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hamsterjill

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37. Prayers said for your family.

Sun Mar 1, 2026, 06:50 PM

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I am sorry for your loss. 95 is quite an accomplishment. My dad lived to that age. You are right in that there are a lot of details, etc. to attend to. Give yourself some grace and time to process. All of the chores will be there when you're ready.

Sending hugs.

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