A cautionary tale

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5. Yes, it's not difficult for a deceitful spouse to do that.

Especially if you aren't the one in charge of finances.


This exerpt is my experience too: "Her husband's answers were double talk, but she didn't know enough about money at the time to realize that. She just thought she was stupid about finance"

It's SO important to educate yourself and know EVERYTHING. There are some really good tips in the article, but unfortunately, I don't think most people will follow it even if there ARE warning signs. I trusted my husband with my life. The only way the things in this article work is if you already have had some trust broken unless you plan for this ahead of time. I think everyone should just make this a part of a healthy marriage, reviewing accounts, debts, credit reports etc together. Because if your spouse is being deceitful, you may be the one on the hook (and left in poverty because of it) for all of the debt. It's not pretty, btdt. Please protect yourself, especially if you are not currently bringing in any income, then you are especially vulnerable. I wish I didn't have to learn this the hard way.