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freeplessinseattle

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16. Thank you Matariki! and get this, her daughter was signed up for a promising study
Sat Dec 31, 2011, 08:13 PM
Dec 2011

at Fred Hutchinson I had stumbled across. It had only been tried on a few people due to lack of funding but the results were so incredible it was pretty exciting and promising. She had to be a certain age (was 3 1/2 at the time she passed away) and was slated to start within the next few months, I think.

So on the one hand I also feel like I gave them false hope, ....but maybe I can direct her anger towards the powers that be for not giving enough funding. or something.

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What I appreciated the most... OneGrassRoot Dec 2011 #1
I do get that, but simply remaining silent while she is pouring her heart out freeplessinseattle Dec 2011 #2
I don't have insight about the religious aspect... OneGrassRoot Dec 2011 #4
Thank you, it does help to know that simply being silent isn't necessarily freeplessinseattle Dec 2011 #9
Comforting doesn't necessarily mean advice-giving Remember Me Dec 2011 #15
i'm of the same mind as OGR. Howler Dec 2011 #3
Thank you. I guess i just feel that if I remain silent freeplessinseattle Dec 2011 #6
maybe she feels more comfortable telling you that WolverineDG Dec 2011 #12
Whoa ! Whoa! Whoa! Howler Dec 2011 #19
I agree with OGR and Howler Tumbulu Dec 2011 #5
Thank you, that is a good idea, I will ponder on some ideas freeplessinseattle Dec 2011 #7
Perhaps ask what she needs and listen Matariki Dec 2011 #8
she says she wants to try to process things but doesn't know how freeplessinseattle Dec 2011 #10
Yeah, that's really really tough Matariki Dec 2011 #13
Thank you Matariki! and get this, her daughter was signed up for a promising study freeplessinseattle Dec 2011 #16
Probably the worst thing given to my dad & me when my mom died was WolverineDG Dec 2011 #11
After my dad died when I was a kid rosesaylavee Dec 2011 #14
Be her friend. BlueToTheBone Dec 2011 #17
Grieving PADemD Dec 2011 #18
You know Freepless, I'm dealing with cancer as we speak and I just got home from watching Ecumenist Jan 2012 #20
I'm so sorry to hear that. Cleita Jan 2012 #22
Thank you Cleita!! Ecumenist Jan 2012 #25
what ecumenist said magical thyme Jan 2012 #23
If you stop believing in God, then there is no one to blame would be a cynic's answer. Cleita Jan 2012 #21
Well Said, Cleita! Ecumenist Jan 2012 #24
Here's my two cents. SheilaT Jan 2012 #26
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