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BigmanPigman

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Mon Apr 21, 2025, 02:26 AM

Apr 21

I am rapidly getting dementia. Simple words and simple math have become more difficult within the past year. My Prim Care Doctor wasn't alarmed but I can tell there is definitely a big change.

I tried to find out how to renew my Dr License last week and after 2 1/2 hours on the useless DMV web site I gave up on trying to figure out why they would not let me make an appointment. Finally I went to Reddit for some decent info. It seems that you can renew it on line only 2 consecutive times in CA. Why doesn't their web site say that?!?!?!?

Then, to make "an appointment" there is more confusion (naturally). I have no idea what to do and I live only 2 blocks from the DMV. I "think" you have to go in to the DMV with some secret code on your phone and once you get into the DMV you show someone/something your cell phone secret code and that is supposed to be your "appointment". It sounds bogus. I assume that I will have to stand in line for 2 hours just to be told that it is incorrect and I need to stand in at least one more line. Since I literally live a 5 minute walk away it would be easier to wait at home and walk over once my "secret appointment number" at my appointment time. Since this is the CA DMV they do NOT make sense at all and love to torture people. The DMV are sadists!

I hope your local DMV is run better than mine. I have to get a new photo and eye test. This will take an entire day since the DMV lines are literally around the block and have been since 1988 when I moved here.

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I was diagnoised in 2013... [View all] Omaha Steve Apr 20 OP

I wish you the best Shellback Squid Apr 20 #1

Thank you for sharing and providing the link. You are a huge asset here at DU and to the Democratic Party. MLAA Apr 20 #59

I'm sorry to hear it is progressing, Omaha Steve. Truly. And I wish you all the luck I can find... hlthe2b Apr 20 #2

Oh man. Scary news. MontanaMama Apr 20 #3

Good luck in your driving test. magicarpet Apr 20 #4

thinking about giving up driving CountAllVotes Apr 20 #5

Be sure to NEVER use cruise control if pavement is damp or wet. Attilatheblond Apr 20 #50

Thanks for the advice CountAllVotes Apr 20 #73

Understand completely Attilatheblond Apr 20 #77

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You have done remarkably well jmbar2 Apr 20 #7

golf cart. my family had one for a while. just a thought Tetrachloride Apr 20 #8

The family at the top of the hill uses one in the neighborhood, especially as the dad's health declined Hekate Apr 20 #53

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You are taking this well. 1WorldHope Apr 20 #9

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Well, good luck. That is a more thorough test compared to 15 min with the dmv tester. 1WorldHope Apr 20 #13

3 hours? Akakoji Apr 20 #36

I wondered this too. An in-depth assessment TommyT139 Apr 20 #80

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thanks for the brief education on this OS peacebuzzard Apr 20 #11

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thank you! it is a minor freak out of mine when I forget things, peacebuzzard Apr 20 #63

Praying you do well. My husband had to quit driving recently; I understand what a Ziggysmom Apr 20 #14

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You've got this, Steve! no_hypocrisy Apr 20 #24

I like this for a mantra. peacebuzzard Apr 20 #65

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Driving tests are scary enough no matter one's age or health status. 3catwoman3 Apr 20 #47

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I hope you are still road-worthy, Steve True Dough Apr 20 #54

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I am sorry Omaha Steve. You've been a stalwart member of DU for almost 21 years. ------- Fla Dem Apr 20 #72

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Hoping that all goes well for you. love_katz Apr 20 #78

Thank you for sharing and providing the link. You are a huge asset here at DU and to the Democratic Party. MLAA Apr 20 #79

Good luck. elleng Apr 20 #81

OmahaSteve I'm sorry to hear this and I wish you much luck FakeNoose Apr 20 #82

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I am so sorry, Omaha Steve. Bumbles Apr 21 #95

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Wishing you all the best luck and results. Moostache Apr 21 #98

Im so sorry. You must be so scared :( My husband had an MRI last week.. samnsara Apr 21 #99

Best of luck Steve! Polybius Apr 22 #100

I turned 68 in January Omaha Steve Apr 22 #101

All the best to you Steve. JohnSJ Apr 22 #102