One holiday down, two to go

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3. I'm actually living in his family home, and he has to come back eventually

His almost FIL was almost killed at the gate to his house when the ex was visiting, and it isn't safe in general to stay for any period of time. We just got back to the US, and he doesn't have any unpaid bills here, at the moment. While I could go to a lawyer, and try to make sure the ex pays me child support like he's supposed to, it would be a big mess and it would hurt my daughters more than I am willing to allow right now. If things get to where I am really hurting, I will. But leaving me in the dark like this is one of the reasons I said yes to the divorce.