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In reply to the discussion: Happy Thanksgiving Loners [View all]

catchnrelease

(2,032 posts)
21. Thanks and back at you!
Sat Nov 30, 2019, 12:33 AM
Nov 2019

Had planned to have a small (5 of us) dinner with friends that we normally only see on Thanksgiving and maybe one other time during the year. So I really look forward to seeing them. Unfortunately my husband felt under the weather and didn't want to go, but said I should still attend. So I did and it was nice to catch up.

But, something there had me laughing to myself. Apparently the hosts had asked one of their neighbors who's wife is out of the country, to join us for dinner. He had said he would come when first asked but later said he didn't think he would make it. My friends called and texted him at least 3 times that I know of, to see if he was going to come. He didn't respond to their contacts. Friends were just gobsmacked that the guy would want to be home by himself and not join us. I finally said 'Maybe he's just an introvert and is happy to be home enjoying a quiet day. I might do the same if it was something I didn't want to attend'. They just didn't get it.

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Happy Thanksgiving Loners [View all] backtoblue Nov 2019 OP
I now volunteer with a group, here in NYC, that delivers meals to the home bound dhol82 Nov 2019 #1
That is AWESOME backtoblue Nov 2019 #3
Awww dhol82 Nov 2019 #8
Thanks BTB. I'm planning to grill steak for one and open some wine. fleur-de-lisa Nov 2019 #2
Small family meal at my grandparents' backtoblue Nov 2019 #4
Thanks blue, peacebuzzard Nov 2019 #5
Yummy backtoblue Nov 2019 #6
Hi new loner friends, cilla4progress Nov 2019 #7
Sounds awesome. dhol82 Nov 2019 #9
That sounds like a lovely day backtoblue Nov 2019 #11
Thank you cilla4progress Nov 2019 #15
We're driving 1.5 hours to be where we don't really want to be, but we already cancelled on one Karadeniz Nov 2019 #10
Safe travels! backtoblue Nov 2019 #16
Cooking for loners Wawannabe Nov 2019 #12
You have a lot to do today! backtoblue Nov 2019 #18
You too! LiberalLoner Nov 2019 #13
Happy Turkey Day! backtoblue Nov 2019 #17
Me, myself and I are having Turkey soup...... can't wait.. mitch96 Nov 2019 #14
Hope all three of you have a great day! backtoblue Nov 2019 #19
Thanks and Happy Thanksgiving to you, yours yonder Nov 2019 #20
Thanks and back at you! catchnrelease Nov 2019 #21
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