I need every resource you have

[sarisataka]

3. You can try this

http://veteranscrisisline.net/
The Veterans Crisis Line connects Veterans in crisis and their families and friends with qualified, caring Department of Veterans Affairs responders through a confidential toll-free hotline, online chat, or text. Veterans and their loved ones can call 1-800-273-8255 and Press 1, chat online, or send a text message to 838255 to receive confidential support 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, 365 days a year. Support for deaf and hard of hearing individuals is available.

or

National Call Center for Homeless Vets
877 4AID-VET (424-3838))
part of the National Alliance on Mental Illness

Often this first call leads to another number then another and so on. It takes perseverance but you can reach help.

Good Luck and Best Wishes to both of you.