Bereavement

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44. I'm right there with you, Maeve...

Sat May 23, 2026, 08:55 PM

14 hrs ago

My Mom died this past January. It had been a long time coming but it still hit like a ton of bricks, and we're still going through some of her financials. The process sucks so make sure you make time to take care of yourself.

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Mom died March 1. Today, I got the Medicare summary [View all] Maeve 23 hrs ago OP

Deepest condolences, Maeve. SheltieLover 23 hrs ago #1

Stay strong, it's just so tough to deal with Walleye 23 hrs ago #2

This is for you malaise 23 hrs ago #3

I understand. my mom passed a few years back but I still feel a tug when riversedge 23 hrs ago #4

🫂 OGBuzz 23 hrs ago #5

All normal in a not normal setting. You get feelings you have never had before. My sisters were sad when twodogsbarking 23 hrs ago #6

so sorry for your loss. lostincalifornia 23 hrs ago #7

i am so sorry for the loss of your mom .... dawn5651 23 hrs ago #8

I finished with my Mom's Medicaid summary slightlv 23 hrs ago #9

Oh, my. I think your mom is still with you. That is my plan, to always be with my children Joinfortmill 4 hrs ago #48

My condolences on the loss of your mom karynnj 23 hrs ago #10

Did you co-sign for her care on admission sheet tavernier 23 hrs ago #11

It's ok, she left a comfortable inheritance Maeve 22 hrs ago #13

She would have been 94 a month later--thank you all! Maeve 23 hrs ago #12

Nothing really more to add to all of the sweet sentiments. hamsterjill 22 hrs ago #14

Bless your heart, dear Maeve Grim Chieftain 22 hrs ago #15

Very sorry for your loss dlk 22 hrs ago #16

... alwaysinasnit 22 hrs ago #17

I am so sorry for your loss. stage left 22 hrs ago #18

I'm sorry, Maeve. Diamond_Dog 22 hrs ago #19

I am so sorry for your loss. That finality does hit hard. Stay strong. LoisB 22 hrs ago #20

The Republican Mantra popsdenver 22 hrs ago #21

That $1736 is probably the Medicare Part A deductible for 2026? Bengus81 22 hrs ago #22

Yep, exactly. She had a supplemental plan, too Maeve 21 hrs ago #23

This illustrates how absurd our HC system is. The Medicare reimbursement ... Bluetus 21 hrs ago #29

Not going to get any argument from me Maeve 21 hrs ago #31

There was one year there were nothing but no-name (junk) companies on Obamacare in my county Bluetus 19 hrs ago #34

No apologies needed Maeve 18 hrs ago #36

Grief is hard cate94 21 hrs ago #24

I'm so sorry for your loss, Maeve. EuterpeThelo 21 hrs ago #25

I am so sorry for your loss, Maeve MIButterfly 21 hrs ago #26

I'm very sorry for your loss. yardwork 21 hrs ago #27

I am so sorry Maeve irisblue 21 hrs ago #28

Deepest Condolences Deep State Witch 21 hrs ago #30

Glad to see you emerging from a long ordeal and coming out into the light BumRushDaShow 20 hrs ago #32

Thanks, a chara! Maeve 18 hrs ago #37

Went through this in 2022, Maeve TBF 19 hrs ago #33

Appreciate hearing the stories Maeve 18 hrs ago #38

You have my condolences IbogaProject 18 hrs ago #35

The bills have all been covered, thankfully Maeve 18 hrs ago #39

She probably wasn't worried about you two. Hope22 15 hrs ago #42

We felt the same getting my mother's final bill. mgardener 15 hrs ago #40

My heart is with you. Hope22 15 hrs ago #41

I'm so sorry, Maeve. Silver Gaia 14 hrs ago #43

I'm right there with you, Maeve... COL Mustard 14 hrs ago #44

I m so sorry. murielm99 10 hrs ago #45

Brings it all back. Aussie105 8 hrs ago #46

Hugs Joinfortmill 4 hrs ago #47

Take some of the love you had for her, love that feels like it has no place to go now, and spend that on yourself Attilatheblond 1 hr ago #49

I'm so sorry to hear about this. Nothing prepares us. littlemissmartypants 1 hr ago #50