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Leith

(7,856 posts)
26. Wait - There's moar!
Fri May 26, 2023, 01:29 PM
May 2023

Waggling your head, either by simple nodding or moving your face in a figure 8 is a very friendly gesture.

My favorite is The Breep: trill your tongue like the Spanish R while saying b-r-r-r-eeeep! with a rising tone.

My cats liked it when I purred at them: the same trilled R, voiceless, best when done like imitating a cat's breathing.

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A question: I have always held my cats in a way that I have never seen anyone hold a cat. My left hand held in front of me palm up. Kitty sits on my left hand while putting their front paws on my right arm, my right hand holds their body close to mine. I don't know if I described that well, so think of it as kitty saying his prayers.

This has a couple advantages - it's comfortable for kitty and you are in a perfect position to control the cat if it gets spooked. Just pay attention for the slight tensing up that tells you kitty is ready to bolt so that you can get a firm but gentle grip on their wrists and ankles and your right hand holds the cat's body to your won.

The only way I have seen others hold cats is (a) like a baby, which many cats don't like to stay in very long, or
(b) arm around the rib cage with all their legs hanging in the air, which looks very uncomfortable. I certainly would not like being held that way.

Does anyone else hold their cat the way I do?

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Of course. If you have a cat you already knew this. Ocelot II May 2023 #1
Some people remain clueless Warpy May 2023 #3
also azureblue May 2023 #19
I've only had one cat that would wag it's tail wryter2000 May 2023 #22
I slowly figured out how important the tail is. forgotmylogin May 2023 #25
It's called mirroring The Blue Flower May 2023 #2
+1 chowder66 May 2023 #9
A signal it's okay to approach with people wryter2000 May 2023 #23
I've always just talked to my cats. hippywife May 2023 #4
One of my cats was a 4 year old rescue Warpy May 2023 #5
I think I have known that fact since I was about five years old. Walleye May 2023 #6
We are having a hard time with loud barking right on our fence line LakeArenal May 2023 #7
Good idea Warpy May 2023 #10
Staring at a dog is a dominance signal wryter2000 May 2023 #24
Arthur initiates the slow blinks Siwsan May 2023 #8
Oh heck yes. I figured that out when I was a toddler, decades ago. Sky Jewels May 2023 #11
This works on big cats, too. Sky Jewels May 2023 #12
We call it 'Lovey Eyes' Goddessartist May 2023 #13
I have used this for years and it works. iscooterliberally May 2023 #14
Great tip.. Permanut May 2023 #15
👇👇👇👁️👁️ Goonch May 2023 #17
That's him! Permanut May 2023 #28
Awesome gif! ShazzieB May 2023 #29
It's fascinating that there is that "universal" behavior BumRushDaShow May 2023 #16
I had a very shy new adult female Easterncedar May 2023 #18
In related news, never trust a man who hates cats. oldsoftie May 2023 #20
I do love these studies Easterncedar May 2023 #21
Wait - There's moar! Leith May 2023 #26
This thread needs a picture! progressoid May 2023 #27
One of 7 month old Siamese kittens, Charlotte, likes being held like a baby. 3catwoman3 May 2023 #30
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