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chowmama

(564 posts)
22. Think of a category of food you like and start small. Keep it simple.
Sat Jan 4, 2025, 11:16 PM
Jan 4

Make one thing - say, a main dish and buy the sides and/or dessert.

If you're an omnivore, there's not much simpler than braised meat. Take a tough cut, brown it very well for a short time over high heat, throw a little seasoning and liquid into it, cover it, and cook it over a very low heat or bake it till it gives up. It takes hours, but really no further attention. Maybe look at it midway to be sure the liquid isn't cooking away. You can add more if you need to, but I've never needed to. Let the store supply the sides. This technique gives you everything from pot roast or short ribs to Boeuf Bourguignon. It's always better the next day, so great leftovers. One of my favorites involves beef, tomato sauce, canned green chilis, onions and beer. The leftovers get shredded for BBQ beef on a hamburger bun.

Is supper the only meal in question? For a special easy breakfast, get steel-cut oats. Start them the night before, boiling them for only a minute, turn off the heat, slap a lid on them and go to bed. Don't refrigerate them, just leave them alone. Re-boil the next morning (you will have to stir them a little) for about 5 minutes and you've got good oatmeal.

If you like pizza, try it a few times - you'll get really good at it. (I still can't slide it onto a pizza stone, but nobody's ever refused a slice from off a cooky sheet yet. If they do, it's their loss.) You can start by buying the dough and work up to that later. Get good spaghetti sauce, use it sparingly and sprinkle on a little extra oregano. Whatever toppings you want. And you've got spaghetti for tomorrow night.

Get everything you need to throw together a huge antipasto salad. The same store will have french bread that you can warm up in a slow oven with no effort at all. A little red wine, you've got dinner. If it's a date night and you've got the time and inclination, make dessert an assortment of cheeses with some cut-up ripe pears or other fruit. This whole meal is more assembly than cooking.

Play around. Go easy on the salt; you can always add more if you need it. And, as an old cookbook once told me, just start frying a chopped onion. Ideas will come to you.

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Rice and dried beans are easy to boil up and together you get protein! GreenWave Jan 4 #1
Your local library likely has a plethora of cookbooks. no_hypocrisy Jan 4 #2
Try this PJMcK Jan 4 #3
Bake some Cornbread take you 2 Boxes 2 Eggs bit of Milk Oneear Jan 4 #4
Ask your wife what ideas she has about you helping out more. Irish_Dem Jan 4 #5
Yeah she probably "does". Historic NY Jan 4 #8
thanks everyone mdmc Jan 4 #6
What about grocery shopping? Sanity Claws Jan 4 #7
And besides just helping in the kitchen as you have been doing, the shopping too will help, and the shopping will SWBTATTReg Jan 6 #28
Scrambled eggs are easy - just pay attention BoRaGard Jan 4 #9
Youtube is your friend. Watch food prep videos. There are a ton on YT, ranging from simple japple Jan 4 #10
Hobo Skillet or Hobo Casserole with hamburger is easy to cook. Emile Jan 4 #11
On the nights you cook make enough for two meals. Hope22 Jan 4 #12
Watch and take notes when she cooks. Use it as a tutorial so she can teach you best practices she uses. Nanuke Jan 4 #13
No advice but to say what a jewel of a husband you are CousinIT Jan 4 #14
actually, I'm pretty awful mdmc Jan 4 #15
Get educated IbogaProject Jan 4 #16
You are fortunate to cook for two. Cooking for one is a challenge. So here are some ideas. usonian Jan 4 #17
Nice, nice, nice!! I love the tips and I do enjoy cooking too, for the fun of it. SWBTATTReg Jan 6 #29
OH US, HOW could I have MISSED this??? elleng Tuesday #32
If you let your Wife teach you how to cook Turbineguy Jan 4 #18
I've heard it said that cooking is an art and baking is a science SheltieLover Jan 4 #19
Baking is less forgiving than cooking Retrograde Jan 4 #20
For sure! SheltieLover Jan 4 #21
Think of a category of food you like and start small. Keep it simple. chowmama Jan 4 #22
To me the hardest part is the planning Phentex Jan 5 #23
We have a set food category for each day of the week SARose Jan 5 #24
I love the internet WhiteTara Jan 5 #25
Corned beef hash and a cabbage salad is timeless. applegrove Jan 5 #26
yummy! mdmc Wednesday #33
Post removed Post removed Jan 6 #27
Be in the kitchen Marthe48 Jan 6 #30
You could try Pinterest.com Tanuki Tuesday #31
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