Anyone here?

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13. I thought there would be more activity, too.

I know there are a number of people who have talked a little about recent separations or divorces in various threads about other issues all over DU, but mostly in The Lounge or on a thread in GD.

I'm 11 months in to a separation after 32 years myself. We don't get to actually file for divorce in our state NC, until after a year of separation. Drags things out unnecessarily in my opinion. Makes it hard to move on.

Even though it was my choice to leave, I'm still grieving the loss of the expectation it was for the rest of our lives. Not looking for another love. I figure I'll stop at being a two time loser and settle for finding or developing friendships.

I moved to a completely different situation about 40 miles from where we lived. Still working on selling the house. I really like my apartment in a high rise downtown building where I can walk to everything. Makes it feel like a new start to be in a new environment and not worry about running into him by chance.

Have you thought about the relocating?