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Marthe48

(19,953 posts)
7. I don't have religion but I have faith
Wed Mar 23, 2022, 08:55 AM
Mar 2022

The last few times I've been inside a church has been for funerals, weddings and other social rituals.

A comedian once wondered shy you have to go to church every week, thought that after 2 or 3 times, you should get it.

But church is a place of social interaction. You go to a church hoping to find like-minded people, be part of a segment of your community. Unfortunately, too many people think the person in the pulpit is not just a spokesman for the Lord, but like the Pope, Christ in the flesh on Earth. And infallible.

I went to church when I was a kid. I identify as Society of Friends, but also remeber I learned how to play shuffleboard in the basement. I attended some services at a Baptist church, before and after the philosphy went from helping your neighbor, to assuring us that God wanted us to be successful and if only you follow Him, you will get the most cows. With Biblical quotes to back up the new philosphy of God as capitalist. Most churches now promise affluence rather than being a conduit for good works. And the best cons in the pulpits are very good at lining their pockets and hanging on to the alms.

Years ago, my nephews were all interested in satan worship and the dark side. I knew that trying to talk them out of going that way wouldn't sway them, so I thought if I adhered to light and goodness, I'd be an example for them. I have come to realize that it is a lot easier to do the wrong thing than to do the right thing, but after 30 some years, it has gotten easier.

I don't have many conservatives in my life that I talk to, but I realized that it would be easier for them to come toward me than for me to go toward them. I am not right or wrong. I am trying to live my own life without harming others and if I go toward them, I am surrendering to the dark side.

In all, I hope that praying will send healing energy to those who need it. Even if I recently have doubts that a Supreme Entity, God hears my entreaties, I hope that my personal mindfulness on a daily basis helps me be a positive in the world, not a negative.

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KNR niyad Mar 2022 #1
My aunt said "Religion should be like your underwear, personal and private." SharonAnn Mar 2022 #25
Some people equate their Christian god with morality Farmer-Rick Mar 2022 #2
Prayer: The Original Lottery chwaliszewski Mar 2022 #3
There's some chance of actually winning in the lottery. plimsoll Mar 2022 #4
WHOA!!! Colbert gets the Quote of the Week! calimary Mar 2022 #5
That last one x infinity. n/t TygrBright Mar 2022 #6
I don't have religion but I have faith Marthe48 Mar 2022 #7
While I don't buy the whole God thing, as I'm a Humanist. multigraincracker Mar 2022 #13
I have a lot of friends at 2 local UU churches Marthe48 Mar 2022 #15
Say a prayer in one hand and wish in the other and see what comes true. Red Raider 85 Mar 2022 #22
As I said Marthe48 Mar 2022 #24
The perfect business dupagelib Mar 2022 #8
Ding! Ding! Ding! GB_RN Mar 2022 #9
Thank you, ItsjustMe. Dr. T Mar 2022 #10
This is so good. Really. liberalla Mar 2022 #11
Jesus had two Dads and he turned out OK. Evolve Dammit Mar 2022 #12
Wasn't Eve a multigraincracker Mar 2022 #14
Good one! keithbvadu2 Mar 2022 #17
Then God gives us 1 in 2,000 births as multigraincracker Mar 2022 #23
Hypocrisy and the practicing religious hypocrites Roc2020 Mar 2022 #16
Freedom of religion... For some more than others. keithbvadu2 Mar 2022 #18
Shouldn't we pretend Jesus said stuff about gays and abortion? IronLionZion Mar 2022 #19
I don't need religion because I have a conscience. OMGWTF Mar 2022 #20
Why no source code, so to speak? Red Raider 85 Mar 2022 #21
thank you Skittles Mar 2022 #26
"Praise be unto He." Pinback Mar 2022 #27
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