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femmedem

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25. I'm so sorry. She was family. Of course you miss her.
Thu Apr 27, 2023, 11:05 AM
Apr 2023

I've had many cats over the years--I have five now, all former neighborhood strays--and every time I've lost one, it's been awful. There was one who died quite young, whom we'd found as a feral kitten. We cried off and on for months. I don't know your circumstances, but for us it didn't ease up until we brought another pet into our home. Not that we could ever replace her, but it gave us somewhere to put our love.

For us, the grief has always eventually subsided until all that was left were were warm memories. I hope that becomes true for you, too.

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I can't stop crying! [View all] Archae Apr 2023 OP
I'm so sorry, I don't know what else to say that would help. FoxNewsSucks Apr 2023 #1
I am so sorry Diamond_Dog Apr 2023 #2
I'm so sorry, my dear Archae. . . CaliforniaPeggy Apr 2023 #3
So sorry claudette Apr 2023 #4
Lady Bast, please take Your little one gently home in Your loving arms, and send peace niyad Apr 2023 #9
🥲 claudette Apr 2023 #26
I am sorry for your loss. mercuryblues Apr 2023 #5
... 2naSalit Apr 2023 #6
The best thing for me (and it still took months) was to walk nearby trails with few people or hlthe2b Apr 2023 #7
It's been about 18 months since I lost Sophie and Morgan, and I still tear up, thinking of them Siwsan Apr 2023 #8
Hugggggggs. Have been there so many times, so know somewhat of what niyad Apr 2023 #10
I'm so sorry. Jirel Apr 2023 #11
One thing she loved to do... Archae Apr 2023 #34
I am so very sorry. FM123 Apr 2023 #12
You'll reach the point where you appreciate the time you had more than the hurt her loss caused. Karadeniz Apr 2023 #13
I am so sorry for your loss. Our furbabies give us the purest, sweetest love LiberalLoner Apr 2023 #14
My Greta is very old, walk so slowly... RainCaster Apr 2023 #15
Of course you miss her Marthe48 Apr 2023 #16
I am so very sorry for the loss of your sweet baby....(((hugs))) samnsara Apr 2023 #17
SO so sorry Archae..yes, it hurts..all the wonderful asiliveandbreathe Apr 2023 #18
I am so sorry. murielm99 Apr 2023 #19
I'm so sorry. Charlotte obviously was wonderful! The love you two shared was wonderful! raging moderate Apr 2023 #20
I'm so sorry. barbtries Apr 2023 #21
So sorry for your loss. We lost our dear little corgi this month. mommymarine2003 Apr 2023 #22
Lady Bast, please take Your little Bilbo gently home in Your loving arms, and send peace niyad Apr 2023 #31
Thank you. mommymarine2003 Apr 2023 #33
I'm sooo sorry, Archae. It is sooo painful. I'm sharing in your sadness. I still find myself judesedit Apr 2023 #23
I'm so sorry for your loss! Your post made me cry all over again for the two fur babies LaMouffette Apr 2023 #24
I'm so sorry. She was family. Of course you miss her. femmedem Apr 2023 #25
I'm so sorry, Archae. calimary Apr 2023 #27
I'm so sorry! cate94 Apr 2023 #28
Sending you love. RIP beloved Charlotte. MLAA Apr 2023 #29
I am so sorry for your loss LetMyPeopleVote Apr 2023 #30
I'm sorry Archie.... 16 years though isn't a bad run Ellipsis Apr 2023 #32
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