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Sexual Assault Survivors Support

In_The_Wind

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31. Over the years, I have learned to trust my judgment.

Reply to sigmasix (Reply #30)

Mon Mar 25, 2013, 09:16 AM

Mar 2013

There is no one that I have found to trust for long.
My behavior is not the problem.
I need and want a strong emotionally man to love.
I don't think that is to much to ask.
I'm tired of being alone in my world caring for the needs of others.
It's my time for someone to cherish me .
I'm worth the effort it takes to live with a survivor.

I am sorry for what you went through.
You are one of the lucky ones to have found someone like your wife.

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I am a survivor of childhood sexual abuse. [View all] In_The_Wind Mar 2013 OP

. NYC_SKP Mar 2013 #1

Yep. You are one of the few who knew some of this before tonight. In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #2

It is amazing what opening up just a little bit can lead to. Ms. Toad Mar 2013 #3

You helped more than all of the shrinks for 40 years Ms. Toad. In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #4

:) Ms. Toad Mar 2013 #5

Thank you! It would not be fair to a newbie if anyone had to replace me now. In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #6

... Aristus Mar 2013 #7

It helps me to heal so that the rest of my life will be happier. In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #8

You are so brave Sekhmets Daughter Mar 2013 #9

Oh dear. You missed the best chapter: In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #10

Hello, In The Wind! Sissyk Mar 2013 #11

Thank you. CPS did not exist when I needed them. In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #12

When I was in a different state..and it seemed people actually like me..I wanted to heal angstlessk Mar 2013 #13

I understand how much that hurt you. It victimized you again. I'm sorry. In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #15

Oh my god, I can relate...there were persons in my life that I should have clung to angstlessk Mar 2013 #14

It's overwhelmingly painful for those who try to love us. In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #16

Is crying good.. angstlessk Mar 2013 #17

in my opinion, yes. crying can help to wash the pain from your heart. In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #18

Has your father responded to you? I understand your distrust... angstlessk Mar 2013 #19

My father passed away in 1972. I have no problem telling the good guys from the bad. In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #20

In my life men have always been my prblem..so I guess angstlessk Mar 2013 #21

I am an alpha female who is only attracted to men if that clarifies it for you. In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #22

I never thought of myself as gay until I saw a person whom I thought was a man angstlessk Mar 2013 #23

I am so sorry. imo: women can be more cruel than men. In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #24

I wish you healing and peace! hrmjustin Mar 2013 #25

If what I have learned can help someone else to heal ... In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #26

Listening to other stories has helped me in my healing process. hrmjustin Mar 2013 #27

Healing belongs to all of us. Now, thanks to DU, this is the place for help. In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #28

Thank you my friend. hrmjustin Mar 2013 #29

childhood assault repeats itself sigmasix Mar 2013 #30

Over the years, I have learned to trust my judgment. In_The_Wind Mar 2013 #31