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Coping with Divorce or Separation

Callalily

(15,032 posts)

15. Hang in there.

Reply to fizzgig (Original post)

Tue Jun 17, 2014, 05:51 PM

Jun 2014

It's tough holding onto a marriage when one partner is doing all of the work and the other is just drifting.

You WILL find yourself and you WILL find happiness and peace.

Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

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i'm done holding my marriage together with duct tape and chicken wire [View all] fizzgig May 2014 OP

I'm sorry to hear that fizzgig. TexasTowelie May 2014 #1

no kids, no mortgage fizzgig May 2014 #3

Vibes to you. applegrove May 2014 #2

thanks fizzgig May 2014 #4

My experience is that this time SheilaT May 2014 #5

i put up a good fight to keep it together fizzgig May 2014 #6

I think, partly based on my own experience, SheilaT May 2014 #7

i don't know what else i could do fizzgig May 2014 #8

Yeah, the moment I realized my Ex-Wife had irrevocably hit the "ejector seat" button.... villager Jun 2014 #9

Yeah, I can relate to that. laundry_queen Jun 2014 #10

Yup. Support groups, and being able to "talk" help a lot villager Jun 2014 #11

So true laundry_queen Jun 2014 #12

"Debriefing" it is, lq. Claiming your own "reality" back... villager Jun 2014 #13

I can definitely relate Blue_Roses Jun 2014 #14

Hang in there. Callalily Jun 2014 #15

I'm sorry y'all have had trouble. dawg Aug 2014 #16

I know how you feel... a la izquierda Aug 2014 #17

I've had much enjoyment in my life riding Roller coasters. BlueJazz Oct 2014 #18