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SheilaT

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28. I happened to like "The Girl at the Lion D'Or" very much,
Sun Oct 12, 2014, 12:53 PM
Oct 2014

which simply points up how we all have different tastes.

But back to the question of whether or not to finish something. I recently met someone through a writing critique group some of us are starting. That man is quite proud of the fact that he has several non-fiction books and one science fiction novel self published. We had a brief discussion about the merits of doing that, and I simply told him, as I tell everyone, that in my experience most self-published books are not worth reading. I've tried a few in the past, and they've invariably been dreadful.

He (rather graciously, I think) forwarded a copy of it to me via email. I fully intended before I started to read the entire thing, but I got twenty pages into and stopped, because it simply isn't very good. At the very beginning there's clumsy exposition of the As you know, Fred sort. Then there was a villain who was so totally and stupidly evil that I simply couldn't believe it.

Worse yet, the author doesn't really want to do critiquing in this just-starting group, nor, so far as I can tell, put out his stuff to be critiqued either. He just wants to talk about writing generalities. As someone who wants to be published in the old-fashioned way, just sitting around discussing writing abstractly, isn't going to help me. What does help is to have readers point out what I've done wrong, or where I've left them confused, or whatever.

So in any case, whatever the format, whatever you might have paid for a book, other than something you have to read for school or work, don't bother to finish a book that's not working for you. How long you need to give is variable, but time wasted reading something that you don't like, is time you'll never get back, and time that could have been better spent reading something you do like.

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Oh yes shenmue Sep 2014 #1
I just have so many other more interesting books I want to get to. closeupready Sep 2014 #2
Why feel guilty? Think of all the time you did NOT waste by reading through to the end. (nt) enough Sep 2014 #3
That's a good way of putting it, yes. Thanks. closeupready Sep 2014 #4
Re-reading good books is always a good idea. (nt) enough Sep 2014 #9
Totally Agree Wolf Frankula Sep 2014 #17
I very seldom give up on a book I've started. Here's why (a few reasons). Old Crow Sep 2014 #5
Thanks those are some good points. closeupready Sep 2014 #7
LOL... good point, actually, regarding Wikipedia Old Crow Sep 2014 #10
Factoid of the day: when I'm indecisive about what to read next, closeupready Sep 2014 #14
At the risk of being picky, SheilaT Oct 2014 #32
Guilty over not finishing a book? No way. scarletwoman Sep 2014 #6
Thanks - I really resent being drawn in to this piece of crap book. closeupready Sep 2014 #8
Donate the book to your local library, or a homeless shelter, or a 2nd hand store. scarletwoman Sep 2014 #12
With all the great books that I have yet to read, Curmudgeoness Sep 2014 #11
I so agree fadedrose Sep 2014 #13
Ah, so true about just trying to get to the end Curmudgeoness Sep 2014 #16
Never feel guilty about putting a book down. SheilaT Sep 2014 #15
Thanks - I did put it down, and closeupready Sep 2014 #25
I feel a little guilty, but I do it anyway. Chemisse Sep 2014 #18
I seldom quit a book part way through. Enthusiast Sep 2014 #19
I give a book 10% of the total pages Goblinmonger Sep 2014 #20
Your first mistake was buying a Clive Cussler book. Tracer Sep 2014 #21
lol, yeah - you know, like a lot of people, I do pre-judge a book closeupready Sep 2014 #22
Good choice! oldandhappy Sep 2014 #23
Yes libodem Sep 2014 #24
No. Not in the least bit. And, I've learned several hard lessons along the way... GOLGO 13 Sep 2014 #26
Yes. Sometimes. AngryOldDem Oct 2014 #27
I happened to like "The Girl at the Lion D'Or" very much, SheilaT Oct 2014 #28
Absolutely no guilt! gratefultobelib Oct 2014 #29
I'm 65..... llmart Oct 2014 #30
Nope bigwillq Oct 2014 #31
No guilt Susannah Elf Apr 2015 #33
I used to, but like others have mentioned, hippywife Apr 2015 #34
Not unless it's a book on loan from a friend. Paladin Apr 2015 #35
Nope. I'm in the middle of one right now, a loan from a friend, and I don't think I'm going to raccoon Apr 2015 #36
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