb 2025 #3
Ok, so you have 6 mos XanaDUer2 Feb 2025 #5
Nope. OldBaldy1701E Feb 2025 #7
Vent away XanaDUer2 Feb 2025 #8
I prayed for you. I hope things get better Joinfortmill Feb 2025 #2
Thank you. (n/t) OldBaldy1701E Feb 2025 #4
I checked JFS XanaDUer2 Feb 2025 #6
I appreciate the suggestions. OldBaldy1701E Feb 2025 #9
But not everything is your fault XanaDUer2 Feb 2025 #10
Hell, the plan was to basically be like a 'co-op'. OldBaldy1701E Feb 2025 #11
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