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smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
24. I read this in the WaPo when it came out, but I just saw it here.
Fri May 28, 2021, 05:05 AM
May 2021

Sometimes, I wish this issue would be taken more seriously by society as a whole, because I still don't think introverts - our our issues - are taken seriously. It's kind of like, oh, isn't that cute! Well, you still have to play by our rules, sorry!

I can choose my own friends and most of them are either more like me or at least understand and accept my introverted tendencies, but where it is really a problem is at work, where extroverts shine and introverts are not considered to be "team players", blah blah blah. I am dreading going back to the office, even though it will only be about three days per week.

And our company is big on "culture" which means we have all these social events, which are usually happy hours, or other party type events which I have no interest in, so I feel like I am being anti-social when I don't attend. I have been using fear of Covid as an excuse so far (it's mostly the younger people who have been attending these things), but I won't be able to use that legitimately for much longer.

I love that last line! “now that I’m fully vaccinated, I just want you to know that I still won’t be able to make that thing because I don’t want to come.” So perfect!

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I'm one of those who will have to create a fresh list of reasons for regrets, plausible ShazamIam May 2021 #1
I can't even use the excuse of being sick because one of the side-effects Ocelot II May 2021 #2
Yes, no cold or flu, just the spring pollen, which fortunately leads to summer dust, pollen and ShazamIam May 2021 #5
I'm one of those. Probably be a 'hybrid' situation - working at home couple days a week CousinIT May 2021 #3
Yep, yep, yep. tanyev May 2021 #4
I have a feeling Diamond_Dog May 2021 #6
Yup x 2. I got to say that socially, yonder May 2021 #7
Count me as one who is thoroughly comfortable in his cocoon. Midnight Writer May 2021 #8
50 percent of the country is introvert jimfields33 May 2021 #9
See? Introverts do such a good job staying out of the hustle and bustle tanyev May 2021 #14
Lol. Love it and so true. We need you so much to keep things perfect!!!! jimfields33 May 2021 #17
I mean maybe... Unca Jim May 2021 #15
Really? I thought as you did. I really believed that we were a majority extrovert nation. smirkymonkey May 2021 #23
I'm a bit of an introvert but I'm looking forward to being able to do a few more things captain queeg May 2021 #10
I get to continue working from home zuul May 2021 #11
I've been socially distancing most of my life (not really, but it's a great excuse!) George II May 2021 #12
Introvert here. orangecrush May 2021 #13
I turned down my 50th class reunion citing COVID. Delmette2.0 May 2021 #16
I'm so grateful mine isn't until 2022. jimfields33 May 2021 #18
I truely hope you have a great time. nt Delmette2.0 May 2021 #19
Thank you so much. jimfields33 May 2021 #20
Make Up DemUnleashed May 2021 #21
I missed celebrating a few family Mr.Bill May 2021 #22
I read this in the WaPo when it came out, but I just saw it here. smirkymonkey May 2021 #24
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