Elder-caregivers

No Vested Interest

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20. Dear one, just go with the flow at this time.

Thu May 5, 2022, 02:29 PM

May 2022

Let others do what they must do, and breathe deeply and know that we are not fully in charge and never have been fully in charge.

He has fought the good fight, and you have done all that you could for your good and dear man.

Let be what will be, for your own good and for his good.
All here join with you in your sorrow and sense of powerlessness at this time.

Find the peace you need in this moment.

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Woudn't follow instructions [View all] CountAllVotes May 2022 OP

I am so, so sorry. BigMin28 May 2022 #1

I'm sorry XanaDUer2 May 2022 #2

I'm sorry you are going through all this. Bluethroughu May 2022 #3

I cannot imagine how alone you must feel right now. jmbar2 May 2022 #4

I hope he goes quick CountAllVotes May 2022 #5

Focus all your love on the kitties jmbar2 May 2022 #6

They are moving him now CountAllVotes May 2022 #7

If he or you were veterans, call your local VA 3Hotdogs May 2022 #9

He is a veteran CountAllVotes May 2022 #10

Get in touch with the Legion 3Hotdogs May 2022 #11

What do they do? CountAllVotes May 2022 #12

Sending hugs your way snowybirdie May 2022 #8

Oh, no! Sincerest sympathy for you at this time... we know old age and its problem loom, but it's Karadeniz May 2022 #13

It is so hard to be a caregiver. Hugs to you. BoomaofBandM May 2022 #14

Its been a real bitch CountAllVotes May 2022 #15

You were good enough, you gave him lots of time he would not have had. BoomaofBandM May 2022 #16

yes 44 years CountAllVotes May 2022 #17

That is a long time. BoomaofBandM May 2022 #18

.. CountAllVotes May 2022 #19

Dear one, just go with the flow at this time. No Vested Interest May 2022 #20

Thank you CountAllVotes May 2022 #21

Update on this situation CountAllVotes May 2022 #22