Coping with Divorce or Separation

TexasTowelie

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1. I'm sorry to hear that fizzgig.

Fri May 30, 2014, 02:33 AM

May 2014

Sometimes it is impossible to work out differences when people are on divergent paths. However, if it isn't meant to be then it is best to move on so that both people can be happy. I don't ever recall you mentioning that you have children so at least you have some flexibility that other people may not have.

I hope that you find someone that will make you happy and will work with you to build a strong relationship, but don't rush into another relationship. You will need some time to heal from this experience.

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i'm done holding my marriage together with duct tape and chicken wire [View all] fizzgig May 2014 OP

I'm sorry to hear that fizzgig. TexasTowelie May 2014 #1

no kids, no mortgage fizzgig May 2014 #3

Vibes to you. applegrove May 2014 #2

thanks fizzgig May 2014 #4

My experience is that this time SheilaT May 2014 #5

i put up a good fight to keep it together fizzgig May 2014 #6

I think, partly based on my own experience, SheilaT May 2014 #7

i don't know what else i could do fizzgig May 2014 #8

Yeah, the moment I realized my Ex-Wife had irrevocably hit the "ejector seat" button.... villager Jun 2014 #9

Yeah, I can relate to that. laundry_queen Jun 2014 #10

Yup. Support groups, and being able to "talk" help a lot villager Jun 2014 #11

So true laundry_queen Jun 2014 #12

"Debriefing" it is, lq. Claiming your own "reality" back... villager Jun 2014 #13

I can definitely relate Blue_Roses Jun 2014 #14

Hang in there. Callalily Jun 2014 #15

I'm sorry y'all have had trouble. dawg Aug 2014 #16

I know how you feel... a la izquierda Aug 2014 #17

I've had much enjoyment in my life riding Roller coasters. BlueJazz Oct 2014 #18