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forgotmylogin

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25. I slowly figured out how important the tail is.
Fri May 26, 2023, 12:49 PM
May 2023

It can serve as antennae, extra limb, communicate mood, and is a counterbalancing tool for acrobatics.

Tail up is good mood, curious, happy. Tail down is concerned, frustrated, confused; swiping tail is either frustration or the cat preparing their balance to stalk or pounce. Sometimes (with a cat familiar to you) gently brushing the tail up into the happy position is like telling them "hey, cheer up". Cats can use their tail almost as a rear-view mirror to swipe the space behind them checking for retreat options or another cat sneaking up on them - similar to how whiskers alert them whether they space they're intruding into is too narrow for them or not.

I noticed my female cat expresses affection with a tail-wrap around my leg. It's like she's hugging or putting a gentle arm around me like a buddy. Sometime's it's quick as she passes, almost like you'd touch the shoulder of a friend when moving behind their chair. She also really wants to be part of my yoga stretching - she'll fuss around on all sides of the mat, sometimes looking for a place to lie down alongside, sometimes mimicking my position, sometimes she'll pace like an instructor, whipping her tail around on all sides, tapping everywhere on my body like she's checking or correcting my positional form. It would seem a cat in the way would be annoying, but she totally understands if she's laying on the side I want to roll toward and feels me move she's up like a flash to find another comfortable spot to sprawl.

I had another cat years ago that almost seemed to be able to sense tension and would indicate this. Once when lying on the ground she carefully walked up and balanced on me with front paws and back paws on each of my hip sockets and started kneading and shifting the weight of her back feet literally massaging my hip sockets as if she were concerned for my flexibility.

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Of course. If you have a cat you already knew this. Ocelot II May 2023 #1
Some people remain clueless Warpy May 2023 #3
also azureblue May 2023 #19
I've only had one cat that would wag it's tail wryter2000 May 2023 #22
I slowly figured out how important the tail is. forgotmylogin May 2023 #25
It's called mirroring The Blue Flower May 2023 #2
+1 chowder66 May 2023 #9
A signal it's okay to approach with people wryter2000 May 2023 #23
I've always just talked to my cats. hippywife May 2023 #4
One of my cats was a 4 year old rescue Warpy May 2023 #5
I think I have known that fact since I was about five years old. Walleye May 2023 #6
We are having a hard time with loud barking right on our fence line LakeArenal May 2023 #7
Good idea Warpy May 2023 #10
Staring at a dog is a dominance signal wryter2000 May 2023 #24
Arthur initiates the slow blinks Siwsan May 2023 #8
Oh heck yes. I figured that out when I was a toddler, decades ago. Sky Jewels May 2023 #11
This works on big cats, too. Sky Jewels May 2023 #12
We call it 'Lovey Eyes' Goddessartist May 2023 #13
I have used this for years and it works. iscooterliberally May 2023 #14
Great tip.. Permanut May 2023 #15
👇👇👇👁️👁️ Goonch May 2023 #17
That's him! Permanut May 2023 #28
Awesome gif! ShazzieB May 2023 #29
It's fascinating that there is that "universal" behavior BumRushDaShow May 2023 #16
I had a very shy new adult female Easterncedar May 2023 #18
In related news, never trust a man who hates cats. oldsoftie May 2023 #20
I do love these studies Easterncedar May 2023 #21
Wait - There's moar! Leith May 2023 #26
This thread needs a picture! progressoid May 2023 #27
One of 7 month old Siamese kittens, Charlotte, likes being held like a baby. 3catwoman3 May 2023 #30
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