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In reply to the discussion: Shy versus "stuck up" ? [View all]

catchnrelease

(2,030 posts)
9. Not stuck up but similar
Tue Sep 16, 2014, 10:08 PM
Sep 2014

At the place where I worked before I retired, the job duties I had required me to cover a lot of ground daily, walking from one area of this public attraction to another. And getting a lot of detail work done in the daily shift. There was a staff of custodians there also who had their office/lunch area moved to a building next to the one that was 'my' office.

Most days I walked as if on a mission, and kept my head down so I didn't have to interact with the public much so as not to get held up or delayed in getting my work done. I was polite if approached by the public or employees from other departments, and did joke around and was friendly with my co-workers.

After the custodians had been working around my area for awhile, and we were all on friendly terms, one of them said to me "Wow, I always thought you were mean or unfriendly. You're really funny!" I was kind of taken aback at first, but when I thought about it, I am sure that's the impression I must have given. I just didn't want to spend time on small talk with people I didn't know, so I went about my business.

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Shy versus "stuck up" ? [View all] steve2470 Sep 2014 OP
Used to all the time. silverweb Sep 2014 #1
haha ! steve2470 Sep 2014 #2
Exactly, silverweb. (nt) enough Sep 2014 #4
And how! The invisibility cloak I got when I turned 50 is something I have enjoyed Warpy Sep 2014 #7
I have to agree with you. dballance Sep 2014 #3
sorry to hear you've had grief over it ! steve2470 Sep 2014 #5
No worries. I'm a fat, old white guy now. dballance Sep 2014 #6
Story of my life LiberalEsto Sep 2014 #8
Not stuck up but similar catchnrelease Sep 2014 #9
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