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Lulu KC

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16. I lean toward navy or black at funerals
Tue Apr 18, 2023, 09:53 AM
Apr 2023

but the dress code seems to be gone, and I realized a while ago that no one is looking at me anyway so I just look as clean and presentable as I can.

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I'd go with something dark. Maybe simple dress, or Phoenix61 Apr 2023 #1
I am no fashion person but something quiet is always appropriate. Srkdqltr Apr 2023 #2
Earth colors? (channeling my mother the artist ) Tetrachloride Apr 2023 #3
Black and/or navy blue. Sanity Claws Apr 2023 #4
First: has the family made a request? I've been to funerals which have requested "no black, please" chia Apr 2023 #5
I've never heard of wearing the deceased's favorite color. I like that idea. -nt CrispyQ Apr 2023 #8
My family wore red ggma Apr 2023 #20
Dark, understated. Ocelot II Apr 2023 #6
Is there a dress code for anything anymore? CrispyQ Apr 2023 #7
I have a black skirt & sweater, white shell, black shoes & hose on standby irisblue Apr 2023 #9
Black or navy is what I wear. I have slacks, dresses livetohike Apr 2023 #10
I'm not a lady, but I suggest black. WhiteTara Apr 2023 #11
I usually wear my Alliepoo Apr 2023 #12
I've worn a dark green business-casual pantsuit (side-zippered pants w/waistband Backseat Driver Apr 2023 #13
As long as it's tasteful it really doesn't matter any more. Totally up to you. ratchiweenie Apr 2023 #14
Most of these nowadays tend to be "celebration of life" events. If so, go with the flow...it might CTyankee Apr 2023 #15
In my community, this! Celebration! Graduation from this life's lessons! Higherarky Apr 2023 #21
I lean toward navy or black at funerals Lulu KC Apr 2023 #16
Wear what you want. Dead person doesn't care. LakeArenal Apr 2023 #17
when I visit my home town, I always pack a pair of black yellowdogintexas Apr 2023 #18
Dark blue would be my option, but it happens to be my favorite color. elleng Apr 2023 #19
... Faux pas Apr 2023 #22
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